Can't Find My Brain For the Fog: Discussing Love, Loss, and Life After

We recorded this just before New Years, but hadn't a chance to upload it. We hope you enjoy our little recap and planning for 2026.

In this episode we invited the Crappy Club back as we explore some of the hard parts of celebrating the holidays without your spouse and how lives change when grief becomes part of the season.

On this week's episode, we invited some of our friends from our "Crappy Club" to sit in and chat with us about their stories. As always, we laugh, we cry, and we laugh while we cry. We hope you enjoy! Also, we want to hear from you! Please let us know what topics you'd like to hear us cover!

In this week's episode, we are talking about the public aspect of grieving, including the weight of judgement that comes with it. Share your topic ideas with us on Facebook or Instagram!

On this week's episode, we finish up our conversation with Gretchen Starnes, who shares with us the struggles of navigating dating after loss.

We have Gretchen Starnes on today's episode, sharing her own journey of the loss of her spouse and how grief is a lifelong process. Starnes will be back for episode 16 to talk more, so be sure to listen in. To hear more from her about her role as a Family Aftercare Manager with Network for Hope, listen to her on Ep. 115: "Healing After Loss: Gretchen Starnes on Grief, Hope, and the Gift o...

Some weeks, you're handling this thing called grief. Some weeks, you're playing a hardcore version of dodgeball and losing big time. Let's talk about finding ourselves at square one and know, without a doubt, you are not alone!

In this episode, we cover how we've changed -- for better or worse -- since losing our husbands. And we ponder the question: Who are we now?

This week, we chat about regrets, what-ifs, and what could have beens. Join the conversation on Facebook or Instagram. We'd love to hear ideas for future episodes, stories about your loved ones, and general feedback.

Today's episode is a chance to check in with us, catch up on some recent struggles, and learn about the crappy club we're forming. We want some feedback! What future topics would you like to see next?

On today's episode we discuss burial and cremation (and a few other things) with special guest AnnYager McCrosky, a funeral home director and friend. Join us for this very educational episode of Can't Find My Brain For the Fog!

In this week's episode, we discuss some of the overwhelm that can catch you by surprise as you're adjusting to life after loss. Sorry for the temporary hiatus! Thanks for tuning in!

This week, we delve into some of the common heard words and phrases we've had to learn and share our take on those. Join us, then comment with more you'd like us to discuss! Also, we're now on Facebook!

In episode seven, we wanted to share a few things that have helped our mental health as we wade through the grief. We'd love to hear feedback from you -- have you found things that help?

*Sorry for the late posting! Sickness + technology issues!* This week, we talked about tackling some of the "big days" that come your way -- celebrating (surviving) holidays, anniversaries, birthdays, and random Mondays. How do you remember your person on those days? Share with us. Thanks for tuning in. Find us on Instagram @cantfindmybrainforthefog

On today's episode, we learn more about the story of Gina and Tim. This one's a little longer than normal, but it's well worth the listen. Thanks for tuning in!

We wanted to take a step back and share more about our own love stories. First up: Kendra and Jim. If you'd like to read more about their journey, you can check out ⁠Kendra's blog⁠ . Also follow us on ⁠Instagram⁠ ! We plan to share show updates and more there. You can contact us there with ideas or questions for our show. Thanks for listening!

On this week's episode, we talk about some of the helpful and not so helpful things we've heard and experienced along our journeys in grief. Apologies for a late posting, technical difficulties!

Your spouse is gone -- what happens now? Discussing the days after and what helps the most.

In today's episode, we dive into our own backgrounds a little, along with our stories of love and loss. And, of course, why we wanted to start a podcast. Thanks for listening and we hope you stick with us on this journey! Let us know what topics you might like to hear in the comments.