Codependency Alchemy: The Podcast

Listen, we all experience a fear of abandonment, and in this episode I give a visual representation of this fear and how we can overcome it in our lives, relationships, and work. My intention is that you walk away feeling empowered, inspired, and lighter around the core wound of abandonment. 🙏🏾 If the podcast is supporting you on your journey, please share and leave a rating or review so that ot...

In this episode I coach a member from our Codependency Alchemy membership. We discuss her fear around "taking a step back" from her business and a reframe for this, and I also support her in moving through a past experience that was bringing up a lot of anger, frustration, and resentment. Grab this assessment 👉🏾 Are You Codependent? 10 Questions to Ask Codependency Alchemy: The Course...

In this Alchemy episode we will be moving through a somatic practice, bringing awareness to where manipulation lives in our body so that we can access the healing this part of us needs. This episode is best listened to when you can find yourself in a safe space where you won't be interrupted. 🙏🏾 If the podcast is supporting you on your journey, please share and leave a rating or review so t...

In this episode, I coach a mom who is navigating old toxic relationship dynamics, and how they impact her life as a partner and a mom. So much of what we learned, and how we learned to be, growing up can have an influence on how we relate to others in our adult life. If you have ever felt responsible for everyone's emotions and feelings, this episode will help you not feel so alone, and remin...

Me? Manipulate? YIKES. In this episode I get real and vulnerable with you about my first conscious exploration of manipulation, and how I started to see all the ways I WAS MANIPULATING while on a trip with my partner. You're gonna want to listen to this one, babes! 🙏🏾 If the podcast is supporting you on your journey, please share and leave a rating or review so that other people can receive...

Do you notice yourself getting angry when you feel that you have clearly conveyed or communicated something with someone and then they act like it was never heard or seen? Do you feel like you are sometimes talking to a wall? If you feel disrespected and frustrated when communicating your boundaries to others then this Q&A episode is for you! 🙏🏾 If the podcast is supporting you on your journ...

When there is something we are struggling with, there is usually an underlying fear that is keeping us from doing the thing. In this weeks Alchemy episode we are going to move through the shadow work and somatic work for uncovering what those fears are, and meeting them within ourselves so that we can experience more compassion and joy in our lives and in our relationships. 🙏🏾 If the podcast is...

I loved our conversation on feeling burnt out on enforcing boundaries, and how we can shift our perception of others misunderstanding (or outright ignoring) us and our boundaries from a victim mentality to one that is empowering (hint hint: it has to do with curiosity!) 🙏🏾 If the podcast is supporting you on your journey, please share and leave a rating or review so that other people can receive...

We hear a lot about boundaries and the importance of them, but there is this misconception that boundaries mean someone else needs to do (or not do) something in order to "respect" your boundaries... I have a hot take on this, have a listen! 🙏🏾 If the podcast is supporting you on your journey, please share and leave a rating or review so that other people can receive support and find t...

We celebrate the end of an incredible first season of Codependency Alchemy and share exciting news for the future! 🙏🏾 If the podcast is supporting you on your journey, please share and leave a rating or review so that other people can receive support and find the podcast! Resources: Codependency Alchemy: The Membership : Subscribe on Substack for weekly shadow work prompts, exclusive podcast epi...

Join me as we unravel the intricate layers of fears  that can often leave us feeling vulnerable and uncertain in our relationships and discover empowering ways to heal and transform it. Together, we'll explore a somatic practice that has personally supported me in my own journey of healing core wounds related to abandonment, rejection, and betrayal. 🙏🏾 If the podcast is supporting you on yo...

In Part Two, we invite you to embark on a somatic journey, unraveling the roots of the pattern within your own body and unlocking the keys to self-empowerment. For the optimal experience, find a quiet space where you can close your eyes, creating an environment conducive to tapping into your inner wisdom.  🙏🏾 If the podcast is supporting you on your journey, please share and leave a rating or re...

As people with codependency tendencies, we often believe that fixing or saving others makes us good people, even viewing it as our "job." However, underneath this seemingly noble intention lies a web of unconscious beliefs that drive our need to fix or save others. In Part One of this episode we focus on addressing the shadow work, navigating the uncharted territory of our own unconsciou...

In this episode, we emphasize the importance of getting clear on your desires and focusing on how they make you feel, rather than fixating on specific details. Uncover the steps you and your partner can take to manifest your desired experiences, creating a roadmap towards a more fulfilling and harmonious relationship. 🙏🏾 If the podcast is supporting you on your journey, please share and leave a...

In this episode of Codependency Alchemy, we delve deep into the intricate relationship between self-doubt and fear, unraveling the hidden layers that often go unnoticed. My hope is that you will leave with newfound clarity and are empowered to take action steps towards transmuting and meeting this part of yourself with compassion and grace.  🙏🏾 If the podcast is supporting you on your journey, p...

In this episode, we explore the topic of relationship anxiety and self-sabotage and how it can impact our ability to step fully into a healthy relationship. This episode will guide you through an inner child and shadow work practice to help you identify the root of your relationship anxiety and self-sabotaging behavior.  🙏🏾 If the podcast is supporting you on your journey, please share and leave...

In this episode, I share my personal experiences with codependency and how it has manifested in seeking validation outside of myself and falling into the trap of fixing and saviorism with a family member. Join me as I discuss the power of self-awareness, personal responsibility, and the journey towards healing codependency. 🙏🏾 If the podcast is supporting you on your journey, please share and le...

Have you ever felt an intense spark or love at first sight, only to realize later that it was a toxic and emotionally abusive relationship? In this episode, we explore the difference between chemistry and trauma bonding, and how to identify if you are in a healthy, loving relationship.  🙏🏾 If the podcast is supporting you on your journey, please share and leave a rating or review so that other p...

In this episode, we explore the challenges of asserting boundaries in relationships. Whether you're struggling with over-giving in your romantic relationship or feeling drained by always saying yes to friends and family, this episode will provide valuable insights and practical strategies for setting healthy boundaries and creating fulfilling relationships. 🙏🏾 If the podcast is supporting y...

 In this episode, we dive into the challenges of dealing with ghosting and anxious attachment in relationships. In this Q&A episode I take a question from a listener about her experience of struggling with codependency and anxiety when her partner doesn't respond for days at a time.  🙏🏾 If the podcast is supporting you on your journey, please share and leave a rating or review so that o...

In this episode, we dive deep into the patterns of over-giving and self-sacrifice, and explore the reasons behind why we engage in these behaviors. We discuss the transactional agenda behind over-giving and self-sacrifice, and the consequences of these patterns, including feelings of resentment, burnout, and being unappreciated. 🙏🏾 If the podcast is supporting you on your journey, please share a...

In this episode, we delve into the topic of codependency and explore how it can impact our lives and relationships. We discuss how codependency can manifest as a lack of personal responsibility for ourselves and how we place our worth and good feelings about ourselves on something outside of us. 🙏🏾 If the podcast is supporting you on your journey, please share and leave a rating or review so tha...

Alyssa Zander here, your favorite codependency and relationship coach! I am so excited to embark on this podcast journey where I will continue to share my personal stories and expertise on how to heal from codependency and navigate relationships in a healthy way. After experiencing trauma and struggling with core wounds of abandonment, rejection, and betrayal, I began to explore the parts of mysel...