Chatting With The Lightkeeper | Your Ultimate Guide To Exploring BDSM, D/S, And Kink

Would You Like Soup, Salad, Submission, Or Dominance With Your Entree? In this episode, I am going to chat about some of my thoughts on picking sides. I am not going to be offering advice on if soup or salad would complement your dinner but on the process of discovery that leads a person to call one side of the D/S slash home and how that decision may evolve. So grab your salad, soup, or both and...

It is the holiday season and so let’s celebrate. This episode is about celebrating the successes of a D/S partnership, rather than focusing on the consequences of flubs, dubs, and broken rules.

People say that wisdom comes when a person embraces their biggest mistakes, so with that in mind, I chat about some of my missteps in the lifestyle with the hope that others will use my blunders to create wisdom for themselves.

I understand that many were in a frenzy for my next podcast to drop so here it is and on this episode, I chat about being in a lifestyle frenzied state along with how to safely handle navigate things should you find yourself there.

In this podcast, I chat about some of the things that I believe all D/S relationships need to have to create a successful partnership. So much of social media and lifestyle sites are filled with horror stories of relationships going wrong, I wanted to talk about positive ways to craft a thriving D/S partnership. Also, because I am a superstitious ice hockey goalie, I could not bring myself to use...

In my twelfth installment, I want to chat about a few of the things I would change if I should ever be anointed king of kink, even for a day.

Welcome to the eleventh installment of my D/S lifestyle-themed podcast. In this episode, I will be discussing the danger that dominant 'trainers' bring to new or newer submissives and how mentors are a much better path for lifestyle growth.

On this episode, I chat about lifestyle play, consent, understanding yourself as well as the joys of toys, and the best part of all the lifestyle fun and games, aftercare.

The thoughts for this episode came out of a question about long term lifestyle partnerships and will touch on the pitfalls of lifestyle love which, spoiler alert, are not normally lifestyle issues.

So often all of us can get caught up in a sea of no. Often, saying no can be easier than yes but saying yes, especially in a D/S relationship has so many benefits. With that in mind, I chat about the power of saying yes.

Within the D/S lifestyle it is so important to agree to disagree while learning from the journeys of others, even if we do not practice things the same way.

On this episode of my podcast, I chat about what I think are the five most common mistakes people make when they are starting a new lifestyle relationship. I hope that sharing these mistakes will help others avoid these pitfalls.

I am joined by my friend Ali and we have a conversation about being Wordie, lighthouses, and of course the D/S lifestyle. To learn more about Ali, please head over to her blog, alibabe48.tumblr.com (You must be signed in on Tumblr).

Welcome to episode four of my podcast. On this episode, I chat about red flags and why these are things to be aware of, look out for, and to step away from. 

In this episode (said in my dramatic TV voice), I chat about coming to and going away from the lifestyle and how it is a beacon of light, not darkness.

In this episode, I discuss some of the myths that compare the D/S lifestyle to vanilla relationships, my take on "Crime and Punishment" or better said rules and punishment and while I did not record this in black jeans, my mind was humming Michael Penn's No Myth while I was jotting notes down before recording. Please enjoy episode two and I look forward to chatting with you again in two weeks. Unt...

Expanding my Lightkeeper's blog with the addition of a podcast. Since this is the first episode, I thought I would talk about where my journey started for me.