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Apply for Attachment Alchemy   Women's Circle Open for July  (more info here) Other links: Apply to work with Emily 1-1   WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling?  You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣) 🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to wa...

In this episode of Becoming Secure, Emily talks about the loss of her cat, the importance of having a village, and how to create one if you don't have that yet. More info on the Women's Circle starting in July: https://forms.gle/ktnPsSfVsoa6LqR27 Women's Circle Open for July  (more info here) Other links: Apply to work with Emily 1-1   WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling?  You'll le...

Women's Circle Open for July  (more info here) Other links: Apply to work with Emily 1-1   WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling?  You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣) 🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️ Get the Replay H...

Women's Circle Open for July  (more info here) Other links: Apply to work with Emily 1-1   WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling?  You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣) 🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️ Get the Replay H...

Does it take a long time to find guys you're attracted to? Does it feel like all the guys you're into aren't into you? And that guys who are into you - are definitely not the type you'd go for? Emily unpacks why this happens through an attachment lens in this episode of Becoming Secure! Apply for Emily's 1-1 attachment healing program, Attachment Alchemy: https://mailchi.m...

Register for Un-Situationship-Able today! https://forms.gle/L8EhQiRQjWLG5E5f6 Women's Circle Open for July  (more info here) Other links: Apply to work with Emily 1-1   WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling?  You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣) 🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that)...

Read more and register for ✨Un-Situationship-Able✨ today! https://forms.gle/h1H5aWSUbUGqUc5G6 Women's Circle Open for July  (more info here) Other links: Apply to work with Emily 1-1   WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling?  You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣) 🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how...

Ready to end the cycle of situationships and attract commitment-ready men? These 5 boundaries will put you on the right path! And if you're ready to end the cycle for good, register for Un-Situationship-Able today! A live 5-week coaching program to help you never end up in a situationship again and only attract men who can fully choose you! Register Here: https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6 W...

You finally worked up the courage to have the hard convo...what are you looking for? He says he doesn't want a relationship right now, butttt...nothing changes after that. He keeps seeing you and acting like things are the same...why? Un-Situationship-Able is open for enrollment now! Read more and register here: https://forms.gle/VBqTZm4Urwgwf1VS7 Apply for 1-1 Work:  https://mailchi.mp/de14c...

What makes situationships feels so intoxicating, intense, and hard to get over? Emily breaks this down in the latest episode of Becoming Secure! Un-Situationship-Able is now open for enrollment! Read more and register here: https://forms.gle/i9vYmp4qJZLhSaPCA Want to work 1-1 with Emily? Apply here: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14 Women's Circle Open for July  (more info here) Othe...

Links mentioned: Free resource: Am I Settling? workshop replay. Get it here: https://mailchi.mp/69faea9d5bc1/am-i-settling-workshop-replay-sign-up Read more and apply for Should I Stay or Should I Go? https://forms.gle/QAmfpFRbQF1ZED7w7 Apply for Attachment Alchemy 1-1 Program: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14 Women's Circle Open for July  (more info here) Other links: Apply to work...

Should you date a guy who's not technically divorced yet? A client recently asked me this question. His reason made sense. He said he was ready to date. Was it okay for her to proceed? In this episode, I break down for you exactly what I told her!  Links mentioned: Free resource: Am I Settling? workshop replay. Get it here: https://mailchi.mp/69faea9d5bc1/am-i-settling-workshop-replay-sign-up...

In this episode, Emily breaks down two unsexy truths about settling and why it can be so hard to tell if you're settling for too little or asking for too much! Get the " Am I Settling?" workshop replay here! In this workshop, we'll cover the 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣) 🤔 Why you might accidentally s...

On this episode of Becoming Secure, Emily welcomes anxious attachment coach Valerie Rubin to discuss common mistakes anxious attachers make in dating and relationships and the importance of doing somatic work in healing anxious attachment! Find Valerie's instagram here Valerie's podcast is called: The Anxiety Recovery Podcast. Women's Circle Open for July  (more info here) Other lin...

Common things women say when they're trying to justify red flags! Do you ever find yourself doing or saying these things? If you do, don't worry - Emily has been there, too! But it's time to make the decision to walk away and stop settling for red flags! The Art of Secure Dating starts THIS Saturday, December 13th! Read more and register here! Women's Circle Open for July  (mor...

If you're frustrated that a guy led you on and wasted your time, this episode is for you! Emily provides a helpful reframe on how to view situations like this with more peace and less frustration! The Art of Secure Dating is currently enrolling now through Dec. 12th! Read more and submit your application here! Women's Circle Open for July  (more info here) Other links: Apply to work with...

Emily breaks down 9 subtle ways you might be self abandoning in dating in this episode!  The Art of Secure Dating is currently enrolling (orientation call Dec. 13th!). Ready to date more securely & attract men who are emotionally available? Read more & apply for TASD here ! Women's Circle Open for July  (more info here) Other links: Apply to work with Emily 1-1   WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I...

In this episode, Emily invites Ana Eve back on the podcast to talk about why we attach so quickly and common mistakes to avoid that cause you to attach more quickly! They also announce the re-opening of the Art of Secure Dating with Black Friday bonuses! Read more via the link below! Read more and register for the Art of Secure Dating Here Women's Circle Open for July  (more info here) Other...

Do you ever feel like your anxiety is the problem? Like your life would be better if you didn't have it? Believe it or not, this perspective may actually be hindering your healing & making your anxiety worse! In this episode, Emily breaks down what it looks like to learn to work with your anxiety, to stop seeing it as the enemy, and to learn to actually love - yes love - your anxiety. Fre...

Not sure how to tell if it's your anxiety or your intuition talking when a voice tells you to run, to end the relationship, or that you're going to get hurt? Emily breaks down why this happens and how to tell the difference.  Apply for Attachment Alchemy: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14 Women's Circle Open for July  (more info here) Other links: Apply to work with Emily 1...

Do you ever feel like you become a different person around guys you're interested in? Emily unpacks why this happens in this episode of Becoming Secure! Want to work with Emily 1-1? Apply for Attachment Alchemy here:  https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14 Women's Circle Open for July  (more info here) Other links: Apply to work with Emily 1-1   WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling?  You&a...

Women's Circle Open for July  (more info here) Other links: Apply to work with Emily 1-1   WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling?  You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣) 🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️ Get the Replay H...

Work with Emily 1-1: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14 Women's Circle Open for July  (more info here) Other links: Apply to work with Emily 1-1   WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling?  You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣) 🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can k...

Apply for Attachment Alchemy:  https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14 Women's Circle Open for July  (more info here) Other links: Apply to work with Emily 1-1   WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling?  You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣) 🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so...

Free Training to help you process: https://mailchi.mp/7a564cf27971/breakup-free-training Apply for Attachment Alchemy: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14 Women's Circle Open for July  (more info here) Other links: Apply to work with Emily 1-1   WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling?  You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know...