Boy, Guess What

This week, we're putting common dating, relationship, and life scenarios to the test as we decide whether they're deal breakers, warning signs, or total green lights. From first dates and friendships to finances and social media, we each share our opinions—and not everyone agrees. Play along with us and see if your answers match ours. Which flags would you choose?

What does community really mean if we aren't helping each other grow? In this episode of Boy Guess What , we're having an honest conversation about gatekeeping, collaboration, and the importance of creating spaces where everyone has the opportunity to thrive. From missed opportunities and competition to mentorship, support, and celebrating each other's success, we explore what it takes to build a...

Would you ever consider a career in adult entertainment if life looked a little different? In this episode of Boy Guess What , we have an honest and unfiltered conversation about the adult entertainment industry, the stigma surrounding it, the opportunities it can create, and the reasons people choose to enter or avoid it. We explore questions around money, visibility, personal boundaries, public...

In celebration of Pride Month, this episode of Boy Guess What gets personal as we share our coming out stories and reflect on the journeys that shaped us. 🌈 From fear and uncertainty to freedom and self-acceptance, we open up about the moments that changed our lives, the challenges we faced, and what coming out meant for each of us. This conversation is honest, emotional, funny at times, and a re...

In this episode of Boy Guess What , we’re diving into the topic of race play as a sexual kink and unpacking the layers, discomfort, curiosity, and controversy surrounding it. From personal perspectives to broader conversations about race, power dynamics, boundaries, and community, we approach the topic openly and honestly while exploring why discussions like this can be so complex. This episode co...

First dates can be exciting, awkward, and sometimes unforgettable for all the wrong reasons. In this episode of Boy Guess What , we're talking about the questions you should ask on a first date, dating red flags, and some of our wildest dating horror stories. Tap in for the laughs, lessons, and real talk.

In this episode of Boy Guess What , we’re having an honest conversation about the emotional weight so many of us carry and the ways it can quietly shape our lives, relationships, and self-worth. From limiting beliefs and imposter syndrome to anger, healing, and even the healthcare challenges people face in America, we unpack the mental and emotional barriers that can keep us stuck. Through persona...

This week we sit down with Lamb, CEO of Frolic Weekend, and get into what the experience is really about. We talk about the intention behind Frolic, what it means to create space for Black gay and queer people, and why representation and experience matter. From the vibe of the weekend to what first-timers can expect, this conversation goes beyond the surface and gets into the why behind it all. Ta...

We’re back with Part 2—because the conversation didn’t end there. In this episode of Boy Guess What , we continue unpacking safe spaces for gay men of color and take it deeper into representation—what it really means to feel seen, understood, and accepted in the spaces we move through. From code switching to identity, we’re getting honest about the experiences that don’t always get said out loud....

This week on Boy Guess What , we’re asking a question that might hit a little too close to home… From the viral “Pop The Balloon” dating show to the bigger picture of modern dating, we’re unpacking whether reality TV is just entertainment… or a full-blown social experiment. 🎈 Are shows like this shaping how we judge people? Are we becoming more comfortable with instant rejection, unrealistic stan...

In this episode of Boy Guess What , we’re talking about safe spaces for gay men of color—and what happens when those spaces don’t always feel safe. From the barbershop to everyday social settings, we explore code-switching, identity, and the quiet ways we adjust just to exist comfortably. Because everyone deserves a space where they can show up fully as themselves—no filter, no pressure.

Season 2 starts with a question we don’t talk about enough— why are so many of us lonely? We’re diving into the reality of connection, dating, and what it actually feels like to navigate the gay community today. It’s real, it’s honest… and it might hit a little close to home.

This week, we’re debating whether you should take a partner back after cheating — and what that choice says about love, boundaries, trust, and self-respect. Should you fight to rebuild… or walk away to protect your peace?

From nightlife hierarchy to “you can’t sit with us” friend groups, the boys give their take as Black gay voices navigating identity, self-esteem, and connection in a vibrant (and sometimes vicious) community.

We unpack real experiences, queer community pressures, abandonment trauma, chosen family, and how to heal without closing your heart off to new connections.

We’re unpacking identity pressure, stereotypes, performance of self, respectability politics, internalized racism, internalized homophobia, community gatekeeping, and the exhaustion of trying to be “enough” for everyone but yourself.

On Episode 4 of Boy Guess What, Bronson, Marcus, and Davon dive into the real talk behind open relationships, dead bedrooms, and how queer couples actually navigate intimacy when the spark flickers or routines take over. We explore communication, boundaries, mismatched desire, relationship pressure, and what it takes to keep connection alive in queer relationships today.

Are we witnessing the death of true R&B… or just the evolution of it? In this episode, we dive into the state of R&B music today — from oversexualization and shallow lyrics to the loss of raw emotion and storytelling that defined the genre in the 90s and early 2000s.

This week, we’re unpacking the complicated — and sometimes messy — dynamics of intimacy inside friend groups. From “homie hopping” to sexual boundaries to blurred friendship lines… NOTHING was off limits this episode

For our Season Finale, we’re slowing things down and getting real about mental health — the kind of conversations that don’t always happen out loud, but affect all of us every day. This episode is about honesty, self-awareness, and learning how to show up for yourself and others in healthier ways. We talk about the pressure to “be okay,” the danger of ignoring your inner world, and why healing req...