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By the Bi

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By the Bi is a podcast for curious minds and open hearts—whether you’re bi, non-monogamous, kinky, or just wondering what it’s like to step outside the hetero-norm. Hosted by a bisexual expat couple, Bradford and Angela, based in Sydney, we dive into real conversations about bisexuality, swinging, open relationships, BDSM, and the messy, beautiful realities of non-traditional love and sex. Every episode blends personal stories with thoughtful discussions, listener questions, interviews with guests from around the globe, and the occasional cocktail-fuelled confession. We don’t have all the answ...

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Podcast website

www.bythebi.com.au

Latest episode

Jun 10, 2026

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Episodes

175 - Jealousy, Envy, FOMO, Oh My! 18.09.2019

This week we touch back on jealousy, envy, and FOMO. We describe the difference in the three and we dissect our own experiences in feeling, managing, and mitigating these feelings. Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat  here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter  @BytheBiPodcast On Face...

174 - When Things Don't Go to Plan 11.09.2019

Sometimes things don’t go to plan. This week we discuss a couple of times when things went just a bit awry. Even the best made plans can have a few bumps, we just have to roll with the punches. Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat  here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter  @BytheBiPo...

173 - Furry and Pet Play 03.09.2019

In this episode we talk about head space and the play space of Bradford when he is in pet mode. We go through a recent afternoon that he was collared and non-verbal... (I know right?) Listen as we discuss the mental ins and outs from both sides of the game with some interesting side effects and some amazing sex. Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you...

172 - Sydney Fetish Ball 28.08.2019

This week we discuss The Sydney Fetish Ball a fantastic hell of a time that was a blast! We also talk about a recent play session with friends we made at Desire who were visiting us down under! In the battle of two subs... who was the subiest sub of them all!!! Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord ch...

171 - Urban Dictionary Best Sex Acts for Each US State, Part 2 21.08.2019

In this episode, Bradford has once again been reluctantly roped into discussing Urban Dictionary’s "Best Sex Acts of the US States" -- But this time he is joined by The Gentleman! Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat  here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter  @BytheBiPodcast On Faceb...

170 - The X Awards & Sweet Release Agency 14.08.2019

This week we introduce you to Jett Black of Sweet Release Agency and who is the mastermind behind the newest Adult Awards in Australia, The X Awards. We discuss the origins behind The X Awards, how the winners will be selected, and what the future holds for this new and coveted prize. We also discuss Sweet Release. His company that partners with adult businesses, independent sex workers, and enter...

169 - Intro to Shibari & Swings 07.08.2019

In this episode we discuss an intro to shibari class that we took recently at Studio Kink here in Sydney. What an amazing experience! We also discuss sex in a swing! As part of the new bed we borrowed a sex swing from Our Secret Spot and of course we had to give it a go. Is swing sex the best sex? Stay tuned!!! Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you d...

168 - Urban Dictionary Best Sex Acts for Each US State, Part 1 31.07.2019

in this episode, Bradford has been reluctantly roped into discussing Urban Dictionary’s "Best Sex Acts of the US States" -- Southeast and Northeast... and it’s painful for him. Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat  here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter  @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook...

167 - Relationships & Bicuriosity 23.07.2019

This week we talk in depth about how we each feel about public displays of affection towards from earth other WITH other people. We recently went to an event where Bradford was very affectionate with another person to Angela’s exclusion and we dissect that a bit. Later, we’ve had a few listeners ask us to dive a bit more deeply into the Bicuriousity Camp. So we do! Sit back, relax, and as always,...

166 - All About the Cock Rings 17.07.2019

Welcome back constant listener and new listeners alike! This week our show is All About Cock Rings!!! We have had a few folks drop us messages asking about proper use, sizing, and most importantly how to get them off! The Gentleman joins us as he had never used a cock ring. So we size one for him, get him into it, and then get him laid... then we talk about his experience! As a bonus, we answer th...

165 - A Club X Blue Theatre 09.07.2019

In this episode, Bradford regails us with a story from Adelaide where he went to a local ClubX and experienced their "Blue Cinema". It's quite a sticky story! We also talk about the latest Threshold Party that was recently held at Our Secret Spot, So sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat  he...

164 - Down the Rabbit Hole 03.07.2019

This past weekend we were fortunate enough to head down to Adelaide in South Australia and go to a Rainbow Party at a new adult entertainment venue cleverly called “The Rabbit Hole”. The Rainbow Party was designed to be a fun and safe place for LGBTQIA+ folks to come and get their sexy on. In this episode we’ll discuss the venue, the party, and, of course, we go into all of the dirty little detail...

163 - Seize the Moment 26.06.2019

Welcome faithful listener! This week we discuss something that we, ourselves, are trying to be better at, seizing the moment. We give a recent example of how we tried to seize on an opportunity that popped up! We continue this theme by discussing how we plan to be better with that at Desire this year, and we give an example of us deciding to watch porn on the new tv... and then have sex on the sof...

162 - Recent Highlights & Pride 18.06.2019

This week we talk about highlights from our recent travels with The Bed Hoppers and Naughty & Rocket. We discuss all of our memories from the trip and once again Bradford tries out his British accent. (It isn't good!) . Last we talk a bit about Pride Month and some of our recent activities around it. So get the cuffs and prepare to be held down! Proudly part of the  Swingset.fm  team...

161 - Listener Questions 12.06.2019

Hello hello! We had a bunch of listener comments and questions and thought it was time to do a Q&A podcast again. We discuss our recent podcast on Sex Positive Parenting, checking our insecurities at the door, and how sexy The Gentleman is; plus much more! Once again and by popular demand, The Gentleman is back to help us tackle some of these questions. If you have questions, comments, or rude...

160 - Pendulum X 04.06.2019

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH! Now let's talk about some bisexuality!!! Once again, in this episode, we invite The Gentleman back to talk bisexuality and swinging as we tell tales of our tenth (Yes you read that correctly!) Pendulum Party. We'll telling all of the deepest darkest secrets from Pendulum X and all of the naughty sexcapades that we had. So bite the pillow... this one might sting a bit. Proudly pa...

159 - The Great Gangbang 28.05.2019

At the beginning of May Angela wanted to celebrate her 40th birthday in style. So the team at Our Secret Spot organized for her to have a gang bang that finished with bukake. We invited The Gentleman back to recall the event... which was pretty spectacular. In this podcast we will describe the setup and the action, what it was like to be a participant and a spectator. We'll also give advice on how...

158 - Sex Positive Parenting 22.05.2019

In this podcast we talk with Dr. Deb (Dr. Deborah Bateson) and Christy (Dr. Christy Newman) about sex positive parenting. We explore how to raise the issue of sexuality with children, starting the conversation, and sexual education in general. We discuss ways to create an open and safe home environment. A central theme is communicating on an age appropriate and child appropriate level in each fami...

157 - Reproductive Justice 15.05.2019

In this podcast we talk with Dr. Deb (Dr. Deborah Bateson) and Christy (Dr. Christy Newman) about reproductive justice and awareness. We delve deeply into the diversity in women's health care, access to care, education, reproductive care and choices, male contraception, LARCs, and reproductive coercion. This is an extremely important episode as many of us take for granted our access to healthcare...

156 - Angela Returns to the Sauna 07.05.2019

In this episode we discuss Angela's solo return to the Bay City Sauna in Melbourne. We discuss her experiences and ultimately we dive into what she is looking for in a play partner when she is on the road and ultimately we answer the question that so so many people want, nay need, to know... How exactly DOES one pick up and hook up with Angela when she is on the road. Proudly part of the  Swi...

155 - Returning to Play & April Wrap Up 30.04.2019

In this episode we discuss some of the exploits (sexploits?) that we got up to in April. We also talk about a disconnect that we sometimes feel when we are outside of our tribes and safety zones and how it can be difficult to reintegrate yourself. Proudly part of the  Swingset.fm  team! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat  here Find u...

154 - The Economics of Swinging... Part 2 23.04.2019

A short while ago we did an episode on the economics of swinging and we were promptly sent a list of more econ terms and a challenge to apply them to the swinging lifestyle. We took up the challenge and I think we did a pretty good job! Don't believe us? Sit down and listen! We take apart a bunch more economic terms and principles and apply them to the swinging. So sit back and enjoy as we dissect...

153 - Angela's First Sauna! 16.04.2019

She’s heard Bradford’s tales of the sexy times in the saunas for 6 years. She’s grilled The Gentleman to try and get a better understanding of what a first time sauna experience is actually like. Well, this past weekend, Angela got to experience a night in a sauna for the first time herself and the result can be heard here. Listen as we tell you about our sexy experiences at Bay City Sauna in Melb...

152 - Sexiness on the Road 03.04.2019

This week we recorded from a hotel room near LAX during a long layover. We talk about sexy adventures that we both have had whilst traveling, Bradford regails of visiting London and seeing our dear friends, The Bed Hoppers. Angela talks about going back to the first swingers club we ever went to, The House, in North Carolina. Then we talk about the two of us reuniting and meeting friends to go to...

151 - The Economics of Swinging 26.03.2019

Economics, a social science concerned chiefly with description and analysis of the production, distribution, and consumption of goods and services... We can apply these same ideas and principles to swinging. Don't believe us? Sit down and listen! We take apart a bunch of economic terms and principles and apply them to the swinging lifestyle! So sit back and enjoy as we dissect Swinganomics! Proudl...

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