Closeness

One of the most difficult and excruciating parts of relationships are breakups and the events leading up to them. Sometimes though, they can be avoided simply by recognizing the early warning signs. Why do we ignore them so readily?   In this episode we’ll show you what it looks like when someone is starting to withdraw from you, as well as the twisted truth about what really happens when on...

Fighting and Manipulation Tactics Solved (Part 2) In this follow-up episode, we delve deeper into the roots of arguments and manipulative behaviors in relationships—and, more importantly, how to resolve them. From communication pitfalls to accountability issues, this episode breaks down actionable strategies to stop the cycle of fighting to foster healthier, more respectful interactions. Why Certa...

Solving Conflict (Part 1) In this episode, we explore the messy world of arguments, manipulation tactics, and how to resolve conflict in a better and more healthy way than what you’re used to. Whether you’re interrogating your partner, misinterpreting their actions, or are stuck in a cycle of accusations, this episode will help you reimagine how you approach disagreements and poor reactions....

Are you curious about what really happens during an in-person sex coaching session? This episode takes you behind the scenes to show exactly why Closeness is renowned for creating breakthroughs and delivering sizzling results.  From the moment you walk in, you’ll feel welcomed into a space that’s safe, open, and pressure-free. Sessions are tailored to meet your unique needs—whether you’re struggli...

Self love and “touching yourself” is an interesting concept. Observe how you feel when you simply read the question: “Do you touch yourself?” or “Do you masturbate?” Some women have no issue being handsy multiple times a day, while others rarely touch themselves with no immediate plans to do so in the future. If we tack on the additional challenge of touching yo...

Helping a woman spill over into orgasm is a very exciting experience.  We’re big fans of the whole process. But getting her there is not always about what you think, especially if you’re the kind of man who is destination oriented and who prides yourself on making women come. In this episode we’ll explore this and several other concepts including:  – Understanding word play...

Decisiveness: Your Attraction Cheat Code Let’s be real: Women are magnetically drawn to men who know exactly what they want. Forget pick-up lines and bedroom tricks. Do you want great chemistry and attraction? Decisiveness is your secret weapon. We’re talking about that electric confidence that makes her lean in, not pull away. This isn’t about being aggressive, domineering or hy...

Have you ever caught yourself creating emotional barriers with a simple phrase like, “You don’t know me!” or “You’re a stranger!” or “You could be a serial killer” when you’re on a date and trying to make a smart choice?  These seemingly innocent words carry more weight than we realize, potentially sabotaging our chances for genuine connection....

Unrequited love — what to do when feelings aren’t equal — is one of the most painful and least talked-about experiences in dating and relationships. You can’t control who you fall for, and you certainly can’t control whether they fall back. In this episode, intimacy coach Tari explores both sides of unequal attraction: what you owe someone who’s vulnerable with you, how to...

Ever find yourself telling someone, “I don’t want to waste my time” on a date? Sure, it feels like you’re setting boundaries, but let’s be real—this harsh phrase can come off as dismissive and cold. What about the other person’s time? It implies that anyone who doesn’t instantly captivate you or fulfill your expectations is disposable. Instead of fostering connection, it shuts people d...

Have you ever been accused of “playing games” or not being upfront? For many of us, the challenge lies in uttering three deceptively simple words: I’m not interested. This single sentence has the power to save both time and heartache—for you and for others. If we’re honest, ignoring someone’s advances often does convey disinterest, but only part of the time. In other cases, our silence could be ro...

Being too busy is one of the most quietly damaging things you can signal to someone who wants to be close to you. Not because it's mean — but because of what it communicates without a single honest word: that your time matters more, that they aren't worth a follow-up, and that you're not someone who shows up. In this episode, Tari unpacks why chronic busyness and lateness aren't personality quirks...

Unspoken Expectations and First Encounters The moments leading up to intimacy—the anticipation, connection, and discovery—are often just as profound as the intimacy itself. But what happens after that first experience? A dynamic begins to take shape, often filled with unspoken expectations about what happens next, subtle cues that most people do not pick up on, and decisions that can either deepen...

Mastering Intimacy: What to Do When You Have Sex for the First Time You’ve built a connection, the chemistry is real, and now you’re headed to the bedroom. But here’s the thing: do you know what to do specifically that will make that first time unforgettable? First impressions in intimacy matter—they can set the tone for your relationship moving forward. One wrong move might fizzle the spark, but...

Episode 1: Welcome Closeness In this inaugural episode of  the Closeness Podcast, we lay the foundation for a transformative journey into the world of sexual tension, chemistry, and pleasure. With a unique approach that blends sensuality, sophistication, and authenticity, this episode introduces you to the art of creating deeper, healthier more meaningful connections… sure. But also teaches...