Backdoor BOINK[A (Silly) Sexual Wellness Podcast]

Welcome back to BACKDOOR B.O.I.N.K., the show where we ask the questions your parental figure hopes you never think of and your group chat is too afraid to ask out loud. Today Isis is joined by Devyn Stone—author, educator, community organizer, Leatherman, dominant, and all-around expert in navigating power, consent, and relationships. Devyn has been practicing authority transfer dynamics since 20...

Hey campers! 🎪 Today, Isis and Em-Jay are back at it again—but this time they’ve dragged Riven and Fiber😬 into the chaos. Why? Oh, just to casually ( not casually) talk about a “little side project” Isis and Riven have been cooking up… that somehow made it into year two. No big deal. Totally not a shameless plug. Nope. Not at all. 😏 But wait, there’s more! They’re also spilling some behind-the-...

Today, Isis, Riven, Fiber, Hobbs—and Sassy, who shows up fashionably late—gather for what starts as a deep, thoughtful discussion about kindness. You know, light topics like where it comes from, how society messes with it, and whether being “nice” is just kindness in a cheap disguise. Somewhere along the way, they also unpack how all of this shows up in their own lives and in the kink community (b...

Do you remember what we did last summer? Honestly, we’re not entirely sure either—but we’re about to find out together. Join Isis and Em-Jay as we attempt to piece together the highlights, share a few stories, and give you a quick rundown of our adventures. Think of it as a slightly foggy—but very entertaining—trip down memory lane. We hope it makes sense… but no promises.

Hey folks — we’re back! Sorry for the long break! Since our last recording, we’ve had some unexpected (and exciting!) things come up that kept us busy. Em-Jay here. First, I want to apologize for the sound quality, background noise, and editing on this episode. I’m a little rusty, and we recorded in a new space that we’re still figuring out — but we’re getting there! Thanks for sticking with us. T...

So this week may be a little rough. We've been busy and M.J. hasn't edited anything in a while, but we had fun as you can tell. In this episode we chat about an experiment we tried "For Science" and that made us decide to talk a bit about food play. What's your take yes, no, maybe? Drop us a comment and let us know. While you're here check out our links below, we love to hear from you More BOINK:...

Join us for an intimate conversation with Mr. Peter and Pup Scout, two prominent figures in the leather community. In this episode, we delve into the rich history, culture, and vibrant community surrounding leather. Discover the significance of contests, the camaraderie among members, and the ongoing evolution of this fascinating subculture. Get ready for a candid and insightful discussion that sh...

Of all things that should be equal, healthcare should be one of them. Minority status and gender play a strong role in the treatment you might receive. For better or worse, let's take a look at some examples and how you can protect your health and wellness. More BOINK: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www. BOINK-ed.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Leave Us a Voice Message: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podca...

We're back for more silly sexual wellness! Catch up with where we've been and where we're going. More BOINK: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www. BOINK-ed.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Leave Us a Voice Message: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/boink-ed/message⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join Our Discord: ⁠⁠ https://discord.gg/fhVyAqN4cp⁠⁠ Social Media Links: - Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://...

What're the social norms vs. the kinkster norms? What do these customs - handshakes, hugs, physical contact without permission, and more - have to say about our cultural behaviors? How do we balance our needs in the face of a society so worried about being rude or disrespectful? We're not sure we have the answers, but there are some suggestions here and at least some food for thought! Take...

Are you tired of the same fights replaying over and over? Feeling disconnected from your partner or friend? You're not alone! Many relationships fall into predictable patterns that can leave us feeling frustrated and unheard. Ready to break the cycle and create lasting change? Tune in! More BOINK: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www. BOINK-ed.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Leave Us a Voice Message:...

We had so much fun on Part 1, we couldn't wait to delivery you the next in the series. Besides, Kayla really, really, really wanted to talk about Hentai. So, come dip your toes into the curious, kinky worlds of sploshing and hentai! Ladybird Vixen's Burlesque: https://www.instagram.com/andpasties?igsh=MTBxb2pmZ25mMHM3dw== More BOINK: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www. BOINK-ed.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...

In this episode, Kayla and M.J. have an open conversation about often-undiscussed preferences, exploring the psychology behind them and how they can be healthily integrated into intimacy. We're kicking off part one with discussions on foot fetishes and alvinolagnia - don't worry, we'll let you know what that is. Come take a listen! More BOINK: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www. BOINK-ed.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...

BDSM, an acronym that goes beyond its surface, holds a treasure trove of secret codes that delve into the intricate world of kink. Join Kayla and MJ as they embark on an exploration of the vibrant spectrum of safety acronyms and discuss their various nuances. Discover the one that resonates with you and unlocks a whole new level of understanding More BOINK: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www. BOINK-ed.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...

Curious about the concept of an erotic blueprint? Dive into Kayla & MJ's lively discussion to uncover the hidden gems among their playful banter. Time to figure out the love language of your genitals - of your desire. Let's get into it. More BOINK: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www. BOINK-ed.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Leave Us a Voice Message: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/...

It's time to get knotty. MJ puts on the rare bottom perspective and gets tags along through one of Kayla's favorite topics: Shibari (rope play) Learn about the top three essential safety rules and uncover the secrets behind the motivations, methods, and advantages of this captivating art form. More BOINK: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www. BOINK-ed.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Leave Us a Voice Message: ⁠⁠...

MJ says, "Don't let a visit from Aunt Flo deter you from having a little fun. Kayla and MJ explore the concerns around this taboo, while also pointing out benefits and drawbacks of period sex. Don't worry, there's even some tips here, too, if you care to get naughty and messy. More BOINK: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www. BOINK-ed.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Leave Us a Voice Message: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http...

Join MJ and Kayla as they go over some basics of fisting, and why it might appeal to some. It's a slippery slope but for some it's quite full-filling. More BOINK: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www. BOINK-ed.com⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Leave Us a Voice Message: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/boink-ed/message⁠⁠⁠ Social Media Links: - Instagram ⁠https://www.instagram.com/boink_ed/⁠ - Facebook ⁠htt...

After a road trip and some in-depth discussions Kayla and M.J. discuss insecurities and how they can affect a relationship. More BOINK: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ www. BOINK-ed.com ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Leave Us a Voice Message: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/boink-ed/message

Toys, toys, toys! Need we say more? Well, we did. Join MJ and Kayla as they go over different toy types, the benefits of each, and how to introduce this wide, varied world of extra flavor to your love life. More BOINK: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www. BOINK-ed.com⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Leave Us a Voice Message: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/boink-ed/message⁠⁠ Social Media Links: - Instagram https://www...

Discover the secrets of the pro-domme world through Riven's perspective, without the spankings, unfortunately! Dive into the fun and enlightening insights shared by Riven as MJ and Kayla delve into this often misunderstood aspect of BDSM. Uncover the mysteries and excitement that await in the world of domination. More BOINK: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www. BOINK-ed.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Leave Us a Voice Message: ⁠⁠⁠...

You don't have to take our word for it, all you need to do is listen to know: Brandi Beckett is inspiring! She is a 50-year-old non-cis transgender woman, a dynamic activist, and an emotionally moving public speaker. On this episode we get only a glimpse of her story and how it can connect with everyone. Discover yourself. Love yourself. Reach Brandi Beckett: https://itsbrandisworld.com/ www.y...

Big ones, little ones, thick ones, thin ones. Why do people where them? What do they mean, and is there a right way to move forward into the world of collars in BDSM? Kayla and MJ share some laughs and details around this blingy and beautiful statement accessory. Find More: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www. BOINK-ed.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Leave Us a Voice Message: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/boink-ed/messa...

Are you even speaking the same language? MJ and Kayla explore love languages, both giving and receiving, and how to master this essential way of communicating care in any relationship. Find More: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www. BOINK-ed.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Leave Us a Voice Message: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/boink-ed/message⁠

Breath Play. It's edgy. Seriously - it's dangerous, thus putting it in the "edge play" category. So, why do people do it? Can it be done safer ways? Kayla and MJ explore the breathtaking experience of the breath play branch of BDSM. Find More: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www. BOINK-ed.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Leave Us a Voice Message: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/boink-ed/message⁠