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Anonymous broke up with her partner last year after she found texts on his phone that indicated that he might be gay as he was in a relationship with another guy and his WhatsApp was filled with flirty exchanges with other men. Anonymous broke up with him without confronting him about what she found in his texts. She says she’s still in love with him and doesn’t know if she made a mistake by break...

Anonymous has been with her partner for 5 years and they have a child together. Anonymous says last week she went to her partner’s house and found him there naked with a girl in the house. Anonymous says her partner says he was naked because he was getting ready for church and the lady ended up in the house after a night of partying. Anonymous doesn’t know whether to believe him or not. Anonymous...

Anonymous and her husband live with his family and the situation has gotten tricky. Anonymous says she wants them to move out of the house and find their own place with their kids, but her husband refuses and even told her to build her own house. Anonymous has since build a house for herself and her kids and her husband is not happy about this. Anonymous says her husband is now unemployed and she’...

Anonymous says her relationship was fine but she does sometimes go through some mental health issues that affect her mood. Her partner voiced that he struggles with her mood swings and anonymous says she took action to improve her behaviour and she thought everything was fine but it came up again and they broke up. Anonymous says she feels like she did improve and had one slip up but he’s not hear...

Anonymous and her previous partner have two kids together and broke up after 11 years last year because her partner cheated. Anonymous has since met someone else and they have been together for 6 months, the issue now is that her ex and father of her children says he doesn’t want anonymous’ new partner spending time with his kids and has raised safety issues.

Anonymous is married to a man who’s 16 years younger than her and says the issue in their relationship is her partner and his friends. Anonymous says she feels like her partner is always prioritising friends and partying and she can’t do it. She says he came into the relationship knowing this but it’s now becoming a challenge in their relationship. Anonymous says aside from that he is a great husb...

Anonymous and her partner have been together for about 18 months and she says it’s been amazing. Anonymous says in the last couple of months her feelings for her partner have suddenly changed and she doesn’t know why because he has done nothing wrong. and the relationship is fine. Anonymous doesn’t know why she’s feeling this way and wishes to go back to being in love with her partner again.

Anonymous says she cheated on her boyfriend last year and confessed what she had done because she felt guilty. Anonymous says months later he seems to still not be over the fact that she cheated on him and even got angry that she was being friendly with their neighbour’s guests over the weekend. Anonymous says her partner did cheat on her multiple times before but had stopped in the recent years o...

Anonymous says she’s been in the talking stage with a man for the last year. Anonymous says everything is going well and the vibe is good. But every time she brings up the conversation of them making things official the guy says she’s putting too much pressure on him. Anonymous is not sure if she can move forward being in limbo.

Anonymous and her partner have been married for 11 years and she says she earns more than him which is the thing that has now recently caused issues in their relationship. Anonymous says she’s supported her partner for many years but now he’s not coming through for her in her time of need. Anonymous says she needed money to fix her car but her partner instead lied to her and used the money on his...

Anonymous is married and started having an affair with a married woman a few years ago. They eventually had a child together and have kept it a secret till this day. Anonymous used to spend time with the child, but the child has now turned 3 and they’ve had to stop the visits because the husband of anonymous’ side might find out. Anonymous has children in his marriage. Anonymous wants to have a re...

Anonymous has been with her partner for the last 9 months and at the beginning of their relationship her partner did mention that he had been in some toxic relationships prior to them getting together. Anonymous says he’s been a good partner but they had a big fight and things changed after that. Anonymous says her partner is now seemingly emotionally detached. Anonymous also says she’s seen texts...

Anonymous has been with her partner since 2011 and they are in a long distance relationship. During their relationship anonymous’ partner met a new colleague at work and when anonymous questioned their relationship, anonymous’ partner said their relationship was platonic. However, anonymous’ partner had a baby with the same woman a year after anonymous had her child with him. Anonymous’ partner th...

Anonymous has been seeing a very prominent public figure for about a year now. Anonymous says his partner has now become controlling and doesn’t want him  to see other people. However, anonymous has a partner whom he adores but says the prominent figure he’s seeing provides for him financially, something he’s used to.

Anonymous is in a new relationship and she’s worried that her partner is over extending himself in supporting his family. Anonymous says he lives with his mom, sister and two of his sister’s kids. He takes care of all of them, including for school fees for his sister’s kids. Anonymous is worried that this is draining her partner and she’s worried if he’ll one day be able to take care of the family...

Anonymous says her and her partner are generally happy and she enjoys their time together. However, anonymous says they are always fighting, mostly because of his cheating. Anonymous says they’ve been 3 incidents in the last year, including one with the mother of his child who sometimes comes to his house during load shedding to get power & signal at his house. Anonymous says recently she has...

Anonymous has been with his partner have been together for 3 years and says their relationship was fine until they stopped working at the same place. Anonymous says he did cheat on his partner 8 months into the relationship but they were able to move forward. Anonymous says 4 days ago his partner pretty much broke up with him saying anonymous is insecure. Anonymous says he has recently been raisin...

Anonymous met a man at work a few years ago and they started dating but anonymous soon found out that the man might have lied about being single and he is in fact married, something he denied multiple times but eventually found that he does have a wife. Anonymous met another guy in 2021 and the guy told anonymous that he senses that Muti was used on her by a previous partner and she needs to be cl...

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If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise r...

Anonymous met a married guy last year at work and things took off between them and they even went on vacation together where they almost got caught. Things have been going well between anonymous and this guy, however yesterday his wife found their texts on his phone which is proof of the affair. Anonymous says she’s now caught deep feelings for the guy and she’s scared she’s going to lose him now...

Anonymous is a mother of two daughters who are 14 and 8 years-old, they currently live with her boyfriend of 5 years. Anonymous says the issue started last year when her 14 year-old daughter moved in with them because her boyfriend wasn’t happy with her daughters dress code saying it’s inappropriate for young girl. Anonymous says this past Sunday her daughter confessed to her grandmother, anonymou...

Anonymous is caught between two guys. The first guy is in a relationship with several other people and that would make anonymous a side dish, things are a little tricky there, anonymous says he does love the first guy though. Guy no.2 is cool but anonymous found out that the guy is engaged to be married to another guy, and even wants to introduce anonymous to his fiancé , anonymous is not sure wha...

Anonymous and her partner were struggling to conceive a baby and eventually went on fertility treatments which led to sex feeling like a chore for them, however, anonymous did fall pregnant and they have a child. The issue is that anonymous now feels like what they went through has affected their sex life and her partner doesn’t seem interested. They are also in a long distance relationship. Anony...