Breakups and Breakthroughs

00:00 Intro 03:00 A reflection from a friend that woke me up 3:36 The power of choice 4:40 you have the power to make a different choice 5:30 You may not be choosing it but are you still tolerating it? 6:50 Being challenged on our choices is a good thing! 8:00 I wouldn't be where I am today if I wasn't confronted on my choices 09:00 Making different choices means change and our brains HATE change...

00:00 Intro  00:30 You're not alone in feeling this way- other people feel nervous too! 03:15 A lot of people don't actually have experience in dating  4:00 A lot of people "fell" into their last relationship but are now intentionally dating now 07:27 Find ways to take off the pressure of dating 10:30 Focus on how you feel more than whether your date likes you 13:43 Notice when you start talking n...

00:00 intro 00:30 How we fall into rebounds 4:00 Sleeping with/Dating other people won't get you over your ex 05:00 Our brains get addicted to love 06:50 Signs you're at risk of a rebound 07:00 You haven't processed the breakup 07:30 You aren't comfortable being alone or look to others for validation 08:00 Signs you're in a rebound 08:10 Comparing them to your ex 08:30 Avoiding commitment 09:00 Co...

00:00 Intro  01:40 How long should you wait to start dating again? 03:50 Intuition vs. guilt/shame - How do you feel about your own timeline? 05:20 Somtimes you meet someone and the timing isn't perfect... 06:38 The amount of time it takes you to be ready to date again depends on this 07:25 Its more useful to look for signs that you're ready to date again than at the timeline 08:00 Not thinking ab...

00:00 Intro 01:40 You think about a lot of things in your day 02:00 You don't have to hold thoughts so heavily 02:20 Thinking about your ex was a part of your routine  03:30 You don't have to act off of your thoughts 05:00 Where are you feeding the habit? 06:00 Redirecting your thoughts 07:40 Preventing intrusive thoughts 08:00 Noticing triggers 09:15 Intrusive thoughts often stem from heightened...

Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:40 What hoping you and your ex will get back together looks like 01:45 Is it normal to hold out hope? 03:00 Feeling guilty for holding out hope  03:30 Holding out hope doesn't have to mean anything 04:20 You're holding out hope because you still love or care for them 06:00 Noticing the story you are telling yourself and shifting it 06:30 Creating space between you and yo...

How to forget about your ex and stop thinking about them all of the time so that you can start healing and moving forward. Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 01:55 Invest in yourself and your life 03:30 Life wheel 04:30 Getting yourself into a flow state 08:30 Don't beat yourself up when you do think about your ex 9:50 Recap of everything we talked about Podcast Host:  Lucy Price Links Join The Heartbreak to...

Some reasons why you may miss your ex (even months or years after the breakup.) Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 01:30 Missing your ex is part of moving forward 02:55 The comfort of familiarity  03:50 Emotional Attachment 05:30 Loss of the future you planned with them or loss of identity 06:15 Missing the routine or lifestyle you had 08:00 Romanticizing the relationship or the good you had 09:00 Separting...

In this episode we are going over practical things you can do when you see your ex move on first. Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:30 Seeing your ex move on before you 01:40 Society's narrative around "winning the breakup" 03:30 Resist the temptation to dig deeper 06:00 You don't actually know what's going on with your ex 06:50 What are you making your ex moving on first mean? 08:00 Challenge the storie...

In this episode: Practical ways to stop obsessing over your ex Why we get stuck in thinking about our exes Mini mindset shifts that will make the process of moving on from your ex easier Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:30 Free Masterclass - Heartbreak to Happiness 01:00 Can't stop thinking about your ex 01:30 Thinking about your ex after a breakup is expected 02:20 Being in the habit of thinking about...

In this episode: Why we idealize past relationships, especially after a breakup. The impact of selective memory and how it keeps you stuck. Practical steps to shift focus from the ex to building a fulfilling life. Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 02:30 My own experience with romanticizing an ex  03:00 What we're covering in this episode  04:00 What is romanticization  05:00 Why we romanticize exes 05:27 Pr...

In this episode we cover: How to navigate a breakup based on your attachment style. What to do when old patterns come up in new relationships. How to know when you're ready to date again. How knowing your attachment style helps you navigate your breakup. How to use your attachment style to your advantage in future relationships. 01:34 what advice would you give each of the attachment styles to get...

In this episode we cover: The most common financial mistakes people make in relationships that affect them in breakups. Ways to protect yourself financially before, during, and after a breakup. How to prepare financially for a breakup or divorce. How to financially prepare to leave an unsafe relationship. Advice to thrive, not just survive, financially after a breakup. Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:2...

Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:30 Meet out guest- Ilana Dunn Soloman! 1:15 How do you know when you're ready to start dating again? 03:00 It's okay to try it out and see how you feel  4:00 Everyone's journey is different 5:45 What do you do when your friends and family are pressuring you to date again? 7:00 As a friend, what can you can do to help your friend through a breakup? 08:15 Common dating mis...

In this episode I am joined by Jewel Hohman and we are diving into how to make and maintain friendships when you are going through the emotional ups and downs of a breakup.  How to build relationships when you are struggling emotionally with a breakup. Practical ways to cultivate friendship after a breakup. How to know when a friendship is worth investing more into or whether it would be better fo...

In this episode I am joined by Karen McMahon! We are breaking down how to navigate a high conflict divorce so that you come out the other side feeling clear in what you want next and confident in your ability to move forward. Timestamps 00:00 Intro 01:30 Main contributors to high conflict divorce 05:30 Who is responsible for high conflict divorce? 05:55 What can you do to look after yourself when...

If you are feeling like you have a lot of emotional charge around your breakup, and you feel like it shouldn't be as strong as it is, then this episode is going to explain some of the reasons why you may be having difficulty. Time Stamps: 00:00 Intro 00:00 Why am I still so emotional about the breakup? 01:50 3 reasons why you may be hung up on your ex 2:15 Stages of grief 03:30 intellectualizing y...

If you feel like it's taking you a long time to get over your ex then this episode is going to break down some reasons why that may be the case and what you can do to speed up the process. Timestamps 00:00 Intro 00:25 It feels like it's taking you a long time to get over your ex - 5 things to consider 00:45 Getting stuck in a rut around the breakup 01:24 1) What narrative are you buying into? 03:3...

If you're wondering whether you are ready to date again, then hit play. I'm breaking down 5 things you can look for to indicate that you are ready to date again.  I also asked my community over on instagram for what they look for in themselves to decide if they are ready to date again and I  loved  hearing the responses. So much so that I wanted to share some of them here because I think they woul...

Questions featured in this episode: How to deal with the fear of uncertainty & having to start from scratch? - Why do I feel a sense of hyper sexual energy after my breakup three months ago? - How to interact with ex's new partner without feeling bad about myself? I work with them - Why do avoidant partners act lovingly one second then discard? - Ex is singer/songwriter airs dirty laundry through...

Going through a breakup is challenging- especially when you were cheated on. One of the things you may be struggling with is the confusing feelings that come with still being in love with your ex when they cheated on you. In this episode we break down three reasons why you may still love your ex and what you can do about it so that you can get over your ex and move forward. Podcast Host:  Lucy Pri...

When you've been in a relationship the adjustment to single life can feel jarring. Maybe you didn't expect to be single again, you've never enjoyed being single, or you just feel like you don't know what to do with yourself. In this episode we're going to break down different steps you can take to enjoy your single life and find a deeper sense of fulfillment.  Email me your questions! Subject: Que...

Wondering how long it's going to take you to get over your ex? In this episode, we're going to break it down.  Email me your questions! Subject: Question-Podcast Email:  lucyprice@shiftyourstory.net Podcast Host:  Lucy Price Shift Your Story Links Breakup Workshop:  Over It: Breakup Workshop Interested in working with me? Book a free 30-minute introduction call here:  https://www.shiftyourstory.ne...

Wondering how long it's going to take you to get over your ex? In this episode, we're going to break it down.  Email me your questions! Subject: Question-Podcast Email:  lucyprice@shiftyourstory.net Podcast Host:  Lucy Price Shift Your Story Links Breakup Workshop:  Over It: Breakup Workshop Interested in working with me? Book a free 30-minute introduction call here:  https://www.shiftyourstory.ne...

How do you deal with a brekaup when your ex is your co-worker? Breakups are tough- especially when you have to work with your ex. This episode will give you some practical tools you can use to get over your ex when you still have to see them and engage with them in a professional manner. Date Yourself- Get Over Your Ex & Heal Your Heart In 3 Months https://www.shiftyourstory.net/date-yourself-3-mo...