Becoming Whole

Send us Fan Mail Join Josh and Kit as they discuss Connection, Power, and Meaning and how we go to sexual sin (and others) when our truest needs aren’t met. Highlights: I think one of the areas that's neglected for a lot of people has to do with emptiness. there's been research that shows the older a man gets actually the fewer and fewer friendships, authentic, meaningful friendships he...

Send us Fan Mail Join Josh and Kit as they unpack the impact of the families we grew up with and how they can tie into our present-day struggles. Highlights: "The first key childhood driver of unwanted sexual behavior is having a family system that was characterized as rigid and/or disengaged." Jay Stringer I've talked to lots of daughters, and I've also talked to moms, well-in...

Send us Fan Mail We all want the best for our kids. We want them to have fun, be safe, thrive, and grow in their relationships with each other and with God. As a parent how do I do this right!?! Join Josh and Kit as they discuss the best thing we can do for our kids; the best gift we can give to our children. Mentioned: PG Conf Spiritual Coaching Programs We would be honored if you would leave a r...

Send us Fan Mail If you are wrestling with unhealthy or unholy behaviors, it may be because, deep down, that's the kind of person you believe yourself to be. What would happen if you allowed Jesus to tell you who you are instead? Join Josh and Kit as they discuss the link between identity and behavior, and how you can gain more freedom. We would be honored if you would leave a review/rating (...

Send us Fan Mail Some say sex, some it’s more. What is it? What if I am single? What about when I am married? It’s about fostering something bigger, healthier, an authentic connection.  Join Josh and Kit as they talk through that longing that we all have to connect fully. The desire to truly be seen. We would be honored if you would leave a review/rating ( here's how ) on the Regeneration pod...

Send us Fan Mail It’s okay to not get the grade, drop the ball, or miss the shot. It’s okay to not always get it right, our gracious Father loves you. Period. Join Josh and Dan as they discuss what they would tell their younger selves. We would be honored if you would leave a review/rating ( here's how ) on the Regeneration podcast. Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole...

Send us Fan Mail From allowing our differences and/or preferences to come between us, to potential emotional abuse when “I’m not getting what I want”, we can drift from God’s desire for sexual intimacy in marriage. Also, different seasons and challenges in our married life can lead to challenges in our sexual intimacy. Join Josh and Kit this week as they discuss the tensions in marriage and in sex...

Send us Fan Mail Detaching and Love sound like polar opposites, yet there is a healthy way to detach in love. Boundaries, expectations, tensions, warning signs, are just a few of the things discussed this week. Join Josh, Kit, and Shannon, as they discuss it being a “kingdom, thought” to detach in love. Connect with us on Instagram or Facebook . Please leave a review wherever you listen to us. Fre...

Send us Fan Mail What Jesus did on the cross offers us freedom and redemption in our sexual sin. Soul ties and one-flesh unions add to the confusion and shame we feel when we partake, most of the time without us even knowing what is happening. Join Josh and Kit as they unravel the good and bad of one-flesh unions. Mentioned: A Guide for Listening and Inner-Healing Prayer by Rusty Rustenback Path T...

Send us Fan Mail Join Josh and Kit as they discuss the question, What would I tell my younger self? From senior pictures to comparison, anxiety, and lies we all believe. Am I accepted, am I lovable, do I measure up? Where do we go for answers to these questions? Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole: 👉 Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional 👉 Women 21-Day P...

Send us Fan Mail Do you expect something out of your kids that they shouldn't or even can't give you? We try all kinds of things at the expense of our children to get what we need. Is your image or value related to how your kids behave? Join Josh and Kit as they unravel what love looks like in giving our children the freedom to be who they are, and taking them down from the pedestal we h...

Send us Fan Mail We are wired for intimacy and long to know our true identity because we are wired this way. God created us in His image so there is something innate in us that aches for that intimacy, that connection, that other. Join Josh and Kit as they discuss the entanglement of Sex and Self-Worth. Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole: 👉 Men's Overcoming Lust &am...

Send us Fan Mail Grieving isn't just done at funerals, it can also be a helpful part of Parenting, Singleness, Marriage, sometimes even our sex lives. Join Josh and Kit as they discuss expectations and grief. Unearthing where our expectations are too high, identifying things not in our control, and grieving what we didn’t even know we expect from ourselves, others and God. Mentioned: Ruth Hal...

Send us Fan Mail We all have played the self hatred game. The evil one takes pride in watching us volley the hate back and forth at ourselves. Yet God speaks words of truth over us from the very beginning. Join Josh & his guests for a conversation about the importance of uncovering self hatred and the great value of self acceptance. Guests: Kit Elmer and James Craig Mentioned: Repent and Belie...

Send us Fan Mail This week Josh, Dan, and Anne discuss the ins and outs of the Sexual Addiction Cycle (Trigger/Preoccupation - Ritualization - Sexual Activity - Despair/Shame). Resources:  No Stones by Marnie Ferree The Sexual Addiction Cycle by Patrick Carnes, Ph. D. They discuss the power of the Lord and how He can break these chains of addiction along with speaking of practicals to help you alo...

Send us Fan Mail Josh and Kit walk through the practicals of how to forgive. They discuss the preparation work that goes into forgiving, including dealing with real emotions and wounds. After getting in touch with the pain, they talk about aligning with the reality of the grace of God and walking with Him through the forgiveness process. Forgiveness is humble but powerful enough to break lies out...

Send us Fan Mail Josh and Dan continue their conversation around Forgiveness. They dive into what Forgiveness is and isn’t. See you next week for more conversations about topics that matter to us all. We would love it if you would subscribe, leave a review, and email info@regenerationministries.org with any suggestions on topics you want to hear more about.  For more resources, and to support our...

Send us Fan Mail Josh and Dan go over the ways into the true gifts that come with forgiving.  They dive into unforgiveness as well and how it impacts both the physical and spiritual of our lives. PTSD, Depression, Spiritual Warfare and more.  Please subscribe, leave a review, and email info@regenerationministries.org with suggestions. For more resources, and to support our ministry, please visit r...

Send us Fan Mail Josh and Drew continue their conversation on sexual discipleship by discussing the 3 major themes of growing in sexual wholeness: vulnerability, identity, and intimacy. They unpack each of these themes and go on to discuss ideas including being sexual creatures without the specific expression of sex, covenant vs consumer mentality, and Christian sexual maturity.  Contact Drew at A...

Send us Fan Mail Sexual discipleship is found everywhere answering the questions: “What is sexuality for?” “What does it mean to be sexual?” and “What is sexuality?”  “Who are you being sexually discipled by?” asks author Drew Boa who wrote Redeemed Sexuality , a resource for young people who are seeking sexual wholeness. Josh interviews Drew to learn about how men and women can stop being sexuall...

Send us Fan Mail Josh and Anne conclude this series by getting into practical advice for women dealing with a pornography struggle. They discuss accountability, filters, prayer, and more. Resources:  Sexual Sanity for Women by Ellen Dykas 101 Practical Exercises by Dr. Doug Weiss Covenant Eyes Please subscribe, leave a review, and email info@regenerationministries.org with suggestions. For more re...

Send us Fan Mail Josh and Anne continue their conversation about women dealing with pornography by discussing how unhelpful thinking and negative mindsets keep women stuck. They propose that having a negative mindset leads women to look in the wrong places for affirmation and goodness. They also discuss looking towards this struggle with a curious mindset that asks “why am I going to this? What am...

Send us Fan Mail Our ‘women dealing with pornography’ series continues with Josh talking to Anne and Kyle about how women end up trapped in pornography, knowing that understanding this “how” is a key step towards freedom. They unpack how women are bringing legitimate needs and desires to an illegitimate place. Please subscribe, leave a review, and email info@regenerationministries.org with suggest...

Send us Fan Mail Josh interviews Anne and a special guest to kick off our series discussing women and pornography. The series kicks off with a testimony that discusses being stuck in porn, what was being sought, and how God is healing and healer. Please subscribe, leave a review, and email info@regenerationministries.org with suggestions. For more resources, and to support our ministry, please vis...

Send us Fan Mail The most consequential agreements we make are about God. Josh and Kit close out our Breaking Agreements series by discussing unholy agreements we make about God, and how to break them. Please subscribe, leave a review, and email info@regenerationministries.org with suggestions. For more resources, and to support our ministry, please visit regenerationministries.org Free Resources...