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Send us Fan Mail The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne  Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of running a broth...

Send us Fan Mail The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne  Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of running a broth...

Send us Fan Mail This was taken from my bimonthly Zoom event.  I’ve been thinking a lot recently about how some men don’t know either how to navigate in the bedroom, don’t have as much confidence, haven’t much experience or confidence or have trauma therefore needing some mentoring in some manner. I have started to notice in my years of being a companion that there is an increase in men using my s...

Send us Fan Mail Baby Bumps & Backlash: S*x Work and Pregnancy.  This episode came about from hearing about Bonnie Blues pregnancy gangbang/golden shower.  In this episode of Behindthepaddle podcast you will hear from myself who has done adult content while pregnant. I will explain why, how I felt at the time and how I currently feel and how moving forward we can help pregnant women. This expe...

Send us Fan Mail Baby Bumps & Backlash: S*x Work and Pregnancy.  This episode came about from hearing about Bonnie Blues pregnancy gangbang/golden shower.  In this episode of Behindthepaddle podcast you will hear from myself who has done adult content while pregnant. I will explain why, how I felt at the time and how I currently feel and how moving forward we can help pregnant women. This expe...

Send us Fan Mail The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne  Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of running a broth...

Send us Fan Mail The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne  Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of running a broth...

Send us Fan Mail The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne  Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of running a broth...

Send us Fan Mail The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne  Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of running a broth...

Send us Fan Mail The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne  Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of running a broth...

Send us Fan Mail The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne  Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of running a broth...

Send us Fan Mail Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of running a brothel at 32 Ambleside Avenue in Streath...

Send us Fan Mail Today we are talking about the horrific lies of Ash Regan and the uneducated people who supported her bill. Mixing up consensual sex work and trafficking, making vocal sex workers ghosts who have no voice when spoken. The laughs by the supports of the Nordic model when told about the facts and evidence the Nordic model does indeed endanger not just sex workers but trafficked women...

Send us Fan Mail What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our understanding of executive functioning and neurodivergence. Diving into Ellie Middleton's "How to Be You," we explore how capitalism has trained us to equate our worth w...

Send us Fan Mail The men didn't think the women could do it. The 6888th Central Postal Directory Battalion were an amazing group of women who stared into the faces of inequality, racism and sexism whom defined all odds. Everyone was against the women they didn't think they could sort 17million pieces of mail. In WW2 leaders thought that low moral was the cause of so many dying so they pu...

Send us Fan Mail What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our understanding of executive functioning and neurodivergence. Diving into Ellie Middleton's "How to Be You," we explore how capitalism has trained us to equate our worth w...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Behindthepaddle , we take a critical look at the widely circulated booklet Decriminalisation vs the Nordic Model . Rather than debating ideology, this episode focuses on how the argument is constructed — from the emotional framing in the opening pages to the way evidence from New Zealand, Germany, and Europe is later presented. We unpack how language, selective...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Behindthepaddle , we take a critical look at the widely circulated booklet Decriminalisation vs the Nordic Model . Rather than debating ideology, this episode focuses on how the argument is constructed — from the emotional framing in the opening pages to the way evidence from New Zealand, Germany, and Europe is later presented. We unpack how language, selective...

Send us Fan Mail Today we will be talking about International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers. This day exists because too many people who sold sex were harmed, ignored, disappeared, and killed and because the world decided that was acceptable, or at least inevitable. Some sex workers' deaths,assaults, disappearances aren't even accounted for. For the people whose lives were redu...

Send us Fan Mail What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our understanding of executive functioning and neurodivergence. Diving into Ellie Middleton's "How to Be You," we explore how capitalism has trained us to equate our worth w...

Send us Fan Mail Today we dive dep into the serial killers Burke & Haire learning how Edinburgh has encapsulated these killers into the modern day world  Support the show Check out our socials! Thank you so much for listening 💖

Send us Fan Mail Before BDSM had a place in the public eye, one woman stepped into the frame and smiled through the ropes. In this Behindthepaddle deep dive, Victoria explores how Bettie Page a Southern girl with a homemade fringe  revolutionised erotic culture. From her trauma-shaped childhood to the Klaw Studios era of playful bondage, from moral panic to mental-health battles, and finally to he...

Send us Fan Mail What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our understanding of executive functioning and neurodivergence. Diving into Ellie Middleton's "How to Be You," we explore how capitalism has trained us to equate our worth w...

Send us Fan Mail Wanna hear me go on a rant about how families should teach their kids about sex etc ? I try twice to focus back to Amsterdam the Prostitute  Museum but there are so many reasons why as a society we see sex as taboo. Please listen in on how I a sex worker of 8yrs found Amsterdams Red Light District. Decriminalisation all the way  Support the show Check out our socials! Thank you so...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode I talk about how hectic the past two months have been with BBC interviews, Parliament visits, being a single mum and my Amsterdam work trip away. Want to know what its like being a sex worker ? Its just like any other person doing a job, this one is just a little bit more interesting than most Support the show Check out our socials! Thank you so much for listening...