By the Bi

What is a Neon Wand? A Violet Wand? What is electricity play like? The Gentleman joins us again for a bit of goofing off and a play with the Neon Wand. We discuss the safety of using a Neon Wand (boring but totally necessary) and some basic attachments. Then we get into the exciting part and talk about how to use the wand, what it feels like, and you can just feel the electricity in the air! Also,...

This episode is dedicated to all of the recent sexy times that we have had. We break down and decompress over recent Tinder dates we've both had and Angela's solo experiences at Our Secret Spot. We then dive deep, ahem, into Pendulum IX and talk about a date we had with a sexy couple once Bradford was back in town. So sit back, relax, and stay sexy. Proudly part of the  Swingset.fm  team...

In this episode we talk about our recent experience marching on the Bi+Visibility float in the Sydney Mardi Gras. We have a few snippets we recorded with some of the other participants as well. All and all such an amazing experience. We also also talk about our upcoming (okay it’s 250 days away but we’re excited!!!) trip to Desire with the Life on the SwingSet crew. We discuss each of the theme ni...

This week with all of the travel and preparations for Sydney Mardi Gras, we decided to replay an old favorite of ours that we released on September 20th 2017. We also talk about some of the other exciting things that we have in store for the coming months. Keep an eye out for some great things in the future. Philia, Pragma, and Agape... Oh My! In this episode, we talk about 7 types of love as...

We all wonder if we are normal. In an article titled What Exactly is an Unusual Sexual Fantasy published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, lead author Christian Joyal interviewed more than 1500 individuals to discuss their fantasies and then categorized them into Typical, Unusual, or Rare. This week we take his data and break it down for your sexy ears. We discuss the percent of folks (male and f...

Curious to know who comes to Club V? You've head us talk about it now listen as Mrs. Atom and special guest Tiffany take you behind the door of the special ladies only event at Our Secret Spot. After, they go on a journey exploring the Ginger Bread Person, or, more accurately, the Genderbread Person...an infographic that breaks down gender. They discuss the different aspects of the graphic and all...

Welcome back! In this episode, we invited back Cooper S. Beckett, friend of the podcast and all around awesome guy, to chat about sexual health and what it truly means to "play safe". Join us as we chat with Cooper about what his play style is and what our play styles look like. Sexual health is something that we take very seriously, and so, we think it is extremely important to discuss how we all...

Welcome back! In this episode we revisit a necessary but not always fun topic...STIs. We collected data from various organisations around the world to discuss the prevalence of STIs. We'll address which STIs are more common than others and along the way there is an impromptu spelling test for Mr. Atom...does he pass? A few STI testing and/or notification services that we mention in the podcast: be...

Welcome back dear listener. Since we've started podcasting, we have had so so many people ask us what our thoughts are about the Fifty Shades of Grey movie. Recently, we FINALLY sat down with our notebooks to watch this movie. Oh wow... why did we agree to do this? If you HAVE seen the movie (firstly I'm so sorry) you will listen to us rant, rail, and mock it incessantly. If you haven't, but want...

This episode is all about orgies! We being with talk about the health and safety aspects, play style conflicts, and some of the things we have learned from multiple origes that we have experienced. In the second half we tell some of our favorite recent orgy stories. Some of our expereinces from MMMF to MFMFMF to MFMFMs . We cover a lot of sexy times! Proudly part of the  Swingset.fm  tea...

Hello and welcome wonderful listeners. In this episode we proudly present our first ever podcast recorded in front of a live audience. We recorded this midway through our week at Desire with the Life on the Swingset takeover and we had already had MANY firsts that we discuss. We sit with the Swingset crew and laugh (and cry... but hey, you know Mr. Atom) our way through this podcast. Listen in on...

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! Welcome not to 2019 but to 20BiTeen! In this episode, we interview the masterminds behind Bi+ Visibility, BiCONIC, and the #Bseen movement. We talk about each of these extremely important movements for the bisexual communities. We'll talk about the birth of these platforms and also the recent work we did with them for the premier BiCONIC party at a local icon for LGBTQI peoples,...

Merry Christmas constant listener and new listeners alike! In this episode, we go on a Christmas Carolesque journey of our own swinger selves from the past, the present, and the future. We discuss how our styles have changed, what we look for in peoples/partners, and how we meet the folks that we play with. Thank you for spending your time with us! We recently hit our 3 year anniversary and we def...

We have had so many questions about our recent trip to The Desire Resorts in Cancun Mexico and we were trying to decide the best way to answer them all, so we asked The Gentleman to come over and interview us about the experiences. We've split the interview into two episodes. In this one, the second of two, we talk about the days we had at Desire with the We Gotta Thing and Swinging Downunder part...

We have had so many questions about our recent trip to The Desire Resorts in Cancun Mexico and we were trying to decide the best way to answer them all, so we asked The Gentleman to come over and interview us about the experiences. We've split the interview into two episodes. In this one, the first of two, we talk mostly about the few days before Desire and then the Life on the Swingset takeover o...

In this episode we take you to Passion in Paradise in FNQ. We talk about the experiences that we had at PiP including the 2 classes we presented (blow jobs and cock massage & nuru massage). Next we talk about our most recent Pendulum Party (Number 7 for those keeping count!) and it was definitely a ripper! So very much fun. Lastly we talk about another recent meet and mingle party hosted some...

Having had the luxury of spending back to back weeks at Desire Riviera Maya and Desire Pearl in Mexico we thought we would do a direct side by side comparison of the two resorts. We try as best as our brains can to remember every up and down of both locations. Note, that this is a direct comparison of the resorts not any of the sexy swingers staying there. We talk food, pools, hot tubs, beach fron...

Aren't you lucky!!! A very special EXTRA episode this week! Whilst at Desire a couple weeks back we recorded an episode with the talented, sexy, and hilarious Mr. and Mrs. H from The Bed Hoppers. In this episode we discuss consent, compersion, and climaxes... Three extremely important C's of swinging. Join us as we laugh, sing, and have a few very serious moments (not too many we promise) in our c...

Whilst at Passion in Paradise in Far North Queensland, we asked folks to sit down and chat with us to rate their flirting skills and then to tell us their worst swinger fails. Boy were we surprised by what folks had to offer... We have tales of people abusing family heirlooms to folks who claim that they can taste STI's (Yes you read that correctly.) . The best story was awarded a very special gif...

In this episode we've gotten The Gentleman back (by very popular demand) to sit with us and talk about planning a swingcation with play partners. We discuss what goes into selecting a location, timing, who to go with, and what to do. You'll get the whens, the wheres, the whys, and the hows of putting together a successful and memorable swinging vacation. We also talk about the pitfalls that you ca...

This week we finish our multi-part deep dive series dissecting Bisexuality. As you may recall, a few months ago we had a listener send us a series of research papers regarding bisexual peoples. We dug through those papers and are attempting to give you an overview on all of the amazing scientific information inside. This episode is the end of the trilogy! In this last deep dive into Bisexual paper...

HAPPY HALLOWEEN!!!! BOO!!! Do you ever think about what scares you... sexually? In this special extended episode, we aim to push boundaries and limits in a safe and secure space. We go through a whole list of fetishes and discuss our thoughts and experiences with them! We want to note that we do not intend to yuck anyone's yum with this podcast, but some of these are things that we are definitely...

Hello again!!! In this episode, we brought The Gentleman back to discuss Pet Play. In the not too distant past, he came over to play and Mr. Atom was in full puppy mode. We talk with him about the mindset of puppy play, the actions involved, and exactly what he thought about the evening. We also discuss The Gentleman... and whether he is more Duncan (from Bob's Burgers) or Flexo (Futurama)? Or Elf...

ZOMG!!!!! Tomorrow we go on VaCaTiOn!!!! We are off to Passion in Paradise before going off to Desire Mexico. In this podcast we talk about how to properly prepare to go on a swinger vacation. We discuss the planning that we did for the sexy theme nights and the the calmer days. Should you get there early or late? How quickly do you go nude? Should you leave the resort? What are your play expectat...

We start this week with an amazing date that we had with a very sexy couple. A couple we both thought were way out of our league. (Spoiler alert: We were apparently wrong!) Also this week we continue our multi-part deep dive series dissecting Bisexuality. As you may recall, a few months ago we had a listener send us a series of research papers regarding bisexual peoples. We dug through those paper...