Closeness

In this incredible three part series, host Tari shares his thought-provoking stance on who should pay and why. He draws on countless personal experiences as well as experiences from others that have helped shape his philosophies over time. Over three and a half hours of content spread out over three episodes ensures you’ll reexamine almost everything you thought about dating rituals and male, fema...

Unlocking the Secrets of Closeness: How to Know if she’s Into You When it comes to creating genuine closeness with someone, the conversation often starts with what not to do. Avoiding common mistakes can set the stage for meaningful connection, but there’s so much more to the art of intimacy than simply avoiding pitfalls. This episode takes you beyond the basics, diving into the subtle yet powerfu...

Mastering Communication and Intimacy: Unlock Closeness in Your Relationship Flip through any self-help book, and you’ll likely come across the timeless mantra: “Communication is key.” But let’s be real—do we actually know how to communicate? Are we confident in expressing our needs, or do we hold back out of shyness? Do we truly say what we mean, or leave our partner guessing? And perhaps most imp...

We all have the potential to make relationships thrive, but are long-distance relationships truly worth the effort? If you’ve experienced one or are navigating one now, you already understand the unique challenges: the lack of regular visits, the absence of physical connection, and the emotional strain that comes with prolonged separation. In this episode, we delve into the many drawbacks of long-...

What does it look like when a woman who spent decades in a marriage — and a lifetime navigating cultural expectations — finally steps into her own desire? In this episode, Tari sits down with an anonymous guest for one of Closeness’s most candid interviews yet. She’s 48, newly single after a long marriage, and Persian — raised between two worlds with very different rules about what a w...

What does it mean to be demisexual, and how does this identity intersect with the complexities of online dating? What does it truly take for someone like Sarah to experience arousal and connection? In this captivating and deeply personal episode, we sit down with a remarkable woman whose warmth, insight, and infectious laugh make her story all the more compelling. Sarah shares her journey with vul...

Traveling has always been one of the most exciting ways to immerse ourselves in life, culture, and romance. In this episode, we sit down with Marisa, a newly turned twenty-one-year-old, to explore her adventures in world travel, love, and sexuality. Her fresh perspective on navigating life as a young, single woman is as enlightening as it is arousing, touching on topics that resonate with both Gen...

At first glance, the idea of men and women being “just friends” seems simple enough —of course they can! But is that really what’s happening when sexual attraction enters the picture? This episode takes a thought-provoking dive into the subtle dynamics and unspoken exchanges that often occur in male-female friendships. How often do men go out of their way to perform favors for women in the hopes o...

In the gripping finale of our Deadly Sins of Online Dating series, we reveal the final thirteen missteps that can doom your dating life—and, more importantly, how to avoid them. If you’re serious about stepping up your game and making real connections, this episode is your ultimate guide to sidestepping the biggest pitfalls of modern dating culture. Here’s what we cover: •Using vague or filler phr...

In the second installment of the Deadly Sins of Online Dating, we’re tackling some of the most cringe-worthy behaviors that send online dating connections straight to the trash. Ready to up your dating game? Let’s dive in: •Looking significantly worse in person than your worst profile photo. Let’s face it, your photos set expectations. Catfishing through selective editing or outdated pics? Not a v...

Online dating is a bit like stepping into the wild West—lawless, chaotic, and full of promise, but it also isn’t without its pitfalls. For some, it’s thrilling, while for others, it’s a little secret we only whisper about to our closest friends. With endless choices and cutting-edge technology in the palm of our hands, why do so many of us leave dating apps feeling more frustrated, jaded, an...

Building genuine closeness with someone else begins with a deep connection to yourself: learning how to care for your mind, body, and soul while staying in alignment with who you truly are. In this episode, we unlock the incredible power of your own presence. Sounds simple, right? But this one shift can transform not just your relationships but your entire life. We’ll dive into how physical activi...

Unlock the Power of Sensual Meditations: A Unique Listening Experience Welcome to a new kind of meditation—one that isn’t about zoning out or falling asleep but about waking up your senses and diving into the world of erotic energy. This episode introduces sensual meditations.  Created to excite and arouse rather than relax. Think of it as a sensual rampage of appreciation, a way to ignite positiv...

Common Behaviors That Might Be Hurting Your Relationships: What Women Should Know In this episode, we dive into behaviors that women (often unconsciously) engage in that could harm their relationships and interactions. It’s not about placing blame—it’s about building awareness and fostering growth. Let’s explore the patterns, habits, and mindsets that may be holding you back from deeper, healthier...

CHAPTERS:  0:00 Intro  3:16 The Reality TV effect on behavior  11:24 How do men feel about it all 13:10 Solutions and answers 16:15 2. Stealing your partners thunder in conflict  22:00 Answers and solutions  24:00 3. Being scared of everyone  30:20 I can’t be wrong or I would rather be right  32:26 Prioritizing social media over human connection 34:44 Outro...

Have you thought about where you can go to get help for intimacy and relationship issues? Hopefully after listening to the Closeness podcast you know that we are here for you. We offer in person private meetings and video chat as well as text support. But what if you’re not ready for that yet and you’re more of a private person?   In this episode Brianna introduces Juicebox: an app tha...

Dancers have always understood something that many of us are just starting to figure out—leading and following in dance isn’t just about choreography; it’s a powerful metaphor for relationships, especially in the bedroom.   And it’s what women want.   In this episode, we explore how the trust and connection built through dance can lead to deeper intimacy and better sex. For women, learning t...

Briana Gibson is a force to be reckoned with on the dance floor, and in this candid interview with @breezydanceswcs, she gives us an insider’s look into the art of nonverbal communication through dance. Three minutes of moving closely with someone can reveal more about their personality, energy, and intentions than hours of conversation. Crazy, right? Briana takes us deep into this unspoken langua...

Ever wondered why women often don’t try again after approaching or initiating just once? The truth is, rejection cuts deep—often more than you realize. In this episode, we’ll unpack how intensely women tend to internalize rejection and explore what both partners can do to navigate this delicate dynamic. Spoiler: it’s not just about the initial “no,” but how that “no” is communicated. Rejection is...

Have you ever thought about how much sex you want in a day, a week, or a month? Or do you avoid quantifying it altogether, thinking it’s too personal or restrictive? And here’s another question: once you’ve slept with someone a few times, who should initiate? These seemingly simple questions can ignite deeper conversations—and even lead to couple’s coaching. At the heart of Closeness Coaching is t...

Balancing Passion and Partnership: What Happens When Your Partner Doesn’t Share Your Interests? Our passions and hobbies often define us—they’re what light us up, give us purpose, and make life more exciting. For some, these activities are just a fun pastime. For others, they hold the same weight as deeply personal values, like religious beliefs or major life decisions. But what happens when your...

Most men who care about pleasing a woman are working with incomplete information — not because they're inattentive, but because nobody gave them the full picture, and women have learned, for reasons both cultural and deeply personal, to stay quiet about what they actually want. Going down on a woman well is not primarily a technique. It is an act of attention — and this episode is the most complet...

Unlocking the Art of Deep Listening and Mind-Blowing Oral Sex Intimacy isn’t just about physical connection; it’s about tuning in with your whole being. Deep listening means learning to read your partner on a level that goes beyond words—so you don’t have to ask so many questions. It’s about paying attention to her signals, her body language, and her energy to create an experience that feels elect...

Refining the Art of Intimacy: A Guide to Memorable Sexual EncountersYou’ve shared moments of connection, and now you’re poised for some fun in the bedroom. While the mechanics of sex might be universally understood, the art of properly seducing a woman and truly connecting with a new partner on this level is a dance. Learn how to navigate the intricacies of this first intimate encounte...

One of the most difficult and excruciating parts of relationships are breakups and the events leading up to them. Sometimes though, they can be avoided simply by recognizing the early warning signs. Why do we ignore them so readily? In this episode we’ll show you what it looks like when someone is starting to withdraw from you, as well as the twisted truth about what really happens when one...