Becoming Reborn

In this episode of Becoming Reborn, Trav and Pat dive into one of the biggest differences between people who feel in control of their week and those who constantly feel like they're chasing it. The boys explain that winning the week isn't something that happens by chance—it happens by design. Success doesn't come from hoping the week goes well. It comes from planning for it before it even begins....

What would you do differently if you had the chance to start from scratch? In this episode of Becoming Reborn, Trav and Pat reflect on the biggest lessons they've learned throughout their journey and the advice they'd give themselves if they were starting again today. Pat shares why he would document everything. Not just the wins, but the failures, setbacks and difficult moments too. In a world do...

In this episode of Becoming Reborn, Trav and Pat challenge listeners to take a closer look at the habits, behaviours, and excuses they've accepted as normal, and ask one simple question: What are you tolerating? The boys discuss how the standards we set for ourselves ultimately shape the life we live. Whether it's skipping training, constantly feeling tired, or putting our health last, what we con...

Starting your fitness journey can be intimidating, especially if you've never stepped into a gym before. In this episode of Becoming Reborn, Trav and Pat break down the biggest mental barriers that stop people from getting started and how to overcome them. One of the most common fears is the thought, "What will everyone think of me?" The boys explain why this fear is far more common than reality....

In this episode of Becoming Reborn, the boys tackle a question that would have sounded crazy a few years ago — are gym challenges dead? They reflect on how much the fitness industry has changed. There was a time when transformation challenges, fat loss competitions, and body composition goals were the main reason people joined gyms. Challenges were a huge part of the fitness journey for many peopl...

In this episode of Becoming Reborn, Pat Carr sits down with Reborn's Head of Programming, Dan Wagstaff, to discuss one of the toughest challenges any athlete or active person can face — injury. Currently recovering from a ruptured Achilles, Dan shares the physical and mental challenges that come with having your routine disrupted and being forced to slow down. For someone who has spent years helpi...

In this episode of Becoming Reborn , the boys dive into a powerful conversation around parenting, presence, and the things our kids remember most They reflect on how children are always watching — not the big achievements or surface level wins, but the little things we do every day Your kids probably won't remember your business turnover Your body fat percentage Or how busy your schedule was But t...

In this episode of Becoming Reborn, the boys switch gears and dive into a lighter, banter filled conversation about all the unofficial gym rules they wish actually existed From people sitting on machines scrolling their phones, to not reracking weights, to asking what the session is right after the coach explained it — nothing was off limits Trav and Pat share the funny, frustrating and painfully...

In this episode of Becoming Reborn, Trav sit down with Nu Brown and Brad Takairangi for a heartfelt conversation about fatherhood, culture, family values and the example they want to set for the next generation The boys open up about what it means to grow up in Polynesian culture and the importance of leading through love, presence and support Nu shares the values he wants to carry forward into hi...

In this episode of Becoming Reborn, Trav and Pat unpack a truth that most people overlook — the boring stuff is usually what creates the biggest results They dive into the power of routine, structure, and consistency, and why success is rarely built on motivation or big moments. Instead, it comes from the small things you do over and over again Trav shares how creating structure and frameworks in...

In this episode of Becoming Reborn, Trav and Pat break down one of the most common challenges people face — feeling like there's never enough time They challenge the idea that the solution is more hours in the day, and instead highlight that the real issue is a lack of structure Trav shares a real life example with Chloe, showing how even in a busy household with constant demands, it's not about h...

In this episode of Becoming Reborn, Trav and Pat break down a mindset shift that can change everything — stop negotiating with yourself They explore how so many people delay progress by constantly going back and forth on decisions. The internal conversation of "maybe later", "just this once", or "I'll start tomorrow" slowly chips away at consistency and results Pat explains that every decision you...

In this episode of Becoming Reborn, Trav and Pat step away from performance, business, and training to talk about something deeper — gratitude They reflect on the moments and people that truly matter, and how easy it is to overlook them in the day to day Trav opens up about his relationship with Chloe and how a time apart made him realise how much he had taken for granted. That experience shifted...

In this episode of Becoming Reborn, Trav and Dan Wagstaff dive into one of the most frustrating parts of any fitness journey — hitting a plateau They unpack why progress can stall, even when you feel like you're doing everything right, and what actually needs to change to start moving forward again Dan shares the often overlooked importance of rest and recovery, explaining that it's not a step bac...

In this episode of Becoming Reborn, Trav sit down with Head of Programming Dan Wagstaff to unpack what it really takes to get results in fitness, health and business Dan shares his perspective on high performance and why it's not reserved for leaders, athletes or people in positions of authority. It's a mindset anyone can adopt. Wanting more for yourself, holding a higher standard, and consistentl...

In this episode of Becoming Reborn, Trav, Pat and Dan reflect on a powerful milestone — 10 years of sobriety Trav opens up about what the last decade has really meant to him. When people ask what he's achieved, his answer is simple. It's not about accolades or wins. It's about becoming someone who no longer causes pain or problems, and showing up as a better man each day Pat shares his perspective...

In this episode of Becoming Reborn, Trav and Pat unpack how the fitness industry has shifted over time and what that means for the way we train today They reflect on the old approach to fitness, where most people were driven by aesthetics and focused purely on changing how they looked. While that still plays a role, the conversation has evolved Now, more people are training for something deeper Be...

In this episode of Becoming Reborn, Trav and Pat dive into one of the biggest challenges people face in fitness, business, and life — consistency. They break down why most people struggle to stay consistent and why relying on motivation or pure willpower rarely works long term. Pat explains the concept of systems over willpower, highlighting how building simple routines and structures can remove t...

In this episode of Becoming Reborn, Trav and Pat break down one of the most common challenges people face — how to train when you're tired, busy, and life feels chaotic. They dive into why waiting for the "perfect time" to train doesn't work, and how momentum is built in the messy seasons — not the smooth ones. Trav explains why the key is creating a routine that actually fits your lifestyle. Life...

In this episode of Becoming Reborn, we sit down with Kerrie Lawrence — a true icon in the local fitness industry. Kerrie shares her journey from where it all began to the impact she's had on thousands of lives through health, movement and community. Her story is one of resilience, leadership and staying true to your values in an industry that constantly evolves. We dive into the lessons she's lear...

In this episode of Becoming Reborn, Trav and Pat sit down with special guest Andrew Fifita for one of the most honest and powerful conversations yet Andrew opens up and shares his life story — from his rise through the ranks of professional rugby league to the moments that tested him the most This is a side of Andrew most people have never heard before — raw, vulnerable, and real 🎧 Whether you're...

In this episode of Becoming Reborn, Trav and Pat sit down to talk about the daily non-negotiables that keep them grounded, consistent, and moving forward — not just in training, but in life. For Pat, it all comes down to one word: discipline. While he's always been disciplined in the gym, he admits it doesn't come as naturally in other areas of life. That's exactly why discipline has become his da...

In this episode of Becoming Reborn, Trav and Pat kick off the year by sharing the three words that will define how they show up in 2026 This isn't about setting resolutions that fade by February — it's about choosing a clear intention to guide your mindset, actions and decisions all year long For Pat, the focus is on being present No more multitasking, no more divided attention — just showing up f...

In this episode of Becoming Reborn, Trav and Pat return for Part 2 of the Reborn Q&A, answering more real questions from the community with raw, honest insights from their own journeys This time, they dive deep into: The leadership mistake that cost Trav personally — trying to be everyone's friend and learning the hard way that leadership requires clear standards, not just connection The part of s...

In this special Q&A episode of Becoming Reborn , Trav and Pat sit down to answer questions straight from the Reborn community No scripts. No fluff. Just real, honest answers to the things you've been wanting to know From balancing business and family life, to the trap of being "busy" vs actually being productive, to the personal sacrifices behind building something meaningful — this episode covers...