Behind the Paddle

Send us Fan Mail In this deeply textured episode of Behindthepaddle, Porcelain Victoria is joined by the enigmatic and skilled rope practitioner @MissFayMorgan whose eight years of experience in shibari and rope bondage span teaching, performance, and profound emotional connection. Together, they untangle the physical, psychological, and spiritual dimensions of rope play from the meditative tensio...

Send us Fan Mail Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 172-182 of Revolting Prostitutes , a groundbreaking work that challenges societal views on sex work. Delve into the critical themes of agency, labor, and the intersections of identity and exploitation. In this intimate reading, Porcelain brings her unique perspective to the text,...

Send us Fan Mail In this provocative episode of Behindthepaddle podcast we explore kink, shame, and embodied consent, I sit down with Celeste Hirschman and Dr. Danielle Harel, co-founders of the Somatica Institute and stars of Channel 4's Virgin Island, to uncover why somatica is such a wonderful practice we all need to learn about and what practices truly keep us safe. Whether you're ki...

Send us Fan Mail Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 162-172 of Revolting Prostitutes , a groundbreaking work that challenges societal views on sex work. Delve into the critical themes of agency, labor, and the intersections of identity and exploitation. In this intimate reading, Porcelain brings her unique perspective to the text,...

Send us Fan Mail Imagine a world where half the population regularly misses school, work, or risks their health due to a completely solvable problem. That's the reality of period poverty a crisis affecting 500 million menstruators worldwide every month. Christine Denning takes us on an eye-opening journey through her work tackling this global injustice. After discovering that period poverty w...

Send us Fan Mail Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 151-162 of Revolting Prostitutes , a groundbreaking work that challenges societal views on sex work. Delve into the critical themes of agency, labor, and the intersections of identity and exploitation. In this intimate reading, Porcelain brings her unique perspective to the text,...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome to BehindthePaddle podcast on this episode, The sultry voice on the other end of the phone line has been commanding submission long before webcams and instant messaging. From late-night hotline advertisements in the 1980s to today's digital dungeons on platforms like OnlyFans and NiteFlirt, phone-based domination continues to thrive offering both liberation and hidden...

Send us Fan Mail Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 141-151 of Revolting Prostitutes , a groundbreaking work that challenges societal views on sex work. Delve into the critical themes of agency, labor, and the intersections of identity and exploitation. In this intimate reading, Porcelain brings her unique perspective to the text,...

Send us Fan Mail Let’s start with the lie: that criminalizing sex work is done to protect the most vulnerable. That it helps victims. That it stops traffickers. That if you just lock up the pimps and fine the buyers, the violence disappears. But in reality, many of the people being arrested, fined, and jailed are the ones who need help the most . This episode isn’t about theory. It’s about lived e...

Send us Fan Mail Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 131 -142 of Revolting Prostitutes , a groundbreaking work that challenges societal views on sex work. Delve into the critical themes of agency, labor, and the intersections of identity and exploitation. In this intimate reading, Porcelain brings her unique perspective to the text,...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome back to Behindthepaddle , where we blend the science of sensation with the elegance of kink. I’m your host, Porcelain Victoria. In this special installment, we’re peeling back the layers of what happens beneath the surface exploring the powerful neurochemical dance that pulses through every strike, whisper, and command. Whether you identify as a Dominant, submissive, switc...

Send us Fan Mail Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 121-131 of Revolting Prostitutes , a groundbreaking work that challenges societal views on sex work. Delve into the critical themes of agency, labor, and the intersections of identity and exploitation. In this intimate reading, Porcelain brings her unique perspective to the text,...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome to Behindthepaddle,' where the science of pleasure meets the art of kink. I’m your host, Porcelain Victoria. In this special episode, we dive deep into the neurochemical currents running beneath every flog, whisper, and command. Whether you're a Dominant, submissive, switch, or simply curious, understanding the chemistry of your brain during BDSM play can not onl...

Send us Fan Mail Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 112-121 of Revolting Prostitutes , a groundbreaking work that challenges societal views on sex work. Delve into the critical themes of agency, labor, and the intersections of identity and exploitation. In this intimate reading, Porcelain brings her unique perspective to the text,...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome to Behindthepaddle podcast , the show where we unpack the power, nuance, and intimacy behind BDSM and alternative relationship dynamics. I'm your host, Porcelain Victoria, and today we begin a deeply personal and culturally rich hour journey into one of the most iconic symbols in BDSM: the collar. Before we dive in, a content warning: this episode will explore adult t...

Send us Fan Mail Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 97-112 of Revolting Prostitutes , a groundbreaking work that challenges societal views on sex work. Delve into the critical themes of agency, labor, and the intersections of identity and exploitation. In this intimate reading, Porcelain brings her unique perspective to the text, o...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome to Behind the Paddle podcast. Today, we are speaking about Carol Leigh, a writer, artist, and activist who revolutionized the fight for sex workers’ rights. By coining the term “sex work,” she reframed the discussion around the industry, moving it away from criminalization and stigma toward labor rights and bodily autonomy. This episode will explore her life, activism, and...

Send us Fan Mail Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 87-97 of Revolting Prostitutes , a groundbreaking work that challenges societal views on sex work. Delve into the critical themes of agency, labor, and the intersections of identity and exploitation. In this intimate reading, Porcelain brings her unique perspective to the text, of...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Behind the paddle Podcast, we dive deep into the Online Safety Act what it is, why it matters, and how it’s changing the way we interact online. From protecting young users and tackling harmful content to holding tech giants accountable, we unpack the major provisions, the controversies, and the real-world impact this landmark legislation could have on everyday...

Send us Fan Mail Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 77-87 of Revolting Prostitutes , a groundbreaking work that challenges societal views on sex work. Delve into the critical themes of agency, labor, and the intersections of identity and exploitation. In this intimate reading, Porcelain brings her unique perspective to the text, of...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Behind the paddle Podcast, we dive deep into the Online Safety Act what it is, why it matters, and how it’s changing the way we interact online. From protecting young users and tackling harmful content to holding tech giants accountable, we unpack the major provisions, the controversies, and the real-world impact this landmark legislation could have on everyday...

Send us Fan Mail Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 67-77 of Revolting Prostitutes , a groundbreaking work that challenges societal views on sex work. Delve into the critical themes of agency, labor, and the intersections of identity and exploitation. In this intimate reading, Porcelain brings her unique perspective to the text, of...

Send us Fan Mail Fire and Thunder: The Legacy of John Brown   “His body lies a-mouldering in the grave, but his soul goes marching on.” Before the first shot of the Civil War, one man launched a private war against slavery and changed the course of American history. Fire and Thunder is a gripping, immersive, four-hour deep dive into the life, mission, and legacy of John Brown, the radical abolitio...

Send us Fan Mail Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 56-67 of Revolting Prostitutes , a groundbreaking work that challenges societal views on sex work. Delve into the critical themes of agency, labor, and the intersections of identity and exploitation. In this intimate reading, Porcelain brings her unique perspective to the text, of...

Send us Fan Mail In this powerful episode of Behindthepaddle , we dive deep into Netflix’s gripping one-shot crime drama Adolescence . Through a female lens, we explore the show’s portrayal of youth violence, toxic masculinity, and the psychological unravelling of a 13-year-old boy accused of murder. But the story doesn’t end on screen. We connect fiction to reality by examining real-life cases of...