Shena Lashey
Black Girls Heal
Black Girls Heal helps women break out of cycles of unhealthy relationships with unavailable partners and feeling not enough by combining coaching, therapeutic support, and practical tools. Every episode, we will talk about intimacy, attachment, healing unresolved trauma, and growing in our self worth.
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Episodes
A special update to share... 20.10.2026 5:59
In this episode, Shena shares a special announcement and the topic for next week's podcast episode. Freebie Downloads Click here to download the 5 Step Roadmap Click here to download The Loved Woman's Checklist Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
#349: 4 Reasons Why You're Attracted to Unavailable People 13.10.2026 48:31
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#348: Your Biggest Wound is Your Greatest Gift 06.10.2026 19:25
In this episode, Shena talks about the 12 types of wounds we can have that are actually our greatest gifts, examples of how it may show up in our life, and how to heal them. Visit CafeAstrology.com to learn more about your Chiron Break the cycle of love addiction with The Recovery School: Click here to join Join our free text community: Click here to join Get the free roadmap to break out of love...
#347: All About Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria in ADHD 29.09.2026 29:31
In this episode, Shena goes over what Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria from ADHD looks like in individuals and how it overlaps with common themes discussed under love addiction and trauma recovery. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
#346: 5 Ways to Right Partner Will Support You 22.09.2026 12:24
In this episode, Shena reviews 5 ways the right partner will be there to support you. Keep track of your relationships and find your perfect match using our Perfect Match Tracker: Click here to get it Break the cycle of love addiction with The Recovery School: Click here to join Join our free text community: Click here to join Get the free roadmap to break out of love addiction: Click here to down...
#345: The 6 Parts of a S.A.C.R.E.D. Life for Healed Women 15.09.2026 19:19
In this episode, Shena breaks down the 6 pillar S.A.C.R.E.D. framework for Healed and Loved Woman. This framework details the main focuses of Healed and Loved Women and how they center and prioritize themselves in their everyday life. Download the free Loved Woman Checklist: Click here to download Break the cycle of love addiction with The Recovery School: Click here to join Join our free text com...
#344: 5 Ways Healed Women Can Be Open to Love 09.09.2026 25:19
In this episode, Shena reviews 5 ways Healed and Loved Women can be open to love. Break the cycle of love addiction with The Recovery School: Click here to join Join our free text community: Click here to join Get the free roadmap to break out of love addiction: Click here to download Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
#343: Healing Passive Aggressiveness in Relationships 01.09.2026 31:32
In this episode, Shena discusses ways to work through passive agressive communication defenses in relationships when healing from love addiction. Break the cycle of love addiction with The Recovery School: Click here to join Join our free text community: Click here to join Get the free roadmap to break out of love addiction: Click here to download Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brand...
#342: 4 Unhelpful Faith-Based Beliefs that Unknowingly Keep Love Addicts Stuck 25.08.2026 27:22
In this episode, Shena review faith based beliefs that unknowingly keep love addicts stuck. Break the cycle of love addiction with The Recovery School: Click here to join Join our free text community: Click here to join Get the free roadmap to break out of love addiction: Click here to download Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
#341: Common Red Flags in Lesbian Relationships for Love Addicts 13.08.2026 29:48
In this episode, Shena discusses common red flags to look out for in lesbian relationships for love addicts. Break the cycle of love addiction with The Recovery School: Click here to join Join our free text community: Click here to join Get the free roadmap to break out of love addiction: Click here to download Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircl...
#340: Breaking Codependency in Family Relationships 11.08.2026 34:01
In this episode, Shena focuses on several signs of codependency in family relationships, how it affects you, and different mindsets to consider to heal and change your patterns. Break the cycle of love addiction with The Recovery School: Click here to join Join our free text community: Click here to join Get the free roadmap to break out of love addiction: Click here to download Advertising Inquir...
#339: 5 Archetypes of Unavailable Men for Love Addicts 04.08.2026 43:35
In this episode, Shena reviews 5 types of unavailable men frequently encountered by love addicts before they break the cycle. Break the cycle of love addiction with The Recovery School: Click here to join Join our free text community: Click here to join Get the free roadmap to break out of love addiction: Click here to download Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out:...
#338 - My burnt out nervous system and how I'm recoverying (Back from sabbatical!) 02.08.2026 53:45
In this episode, Shena returns from sabbatical and shares all the lessons she has learned from healing her nervous system over the years and where else there is to go! Join the Recovery School: http://www.therecoveryschool.com Join the Text Community: http://www.blackgirlsheal.org/text Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
#337: Summer Sabbatical Relationships for Self Love 02.06.2026 40:03
What would change if you truly believed you were worthy of love, peace, and care? In this episode of the Black Girls Heal Podcast, I am inviting you into a deeper conversation about self-love, emotional healing, and reconnecting with the relationship you have with yourself. Through guided reflection, journaling prompts, and future-self visualization, you'll explore the beliefs, experiences, an...
#336: Summer Sabbatical Homework for Relationships 26.05.2026 37:43
In this episode, Shena shares a practical and compassionate roadmap for healing relationship patterns, reconnecting with yourself, and creating healthier experiences in love. Through reflective journaling prompts, grounding exercises, and emotional inventory work, she invites you to use the next 90 days as an opportunity to break unhealthy cycles, strengthen self-trust, and create space for the ki...
#335: 3 Ways to Find Positivity in Times of Stress 06.05.2026 25:47
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#334: Future Fakers, Secret Emotional Abusers, & Cheaters Do Not Deserve You 29.04.2026 30:41
In this episode, Shena uses Megan Thee Stallion’s recent breakup to unpack critical relationship red flags, including cheating, emotional instability, and “future faking.” She reinforces that a partner’s betrayal is never your fault, and that patterns like mood swings, lack of accountability, and a history of dishonesty are warning signs that shouldn’t be overlooked. This episode serves as a power...
#333: When You're Healing Alone 22.04.2026 26:00
In this episode, Shena explores what it looks like to navigate your healing journey without the support system you wish you had. If you’re in a season where you’ve outgrown certain relationships but haven’t yet found your tribe, this conversation will meet you right where you are. This episode is a reminder that even if you’re healing alone, you’re not stuck but you’re creating space for the relat...
#332: Why Your Feelings Need Structure 15.04.2026 21:56
Your feelings are powerful but they aren’t always telling you the truth. In this episode, I explore why intense emotions can keep you stuck in unhealthy patterns and how giving your feelings structure can help you reclaim your power. Drawing from my work on the No Contact process, I broke down how emotional overwhelm, trauma bonds, and familiar patterns can make it difficult to walk away from rela...
#331: 3 Strengths Gained by Taking Your Power Back in No Contact 08.04.2026 27:51
In this episode, Shena discussed 3 powerful strengths you gain by taking your power back in no contact. Free No Contact Cheat Sheets: Click here to download Resources mentioned in the episode: BGH Method: http://www.blackgirlsheal.org/method The 4 Step Roadmap to Heal Love Addiction: https://www.blackgirlsheal.org/roadmap Connect with us: Website: Blackgirlsheal.org Instagram: @BlackGirlsHeal...
#330: Writing the No Contact Book (Behind the Scenes & More) 01.04.2026 27:07
In this episode, Shena takes you behind the scenes on writing her latest book on her signature 90 Day No Contact healing process. Pre-Order the No Contact Book Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
#329: When You’re Too Busy to Find Love 18.03.2026 46:55
In this episode, Shena shares a powerful live discussion on what it really means to pursue love when life feels overwhelmingly busy, especially if your schedule, past heartbreak, or emotional patterns are holding you back from meaningful connection. She breaks down the deeper reasons behind “being too busy” for love and offers three transformative mindset shifts - helping you prioritize your emoti...
#328: Why your breakups hit differently (why they hurt so much more) 11.03.2026 21:24
In this episode, I go over why your breakup pain hits differently than others, describe the process named "withdrawal," and what you can do about it. Join me in the BGH Method Get our free 5 step roadmap to heal from love addiction Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
#327: 3 Tips to Cope With a Breakup 04.03.2026 19:29
Breakups are painful. But when you struggle with love addiction, trauma bonding, or unresolved childhood wounds, breakups can feel devastating, consuming, and nearly impossible to move through. In this episode, I break down how to navigate heartbreak when your nervous system is deeply activated and your attachment patterns are involved. This conversation is about compassion and not criticism. Awar...
#326: Where am I in my love addiction journey? (5 stages of healing) 25.02.2026 27:51
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