Becoming Whole

Send us Fan Mail Join Josh and Kit this week as they speak with Todd Wilson, the author of Mere Sexuality: Rediscovering the Christian Vision of Sexuality. Highlights: …explore the Christian vision of human sexuality… …they needed help in engaging people who were same-sex attracted with grace and love and compassion and understanding… …God has woven sexual difference, male and female, into the fab...

Send us Fan Mail Join Josh and Kit this week as they discuss Romance. What is it? What it is not? What is a more holistic approach to Romance? Highlights: …God romances us, it’s part of being a human being… …getting to know someone’s heart is a lot harder than taking them out to dinner… …have fun together, be light-hearted…laugh… Thanks for joining us. We would be honored if you would leave a revi...

Send us Fan Mail Join Josh and Matthew as they discuss our innate ache for manhood. What is it? Who defines it? How do I get it? Highlights: …what does that healthy hunger look like… …I wish I could be more in my manhood … …because God has placed in us the reality that we are men, created to be, image-bearers of God in our manhood… Thanks for joining us. We would be honored if you would leave a re...

Send us Fan Mail Join Josh and Kit as they dive into how our story, our past, shapes our identity, our relationships, and our sexuality. Topics: 1. Things that came at us that were harmful. 2. Things that we needed that we didn’t get. Highlights: …our sexual fantasies are our souls’ attempts at healing our wounds… …what is coming out sideways now, how do you get curious about it… …we are not looki...

Send us Fan Mail Join Josh and Kit as they talk about how to make intimacy a priority in our marriages. Highlights: …he is loving me as a person, not just my body… …if you can’t say no, your yes really comes to mean nothing… …communicate and be honoring to one another… …the marriage-bed should be a very safe place… Thanks for joining us. We would be honored if you would leave a review/rating on th...

Send us Fan Mail Join Josh and Kit as they discuss Singleness, Sex, and the Church with special guest Connally Gilliam. Highlights: …sex is the god of our culture… …what about this bigger story!?!… …what if I die celibate, would I have lost out on anything?,… Guests: Connally Gilliam Thanks for joining us. We would be honored if you would leave a review/rating on the Regeneration podcast ( here’s...

Send us Fan Mail Join Josh and Kit this week as they discuss the question, “What does God think about masturbation?” Listen in as they unravel why they think what they do, and really what God’s design is for us all. Highlights: “We have to ask, ‘What was God’s design in the beginning?'” “…the fantasy of your spouse is not your spouse…” “…we are talking about a physical act, but we are also ta...

Send us Fan Mail Join Josh this week as he and guest Christopher West discuss desire, eros, eggs and much more. Highlights: …the body is meant for the Lord, The Lord is meant for the body, this is our faith… ...invite Christ to come near in the area of desire and sexuality… …eros is the upward impulse of the human heart towards everything true, good and beautiful… Mentions: Cor Project Thanks for...

Send us Fan Mail Join Josh and Kit this week as they discuss how old habits, addictions and compulsive behaviors can rear up this time of year, and what we can do to handle them differently this Christmas season. Highlights: …there is a reason we need a savior… …it’s going to require some intentionality… …practice God’s presence as you go… Mentions: John 15 Rescue Coaching Thanks for joining us. W...

Send us Fan Mail Join Josh and Kit as the unravel the God-given longing for sexual desire, for physical touch and the longing for something much much bigger. Highlights: ...to be seen, to be heard, to be understood… ...what if we would wait, and see what God would do… …I think we live in a culture that ignores the souls longing and just listens to the body… Thanks for joining us. We would be honor...

Send us Fan Mail Join Josh and Kit this week and they unpack getting after what we tend to think about freedom, sobriety. Highlights: …there is a tension between freedom and process… …trust that God knows the order of things… …He loves freedom in our lives, we were made for that, it’s in our DNA… Mention: You Can Change (And You’re a Rubik’s Cube) Thanks for joining us. We would be honored if you...

Send us Fan Mail Join Josh and Kit as they speak about Nurturing the Soul of your Marriage with special guests Erich and Ginny Becker from Sparrow Ministries. Highlights: …you are you and I am me, and there is a space between us… …do you want your marriage to thrive?… …we want to be home, we want to be together… Mention: Sparrow Ministries Thanks for joining us. We would be honored if you would le...

Send us Fan Mail Join Josh and Kit as they discuss recovery and the hard work that must be done, and what that looks like within a marriage. Highlights: …I think it's in the heart of the man to be a hero for his wife, his kids… ..the addiction doesn’t go away from Tuesday, to Tuesday, how are you checking in in-between… …what you are doing is NOT who you are… Mention: Dr. Patrick Carnes Rescu...

Send us Fan Mail Join Josh and Kit this week as they discuss when we experience a lack of the presence of God in our lives and some practical next steps on coming closer to Him. Highlights: I didn’t expect that he would be present, I didn’t think he wanted to be… …He is always with us, we are not always present to Him… …let me remember in this moment the goodness and presence of God… Mention: Cent...

Send us Fan Mail Join Kit and Josh this week as they welcome Maria Dubois and Dawn Swayne who unpack how they team up to give Christian teenage girls a bigger why around intimacy and sexuality. Highlights: We want to help our daughters learn... "It is for freedom that Christ has set us free, so I think that is the foundation for the bigger 'why'." - Maria Dubois "Part of t...

Send us Fan Mail Join Josh as he speaks with Drew Berryessa about his journey through SSA into freedom and healing. Highlights: when I finally confessed, my struggles, my sin, my failure… ..there was no opportunity to talk about my struggle without feeling condemned and those are both schemes of the enemy, to isolate us from God and his people and all of God's provision… Guests: Drew Berryess...

Send us Fan Mail Join Josh and Kit this week as they pull down the idea of the ultimate soul mate. Highlights: it’s not our best life, and that is the thing we want to get after. I was making demands on him that were unreasonable, and I didn’t know it. Thanks for joining us. We would be honored if you would leave a review/rating ( here's how ) on the Regeneration podcast. Original music by Sh...

Send us Fan Mail Join Josh and Kit this week as they unpack the reality that for some us, Porn has become a close intimate friend. Highlights: pornography on a heart level poses as an intimate friend, but in reality, pornography is anything but that.. by God’s design, the naked human body is a manifestation of worth Mentioned: 101 Practical Exercises - Dr. Doug Weiss Regen's Rescue Program Re...

Send us Fan Mail In response to a listener's email, Josh and Kit walkthrough, at a high level, some steps to process through and heal from our past wounds.  1. Acknowledge your wounds 2. Grieve the pain, the wound, the loss 3. Forgiveness 4. Confession 5. Identifying lies and agreements and renouncing those 6. Deliverance from Demonic spirits and influences 7. Taking steps forward Mentioned:...

Send us Fan Mail Join Josh and Kit this week as they discuss, not solve, how to love and parent our children without allowing fear to take over. Highlights: I wasn't a fearful person until I became a parent if we don't do this parenting thing right, then our kids won't be okay in the world if I do a good enough job as a parent, my kids won’t need a savior. Thanks for joining us. We...

Send us Fan Mail Join Josh and Kit as they speak with Kyle Bowman in response to an email we got from a listener about same-sex attractions. Highlights: children are the biggest recorders of information but the poorest interpreters what does change actually mean?..  Focus on the Healer, not the healing Guests: Kyle Bowman Mentioned: Unwanted by Jay Stringer Thanks for joining us. We would be honor...

Send us Fan Mail Join Josh and Kit as they speak with Kyle Bowman about what it means to become the man or woman God has design us to be. Highlights: I know Jesus so much more intimately than I did before Practicing listening well to each other and being honest about what is going on is key Guests: Kyle Bowman Mentioned: Path Through The Wilderness The Daily Examen Thanks for joining us. We would...

Send us Fan Mail Join Josh and kit as they discuss why it's important to fight and especially to fight fair. Highlights: arguing does NOT mean failure working towards restoring the relationship is what matters when you sincerely listen to someone, that’s a gift. Mentioned: John Gottman - The Four Horsemen Thanks for joining us. We would be honored if you would leave a review/rating ( here’s h...

Send us Fan Mail Join Josh and Kit as they discuss this longing we have to worship, to hope in, to set our eyes on. Highlights: We don’t like unresolved longing, we just can’t deal with it. An immature approach at dealing with a very mature problem, which is what do we do with desire? …we are trying to shortcut the resolution to the longing… Mentioned: Rescue Christopher West – Fill These Hearts B...

Send us Fan Mail Join Josh and Kit as they address listener questions of How did I become codependent and how do I change? How do I love myself? What does it mean to be whole? Highlights: In fact, there's the saying, it's like I'm okay if you're okay with me. That's codependency. I'm taking somebody else and I'm seeking from them to feed off of them and to get fr...