Better Than Journaling

Would I be the AH? Folks are wondering whether or not they should do what they're thinking of doing related to weddings. They got questions? We got opinions. Let's talk about how people lose their minds around wedding time. Agree with our thoughts on these? Think we're way off? Let us know - drop us a line.

Today we're talking lies - is there ever a time where telling a lie makes you not the AH? What about calling folks on lies? What about lying about something "harmless" but in a harmful way? Let us know what you think.

Aahhhh yess, the group chat. Holder of infinite tea. Gif self-expression library. Space for ranting, trash talk, and the occasional event planning. What are the rules of the group chat you say?? Let's find out today.

What has to power to turn friends into enemies, pit siblings against each other, ruin marriages, and divide entire families? Well...ok fair probably lots of things, but today we're talking about money...and the entitlement is real y'all. Today's AITA focuses some of the ways money comes between people. Listen up and tell us what you think.

Ah the struggles of a blended family. Some of these stepchildren can't stop won't stop. Join us in judging who's the asshole in how these families relate to one another.

Today we're dabbling in petty revenge (which sometimes just sounds like justice) and a little bit of malicious compliance. Let us know what you think - is it revenge just because your actions caused consequences for others or is it the intention that matters?

Welcome to a new episode of the podcast where we consider if when pain is involved, does it automatically make you less of an asshole. Spoiler alert, it's drama!

Today we're talking about some of the little and big ways sibling bump heads.  We expected it to be light but a couple of them were pretty sad.  Sound off - which do you agree with us on?  Which do you think we got wrong?

Happy New Year! AITA for getting my neighbor's car towed? Tune in and tell us what you think.

Join us in unlocking  new levels of truth for ourselves in the latest journey into AITA.

It's official - we're obsessed with these so please enjoy another episode of Am I The Asshole on Better Than Journaling.  Jump in the comments and argue with us if you think we got these wrong!  Also - Adia wants to know...at what age can you no longer be called a picky eater??

We had too much fun with this AITA business so we did it again.  Stay tuned y'all.  This might be our new thing!  Feel free to weigh in.  Let us know whether you agree or disagree with out takes on these.

Welcome to Season 2 Episode 1! You can't please all of the people all of the time, not everyone's gonna love the choices we make. Also, sometimes we're dead ass wrong and petty af! Join us as we browse some recent queries of AITA. We're exploring new content and invite you to engage with us on the poll this week!

A year in review. Join us in thinking about how you've kept some of our most impactful conversations and topics of the last year alive. See how we've assessed our own efforts to keep the work alive and what we want to do in the coming year!

Do you love the holiday season? Get excited for pumpkin spiced lattes, chestnuts roasting by an open fire and Jack Frost nipping at your nose? Ever wonder why the traditions are what they are or boldly say screw this and decide to make it your own? Tell us about what's special to you.

Today we're journaling out loud about those every day annoyances that make us want to move to a deserted island and live a solitary life away from annoying people that do annoying things.  Higher than average amount of cussing in this one folx cause pet peeves bring out the worst (or the best?) of us so maybe don't listen with the kids.  Tell us what you think - agree with our pet peeves...

We don't want to be in any trouble with the ancestors - so with much respect and gratitude to them, we present you with what the ancestors got right!  What did yours get right?  What practices of theirs did you abandon in all your wisdom that now you're kinda thinking you might want to reclaim?

We over here borrowing trouble, y'all - talking about what the ancestors got wrong and then cringing in the corner hoping they don't hear this episode. We're risking our lives and inheritances to bring you this content so we need to know what you think!  What did your ancestors get wrong?  In what ways are you moving through the world that's in alignment with your ancestors even though i...

Today we talk about how things in our lives became known as “wypipo shit” We ponder if there are real societal barriers creating disparities or if we are just making excuses for sticking to what we know. Consider if you’re operating off of what was taught to you, if you’re consciously making your own choices and if you might like to do some more wypipo shit in your life!

Have you outgrown someone or been outgrown by them?  Do your relationships go out with a bang, or quietly fizzle?  Join us as we talk about the ways relationships transition over time.  

Do you ever second guess how to present sensitive information?  Do you sometimes find yourself questioning whether you said what you wanted to say in a way that was impactful but without making too many waves?  Or are you one who wants your words to pack a punch, for better or worse?  Join us this week as we talk about the power of words and how we try to use them for maximum impact...

Ever wonder if the way someone shows up in the world is because of their character or if it's due to the traumatic experiences they've endured? Join us as we chew on ideas and unofficially decide what's what. We're wondering what you think and what you've experienced so leave a comment and tell us all about it. 

What happens when we say yes? Let's talk about what we say yes to, what's harder to say yes to, and why we plan to say yes more often.

It's PRIDE month, and Juneteenth, and Afro Caribbean Heritage month (that's totally a thing!) and we're talking about heritage and cultural celebration days.  Which ones do you celebrate and how do you honor the cultures or people they're intended to elevate?  Which of your identities are celebrated, and which ones are feeling ignored?  How are you celebrating yourself??

Adia's just about to enter her 40s while Aisha is barreling full steam ahead chasing down 50 - we take a retrospective look at our 20s and 30s and what the 40 have been and could be.  We want to hear from you - what's your best decade so far?  How'd you make it so?  Looking ahead, how can you make sure you're living in the present versus trying to recapture a previous time or live w...