By the Bi

In this episode we catch up on some of the things we've done recently, including a discussion over the recent "Club V", a wedding, and a few of our dates and such. We also go through some listener questions that have come across our desks recently. So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join...

This week we start a multi-part deep dive series dissecting Bisexuality. A few months ago we had a listener send us a series of research papers regarding bisexual peoples. We dug through those papers and are attempting to give you an overview on all of the amazing scientific information inside. This week, in part one, we define Bi-Erasure and Bi-Invisibility. We review the health risks that bisexu...

In this week we sat down to chat with Madeline, a former sex worker who started out in the naughty massage business giving happy endings before starting work at a brothel. She talks about how and why she got into the business and regails us with plenty of stories of her experiences. (All names have been changed to protect the innocent... or guilty.) Ever wonder what it might be like to have your m...

Once again we have had many a message cross our desk and we've decided that we need to delve into them... So we are. We have dug through the malebag and picked a few of our recent messages from email, Twitter, Facebook and Instagram to answer them here. We always appreciate the messages we get and love responding to them! Hopefully you find the information useful as well. So go grab a drink! Then,...

In this episode we give a brief update on Our Sexpo Australia episode and then we go straight into the meat and potatoes which is a whole heap of reviews on some of the products we’ve purchased and played with over the last few months. We cover lubes, butt plugs, and even sexy chapstick (yes you read that right.) So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listenin...

Welcome back listeners! In this episode we discuss our most recent Pendulum Party at Our Secret Spot. (It was number 7!) We invited The Gentleman to come back and discuss his experience at Pendulum with us too. Later in the episode, we also talked about our sexy Saturday morning and then Sunday in the city, including a trip to Maxx Black and an overnight with some amazing photos! Whew... what a we...

Welcome back listeners! This week we are discussing our trip to Adelaide for Sexpo Australia. We address the fun and the major problems that Sexpo Australia has to offer. We then talk about going to a BDSM party, that we got invited to, called Switch. Lastly we chat VR Porn. We were lucky enough to get to meet and interview Michelle Flynn the brains and talent behind Lightsouthern, Australia. Link...

Welcome back lovely listeners! In this episode, we talk about reconnecting with sexy folks after many many months. Bradford had another trip to a sauna where he gets one more reference on his skillz. And finally, we discuss an awesome meet and mingle that ended in an impromptu orgy at Our Secret Spot. (Yes... it's a thing.) So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you f...

Welcome back constant listener and new listeners alike. In this episode we chronicle an emotional tale of ups, downs, and how quickly we can fall back into very bad relationship habits. Yup, even us. A little while back, Mrs Atom had to take some medication that completely messed with her hormones and in a 24 hour period our relationship was knocked back a bit. Listen as we talk our way through th...

This week we sat down with a very good friend of ours and an icon of male bisexuality, Cooper S. Beckett, to discuss the importance of empathy, maintaining a positive attitude, and the similarities (and differences) between poly and swinger folks. Of course, we also take some time to discuss male bisexuality in the world and how we are affected by toxic masculinity and heteronormativity. So go gra...

Welcome back to Mr. Atom who is eager to regain control of the podcast! In this episode, we were lucky enough to catch up with the owners of Club Euphoria in Toledo Ohio to talk about how they got into the swinging business of sexy parties. We talk about their recent and extremely successful Pendulum 1.0 and their making it to the finalist list of the Annual Lifetime Awards. So go grab a drink!&nb...

What do baking cookies, sword fighting, turkey tap, and Chewbacca have in common? Yeah... I don't know either. But in the episode Mrs. Atom and The Gentleman tackle these subject matters and MORE. What results is a giggle fest like none we've experienced in a while. That's right, Mr. Atom is absent in this episode as he was traveling abroad and has no idea what is actually in this episode. (That's...

In this episode we start off with a couple of rants. That’s right we got out the soap boxes! Then we move to a Pen Pal letter from our wonderful friends Mr & Mrs H over at the Bed Hoppers Podcast. We answer their Q&A and Mr Atom does his “best” British accent... whilst ending up sounding like Mrs Doubtfire. So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listen...

We are joined again this week by the beautiful L0L0 Lady to discuss what's new in her world. Listen in as we talk everything from swinger resorts, to HPV, to birth control, to L0L0's favourite sex position. So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!   Find us on social media!!! On Twitter  @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook  BytheBiPodcast...

Better late than never right? We've had some conversations with swinger friends recently that alerted us to the fact that not everyone knows what some of the simple swinger jargon actually means. We hope to remedy this issue with this podcast where we go back to basics and discuss our definitions for some of the common words in the swinging vernacular. So go grab a drink! ...

Hello constant listener. This episode is pretty slick as we discuss lube and manage to slide in a lot of information and facts that you won't find tacky at all!   That's right... it's a LUBE-isode!!!! So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!   Find us on social media!!! On Twitter  @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook  BytheB...

Okay!!! We have had many an email in the recent past that we need to delve into. So we do. We have dug through the malebag and picked a few of our recent messages from email, Twitter, Facebook and more to answer them here. We always appreciate the messages we get and love responding to them! Hopefully you find the information useful as well. So go grab a drink! Then, sit back,...

Join us this week as we bring The Gentleman back tondiscuss our combined experiences at the most recent Pendulum party! Oh, look at all the sexy people; where do they all come from!?! Then we let Mrs Atom enchant is with tales of Femme, the First Ladies only night at Our Secret Spot. So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!   Find us on...

Okay... so not too long ago whilst recording for "Dawns with Lakey" on the Hit Network here in Sydney we had this "great" idea to see which of the three of us could wear a chastity belt the longest. As bad ideas go, this one was pretty terrible.  We'll go over a bit of the history of chastity belts and then dive into the worst, 31 and 39 hours we have ever spent. We'll talk about ev...

Last week we discussed the Seven Deadly Sins. This week we go in the opposite direction and discuss the Seven Contrary Virtues. We delve into each of these virtues and discuss how we would use them to improve our own relationships and those of our lifestyle play partners. We take each of the virtues: Chastity, Temperance, Charity, Diligence, Patience, Kindness, and Humility and...

Welcome back! In this episode, we discuss The Seven Deadly Sins and how they can affect your lifestyle experience. The Seven Deadly Sins are so very prevalent in our society that we see examples of them every day and likely don't even notice. For instance, did you know that each of the characters from Gilligan's Island represents one of the sins? YES! - More on this in the...

Once again we dive into some of our recent sexcapades. Sit back and listen as we talk about a play session where we both took on roles we don't normally take on.   Bradford stepped into the role of Dom with a partner tieing her down to a bed whilst Angela took a much more passive role. We also talk about a live sex photo shoot we recently participated in. Finally, with may being Wor...

Not too long ago we were lucky enough to sit down with Miss Penelope Dreadful a pro dom from Sydney who is known the around the world. Remember your safe word as we ask her to tell us her history and how she got into the pro dom world. Laugh (yes you're allowed) as we cut up with her and learn about some of the odd-odd requests. Cringe as she tells us what she really likes. it was such a...

In this episode, we discuss an article that Mr. Atom found on "Sex Facts". Admittedly many of these so-called facts are dubious at best and without sources to cite but that doesn't make them any less fun to discuss.   For instance, ever wonder how many bacteria you exchange during kissing? Or how many calories you burn with that romp in the hay? Well, now we do...  Th...

In this episode, we talk with our good friends Naughty and Rocket of Naughty3some fame on Twitter. We were lucky enough to spend a few days traveling the west coast of Australia with them and convinced them we should record a podcast in between adventures.   Along with their history and background, we'll discuss swinging in more remote, less populated areas. We also talk about...