#AskAMan

Anonymous has been vibing with a guy for the last 5 years and it’s going fine, however, she has now caught strong feelings for him and doesn’t know if she should tell him how she feels. Anonymous also suspects that he might feel the same way. Anonymous also adds that they haven't been sexually involved over those 5 years.

Anonymous says her and her partner had a good relationship and her partner even promised to marry her, however when it was time, anonymous’ partner sent his friends as his representatives to her family and anonymous’ family chased them away because the friends were not serious. Anonymous came into the relationship with two kids and now has 1 child with this partner. Anonymous says recently her sis...

Anonymous’ previous partner past away 6 years ago after they’d been together for 20 years. Anonymous says she was having an affair with another man while her partner was still alive and their relationship with this man continued after her partner’s death. Anonymous says this man was with someone else when they met and has dated two people in the time that they’ve known each other, which is 14 year...

Anonymous to a new city 3 years ago and met a guy 3 years ago. Anonymous says they started having a relationship, however the guy was in a long distance relationship with some other person at the time. Anonymous says the guy’s attitude seems to have changed when he went back to school to upgrade his qualifications. Anonymous says he became distant and this pushed her  to eventually getting on a da...

Anonymous and his estranged wife have known each other since 2009 and they got married in 2011. Anonymous says they got married very young and he was having lots of fun then which included many long nights out and about. Anonymous says he cheated on his wife in 2016, however, their marriage recovered from that. Anonymous says they moved to a new province and after they had a second child together,...

Anonymous met her partner less than 2 years ago,  and she says everything was find but sometime late last year he started giving her less attention and she says sometimes she’ll even call him 30 times without him getting back to her. Anonymous says she also found out that he has a child with another woman, something he had lied to her about. Anonymous says her period is now late and he won’t even...

Anonymous met a guy a few months ago at work and they started being friends and that quickly turned into a situationship. Anonymous says everything was going well until she found out that the guy is dating another lady in the same workplace. Anonymous says they are still in their situationship even though he still has a girlfriend. Anonymous is not sure if she should continue being a side chick or...

Anonymous is a widow who lost her husband a few years ago and at the same time her friend and colleague at work lost her mother and due to this anonymous’ colleague linked her up with her father as they had both lost their partners. Anonymous is now dating her colleague’s father but the problem is she has had sexual relations with her colleague's brother who is her now partner's son. She had this...

Anonymous and her partner have been together for a year and the relationship has been going well generally however she feels like things have gotten cold in the bedroom over the last few months as they don’t have sex as much as they used to. Anonymous says he’s also not the most adventurous in the bedroom and doesn’t like foreplay which is something she likes.

Anonymous has been with her partner for 2 years now and his situation at home is affecting their relationship. Anonymous says her partner lives with his siblings and their children and takes care of them as the sole breadwinner in the household. Anonymous says she feels like he is over extending himself in how he’s going about supporting his family and neglects helping and supporting her financial...

Anonymous says a lot of her friends say her partner of one year is a narcissist, and anonymous agrees with this assessment and wants to break up with him but she’s struggling to get rid of her feelings for him. Anonymous says he’s a bit of a bully and is a very jealous person, he even gets angry when she hugs her male friends.

Anonymous met a man back in 2019 while they were living in the same apartment complex. Anonymous says at the time they were both in long distance relationships that were a bit shaky, however, anonymous broke up with her long distance partner and they became sex buddies. She fell pregnant but aborted the baby because their situation wasn’t stable at the time. The man eventually broke up with his gi...

Anonymous has been with his partner for about 6 years now and they a child together. Anonymous says his partner is not not a very sexual person and he has a bigger sexual appetite. Anonymous says her partner once attempted suicide thinking that anonymous was cheating on her because of their sex life. Anonymous says he has now met someone else who he says matches his sexual appetite. Anonymous says...

Anonymous comes from an abusive household and eventually left home and eventually started dating his current partner who supported him until he found his feet and even got a house. Anonymous then moved in with his partner and things were generally fine however they faced some financial troubles. Anonymous started having an affair with another woman who used to give anonymous money that he would gi...

Anonymous and his partner have been together for 8 years and they got engaged this year. Anonymous says her partner has cheated on him a few times over the years and he has forgiven her each time. Anonymous  says she had stopped her cheating ways for a couple of months after they got engaged this year, however, anonymous says yesterday her partner disappeared and switched off her phone and when he...

Anonymous met a man online two weeks ago and things were going well and she met up with him at his place last week Saturday. While on this meet they went into his prayer room where they prayed and then he showed her a hut in the same room which he uses to praise & communicate with his ancestors. Anonymous says he invited her back this past Wednesday and they prayed in the room but this time ar...

Anonymous and his partner have been together for 5 years and they have a child together. Anonymous also notes that they have a 6 year age gap between them. Anonymous says during the course of their relationship they ran into some financial issues and even ended up separating when his partner moved to a different city. Anonymous says they eventually got back together but things haven’t been the sam...

Anonymous and her partner have been together for 6 years now and they have a child together who stays with her parents. A few weeks ago her partner was supposed to fetch their son for a weekend visit  and her but delayed all of this because he was out with his colleagues. Anonymous brought it up and asked that he doesn’t inconvenience her but he turned it around and accused her of being nagging pa...

Anonymous broke with with her ex last year, however, in recent times she started having a thing with her ex’s friend and says they both want to be with each other but the friend is scared of getting together with her and making it official publicly because of his friend who’s anonymous’ ex. Anonymous says they are still friends.

Anonymous was seeing a guy last year and they broke up because the guy wasn’t treating her well, this is guy no.1. Then anonymous got back with her ex, guy no.2, and she fell pregnant in the early days of getting back together. Anonymous says guy no.1 was then trying to get back together with her and she shared this information with guy no.2’s sister who told her brother that anonymous had some re...

Anonymous moved to a new place with her new born last year where she met a new neighbour and got into an “entanglement” with him. Anonymous says in the course of this she fell pregnant late last year with this man’s child and she hasn’t told him. She tried to terminate the pregnancy but she struggled to terminate successfully because of finances. She currently has two kids and doesn’t know how to...

Anonymous says he’s cheated on his partner multiple times during the relationship, his partner would forgive him and they kept on being in a relationship. Anonymous says he realised that what he was doing was wrong and affecting his partner badly so he decided to stop but it was too late. Anonymous says his partner is now cheating on him with someone else and anonymous says he saw, via texts, that...

Anonymous says her partner went away to go see his family on Saturday but didn’t come back until Sunday. Anonymous says he’s done this a few times so she told him not come back and he said fine but he did come back and she hasn’t spoken to him ever since. Anonymous says she left him at the house and blocked him on the phone. Anonymous says her partner is now blackmailing her, threatening to share...

Anonymous has been with her partner for two years and she recently found out that she’s pregnant, however, shortly after that anonymous’ partner lost his job and it brought strain on the relationship especially because they are expecting. Anonymous says things were fairly fine however when anonymous’ partner received his severance pay he started acting weird and they fought about his partying whic...