By the Bi

Every June, the world turns rainbow. Companies update their logos, Pride festivals fill city streets, and social media overflows with messages of support. For many LGBTQ+ people, it's a celebration of how far we've come. For others, it raises some uncomfortable questions. Has Pride become too commercial? Has it become less political? Has it become more inclusive—or less? And where do bisexual, kin...

Angela and Bradford get delightfully real (and a little spicy) about The Bonding Project ( https://www.bondingproject.com/ ) from the Center for Positive Sexuality; a research-driven relationship quiz that’s basically Myers-Briggs for intimacy, mapping how you bond across dimensions like stability vs exploration, independence vs togetherness, and structure vs flexibility. They tease apart the 16 r...

In this episode of By the Bi , we’re diving into the importance of community within bisexual, non-monogamous, and kink spaces. We talk about why having a sense of belonging matters so much, especially when your identity or lifestyle sits outside the mainstream and how the right community can provide support, validation, and genuine connection. We also get real about the challenges: showing up alon...

In this episode of By the Bi, we sit down for our annual relationship check-in and we decided to invite you along. This is an unscripted, intimate conversation about love, desire, communication, and the life we’re actively building together. We talk about what feels good, what feels stuck, and what’s quietly evolving—from emotional connection and long-term satisfaction to sex, intimacy, boundaries...

NOTE: THIS IS NOT A RE-RELEASE! THIS IS NEW!!!!! (And you're gonna love it!) You ask for it… again and again. This week on By the Bi , things get steamy, sticky, and just a little bit stripped down as we revisit one of our most unforgettable indulgences with The Gentleman. There’s heat, there’s tension, and yes—plenty of smooth, satisfying moments where everything is laid bare. Angela brings the p...

This week on By the Bi , Bradford spills the tea on a recent Grindr hookup that turned into something way more than just a quick fling. What started as a bit of fun quickly unlocked a whole new kink he didn’t see coming —and now he can’t stop thinking about it. Angela digs into the juicy details as the two unpack what it’s like to unexpectedly discover a new layer of your sexuality, how it feels t...

This week on By the Bi , we’re coming to you live from the sun-drenched, pleasure-filled playground of Xcape to the Tropics 2025! Join Angela and Bradford as they soak up the vibes, connect with the community, and dive into the sexy, adventurous, and sometimes downright outrageous moments that make this event one of the lifestyle calendar’s most anticipated highlights. From themed parties and pool...

Hello all… it’s been a minute, but we are back! This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford dive deep into a topic that underpins everything in the lifestyle — authenticity. Whether you’re navigating polyamory, kink, or just trying to show up as your whole self in everyday life, authenticity can be both empowering and terrifying. So what does it really mean to be authentic? And how do you maintain...

Due to travel schedules, this week’s episode is a rerelease. This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford tackle a topic that’s often shrouded in silence and stigma: sexually transmitted infections (STIs). In this powerful episode, we delve into the realities and misconceptions surrounding STIs, aiming to foster a more understanding and informed conversation. Join us as we discuss the importance of...

From the sugared thighs of Ancient Egypt to the shimmering vajazzles of the 2000s, this solo episode dives deep into the sensual, political, and power-laden history of pubic hair removal. Bradford takes Angela on an intimate journey through time—where grooming rituals weren’t just about beauty, but about gender, class, control, and desire. We trace how hairlessness became sacred, sinful, scandalou...

This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford take you inside their cheeky adventure at Melbourne’s Museum of Desire — an immersive playground of sensuality, art, and introspection. While wandering through this unique space, we found ourselves face-to-face with a Never Have I Ever game built for two. As we reveal our own risqué answers, we also disclose how our experiences compared to the percentage...

In this solo episode, Angela opens up about the emotional rollercoaster of body image in non-monogamous and kink spaces. From first-party nerves to reclaiming confidence at every age and size, she shares personal stories, practical tips, and empowering insights on navigating body shame and embracing desire without apology. Whether you’re new to the lifestyle or a seasoned player, this is your remi...

RERELEASE: Get ready for a thrilling ride on this week’s episode of By the Bi, where Angela turns host for a game of high stakes and high voltage called “By the Bi - I Hope I Don’t Die!” Listen as Bradford and The Gentleman put their sex trivia knowledge to the test, with each correct answer earning them a tantalizing shock from the Neon Wand, and each miss bringing a painful zap. This electrifyin...

This week on By the Bi, Angela sits down with a very cheeky Bradford to unpack his latest solo travel adventures—and let’s just say, things got spicy. From spontaneous Sniffies hookups and steamy cruise room encounters to massages that definitely crossed into naughty territory, Bradford’s been making the most of life on the road. Join us for a candid, hilarious, and oh-so-saucy episode as we explo...

This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford had one goal: a sexy, well-planned dirty weekend. What actually happened? Well… let’s just say, things didn’t quite go according to plan. From unexpected detours to logistical hiccups (and Bradford going delightfully off the rails more than once), this episode is all about embracing the mess, laughing through the chaos, and finding the fun even when thin...

Before streaming, before OnlyFans, before incognito mode — there were blue cinemas. This week, we’re peeling back the curtain on the forgotten world of adult movie theaters: where porn was communal, seats were sticky, and trench coats weren’t just for the weather. We’re talking about how these spaces shaped everything from censorship laws to queer cruising culture, why the U.S. Supreme Court once...

This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford dive into a topic that doesn’t get talked about nearly enough—the post-kink and party drop. Whether it’s after an intense BDSM scene, an emotionally charged connection, or a euphoric night at a lifestyle event, the crash that follows can be real, raw, and confusing. In this episode, we explore what “the drop” feels like, why it happens, and how to care f...

Venture beyond the velvet rope with us into a world where fantasy meets reality in grand, public settings. From the anticipation of dressing up to the thrill of stepping into a room buzzing with like-minded adventurers, discover what makes these events a magnet for those curious about or deeply embedded in the kink community. In this episode, Angela and Bradford share their perspectives on the vib...

We’re back, baby! After a little time away, we’re reconnecting, recharging, and ready to dive back into all things By the Bi. In this episode, we catch you up on where we’ve been, what’s been brewing, and how damn good it feels to be back in your ears. But that’s not all—strap in as we take you inside our latest (and dare we say greatest?) Pendulum Party yet. From sexy surprises to magical moments...

Dive deep into the exhilarating world of pegging with our special double feature re-release of Episodes 83 and 84 of By the Bi! In these fan-favorite episodes, Angela and Bradford explore everything you need to know about pegging—from the basics of getting started to advanced tips for those looking to enhance their experience. Discover the joys, challenges, and intimate bonding that pegging can br...

Join Angela and Bradford on a vibrant journey in this episode of By the Bi as they recount their exhilarating experience marching with Biconic at the Mardi Gras parade. Immerse yourself in the pulsating beats, vivid colors, and spirited cheers that define one of the most iconic celebrations of LGBTQ+ pride and diversity. From the flurry of feathers and sequins to the powerful messages of love and...

This week we talk about some of our excursions and play we’ve had at Chateau Vino in Gold Cost, an afternoon with The Gentleman, and more! Sit back and enjoy some sexy stories. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat  here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter  @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook  BytheBiPodcast On Instagram  @BytheBiPodcast...

Dive into the heart of understanding and intimacy on this episode of By the Bi as Angela and Bradford play “We’re Not Really Strangers” with guests Coby and Judy. This thought-provoking card game is designed to deepen the connections between players through a series of personal and insightful questions. Watch as our hosts and their guests embark on a journey of discovery, revealing hidden facets o...

Pack your bags and grab your lanyards—Bradford and Angela are setting sail on their first-ever swingers cruise! In this episode of By the Bi , we’re taking you behind the scenes of the ultimate floating lifestyle experience. From the anticipation of stepping aboard to the steamy encounters at sea, we’re sharing it all. Join us as we dive into our expectations, surprises, and lessons learned from t...

Ring in the new year with a heartfelt look back and an eager gaze forward on this episode of By the Bi. Join Angela and Bradford as they revisit the hopes and goals they set at the stroke of last New Year’s Eve, exploring the victories, the challenges, and everything in-between. From personal milestones to podcast achievements, get an intimate look at how the year unfolded for your favorite hosts....