By the Bi

Holy shit we've made it. 100 episodes!!! From the first 13 episodes where our sound was, admittedly terrible, to all of the education and naughtiness in between; we have been through a lot the last 2 years. Join us as we remember the highlights of this podcast. The things we have done, the pictures we took, the friends we've made. Speaking of friends we have a few of them on he...

Hello constant listener! As you know, we've told the "How We Started Swinging" story many a time but we've never let you into our "How We Met" story... UNTIL NOW! This week we talk about our own origin story and just like Bruce Banner and Tony Stark, it's kinda sordid. The Hulk and Ironman have nothing on our origin story! You'll hear about how we met, our first date, our first hook...

Hello, constant listener and new listeners alike!  This week we review our weekend that had two nights spent at Our Secret Spot including a Sex Ed in the City class and OSS's 4th birthday party which had the place packed to the gills with sexiness.  There was also a crew from SBS filming for a show called  Insight on Friday night and we give that crew a very honest, albeit harsh, review.  We also...

This week we are ecstatic to present an interview we had with the amazing Lucie Bee - Sex Worker, Geek, Queer, Activist, Pornstar... The list of this young lady's accomplishments goes on and on.  She's on You Can't Ask That, Triple J, Sexpo Australia, PAX, and featured on the cover of Penthouse magazine.  Lucie sat down with us and we discussed everything from sex work and how we can help make fol...

Hello, all and welcome back.  This week we come at you from The Ovation of the Seas.  We start by talking about vacation sex and what makes it so damn amazing and what we can ALL do to make our home sex lives similar to our away sex lives. Next, we had an email in our inbox from a listener about our headspace episodes that we wanted to read a few experts from and comment on.  As ALWAYS thank you t...

NOTE: We are NOT trained therapists, doctors, or advice givers.  We are a couple of sexy freaks who thought it important to chat about something we ALL deal with: depression and how it comingles within the lifestyle. If you feel trapped and like you have nowhere to go and you need to speak with someone please please reach out to one of the many hotlines that can help you! In Australia: Lifeline  (...

NOTE: We are NOT trained therapists, doctors, or advice givers.  We are a couple of sexy freaks who thought it important to chat about something we ALL deal with: depression and how it comingles within the lifestyle. If you feel trapped and like you have nowhere to go and you need to speak with someone please please reach out to one of the many hotlines that can help you! In Australia: Lifeline  (...

Hello, constant listeners (and new listeners alike)! In this episode, we give you a rambling glimpse into our weekends.  We talk about all of our escapades (that we CAN talk about) from this past weekend and you learn why we need more sleep!!!  Listen as we discuss what is getting us excited for the future, our experience at Empire Strips Back, a Star Wars themed burlesque show, a fetish buy/swap/...

HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!!! In this episode, we talk about the mistakes we ALL can make in the bedroom!  How many of these are we guilty of?  More than we might like to admit!  We go through our list and highlight the mistakes and the things that we've done to overcome them.  It isn't always easy to change but it's definitely always worth the effort to build a stronger and happier relationship! So go...

Mr. Atom is BACK baby, and boy does he have some stories to tell.   In this episode, The Atoms talk about what each of them did while Mr. Atom was traveling in and around Amsterdam. Mr. Atom tells tales of a convenient Grindr hookup, meeting one of our listeners who lives in The Netherlands, and perusing the Red Light District on their wedding anniversary. Mrs. Atom talks about her 3 successive ni...

This is another episode where Mr. Atom was traveling and Mrs. A had to call in some backup... So, Mrs. Atom called in the ever handsome Gentleman.   In this episode, The Gentleman discusses his first trip, with Mr. Atom, to a couple gay saunas in Sydney and he leaves no stone unturned in the tale! So go grab a drink!  Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!   Find us on soci...

Have you ever wanted to set fire to your partner's loins just with your words?  Do you watch porn and say, "I could never say that to my partner!  I'd sound silly!" Well in this episode we discuss the elusive dirty talk. We hit on the whys and the hows of dropping some dirty love bomb zingers.  From the phases of dirty talk to the vernacular to use, we cover it all!  Plus we have a podcast questio...

With Mr. Atom travelling this week, Mrs. Atom and a new voice, Chastity, sit down to discuss some of the perils of dating. As a single woman trying to get back into dating after a bit of a hiatus, Chastity highlights some of the biggest challenges faced by singles and couples. Settle in for a listen and a bit of commiseration! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter  @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook  Byt...

We have a very special installment lined up for this week.  We got 6 of our closet friends together to play a game of "Never Have I Ever" and we recorded the whole thing!   We coerced L0L0 Lady and The Ginger Tramp, Lawrence and Jess from Our Secret Spot, and podcasting virgins, Wazowski and BJ to sit down with us, microphones on and drinks filled, to play a game that many of us hadn't played sinc...

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!  We sincerely hope that you have a safe and wonderful new year!  In this episode, we review the week between Christmas Eve and New Year's Eve.  This ended up being an amazing week of 4 trips to Our Secret Spot, 4 days spent with "The Gentleman", 2 different gay saunas, and 1 40th birthday celebration that will go down in the record books.  So much great sex was to be had!!! Liste...

Welcome back, constant listener.  In this episode, we talk about our year and the personal highlights that we enjoyed.  2017 has been an amazing year for By the Bi and that is because of YOU constant listener.  Listen as we go through the year and touch on our favorite memories, experiences, and things we are most grateful for.   We also talk about what the future holds and what we are looking for...

So if you listened last week you know that by popular demand, we've decided to do a complete 101 on Pegging.  Well here is the second part of that series. Sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!   Find us on social media!!! On Twitter  @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook  BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us  here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Leave some feedback...

By popular demand, we've decided to do a complete 101 on Pegging. We talk about the origination of the word, the history of the practice, and lots of preparation talk.  This is a practice and play that we are very passionate about.  We hope it comes through. So sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!   Find us on social media!!! On Twitter  @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook  BytheBiPodc...

So if you're like many of us when we get into the swinging world its likely been quite a while since you've had to give (and receive) flirts.  In this episode, we give a quick primer on your body language so that you present yourself in the best possible light.  Look you only get one chance to make a first impression so you have to make certain that when you carpe diem you're giving yourself as mu...

It's that time again!  To start this episode, we talk about Sexpo pros and cons and one of the major issues we see in Sexpo. (Last episode was all about the vendors.) Later,  Mr. Atom talks about his experience at a sauna in Melbourne called "Wet on Wellington".  He goes into deep detail to describe the layout and experience of the sauna leaving no glory holes untapped. Finally, we talk about our...

Join us on a journey exploring Sexpo Melbourne 2017! We were there as part of the Sex Ed in the City team presenting with MisJif in the S.H.A.R.E. room sponsored by Red Hot Pie. We live cast portions of this episode from the show floor and talk to some of our favorite products of this Sexpo, including After Dark Intimate Wipes, Bare Bros Co, Ju Ju Jezebel, Dominant Furniture, Mia Maxx, and Salome'...

Hello folks!  You asked and we listened.  Last week we ran a Twitter poll to determine what you wanted to hear most and advice for the first time to a swingers club won. So in this episode, we give our best advice to make sure that your experience is a positive one.  We talk about everything from choosing a night to go, to how to dress, to how to talk to people once your there.  We hope to pack yo...

Party season is in and during this episode, we talk about some of the parties that we have been to over the last couple of weeks.  We discuss the Red Heaven and Our Secret Spot Halloween parties!  Then we talk about a VERY Halloween appropriate experience Mr. Atom had at a Brisbane Sauna. Was it haunted? Or was Mr. Atom delirious from the sauna experience?   Then Mrs Atom talks about her solo expe...

In this second of a two-part episode we continue on with our raucous review of Passion in Paradise an event hosted in Far North Queensland.  We continue the story by discussing the rest of the parties and the naughty experiences we had in the afternoons.  (Here's a hint; they include orgies!) We finish the episode with some messages from a few of the other patrons of Passion in Paradise and their...

OOOOH BOY!!!  This is the first part of a two-part episode on our fantastic experience at Passion in Paradise. In this episode, we discuss our arrival to the resort and our immediate first impressions.  We describe the layout of the resort including the rooms, bar, and pool area.  Then we start with the first couple of days and start going into our experiences. So sit back and enjoy!!! As always,...