Ask Ezra Intimacy Coaching Podcast

This is a set of 5 poems and painting descriptions from the audio version of The Path Through: A Book of Paintings and Poetry on the Subject of Trauma.  The book is available in hard copy at amazon at the link below: The Path Through on Amazon Additionally there is an option to purchase a signed copy of the paperback with a custome inscription of your choice here: The Path Through - Signed Origina...

Join Ezra as he shares a big announcement about the future of the Ask Ezra Podcast.  We are taking a break from posting new episodes for a little while.  Thank you to all the dedicated listeners.  Big thanks to all my guests and show supporters.  Keep up on developments and upcoming events by following socials Intsagram: @Ask_Ezra_ and Twitter: @HouseOfAlgos.  Check out the new book The Path Throu...

Join Ezra and Briana in a very special episode in which Ezra "switches", taking a turn in the hot seat where they get coaching from Briana.  Hear about Ezra's current challenges with emotional availability, dating while kinky, dating while poly, and looking for a life partner while also not being on the old fashioned relationship escalator.  Find out how Ezra might be limiting themselves and what...

Join Ezra as he has a session with Angie of the So You Are Ready To Date Podcast about her experience processing shame and exploring interests.  Learn what limitations Angie is facing and how that could be holding her back from processing shame.  Additionally we talk about what has already worked for her in her journey to reduce the shame in her life.  Lastly, we talk about the importance of getti...

Join Ezra as he chats with Briana McCallum, a fellow coach who specializes in neurodivergent life coaching. Briana shares about her work and about her experience as a survivor of childhood trauma.  Hear how her trauma has impacted her intimate relationships in the past, how she has grown, and what work is still left to be done.  We also talk about surviving vs. thriving, exploring sexual identity,...

Hear from Mike Brown and how he found a way to grow in his ability to let go through his podcast.  Hear about his music and how he has come to have a greater sense of autonomy in relationships.  We learn about the skills Mike developed through trial and error that has led him to be an exceptional communicator and to take responsibility for his own feelings in relationships. He talks about his rela...

On this episode of the Ask Ezra Podcast we break from the mold and do things a little differently. Master Joshua A.K.A Sister Joshua takes the interviewer seat and leads Ezra through a discussion of integrity and accountability. They discuss when Ezra has been out of accountability and what they are doing to address it. Other topics include the formation of an accountability pod, anonymous feedbac...

Join us as Savannah Hauk returns to the Ask Ezra Podcast for a second session.  Savannah was a guest for episode 50 previously and we mostly spoke about her professional accomplishments.  In this episode we get more personal with Savannah and discuss the challenges she is experiencing in her current relationship and historically.  Learn about the challenges of coming out to your partner as dual-ge...

Join Ezra as he speaks with Pup Gideon, a family law attorney by day and a leather pup by night. We talk about the legality of BDSM, how sexuality and lifestyle choices play into divorce and custody and much more. Learn about how Pup Gideon feels like pup play helps him be himself, what is family law, legality of BDSM, what is deviance in the eyes of the court, and more. For the full video version...

Join Christina Carlson as the latest guest of the Ask Ezra Podcast for episode 51!  We talk about deconstructing, white supremacy and capitalism in relationships, coming back into relationship with your body, building emotional resilience and emotional self efficacy, making space for human rest and needs, accepting love because you know you can survive the heartache, sometimes you just have to let...

Join Ezra as he speaks with Savannah Hauk, author of Living With Cross Dressing - Defining A New Normal.  Listen as they discuss, the experience of the fear Savannah had showing up in public spaces while crossdressing, the impact that it has had on relationships, and why relying on external validation can be challenging.  We also discuss how having a TedX performance led to some hateful comments a...

Join Ezra as he chats with Finn Deerhart LGBTQ+ Speaker, Writer, and AASECT Certified Sexuality Counselor.  We chat about people are always projecting.  What Finn's coaching practice looks like.  What parts trust and time plays in a coaching practice, how he makes space for clients and how hard things can be productive.  We also talk about developing curiosity in challenging situations and how to...

     Join Ezra as they talk with Azalea, who participated in the Radical Sexual Acceptance Research Study.  In this first of its kind episode of the Ask Ezra Podcast, we will hear from a research participant before participating in the research project in the first half, then we will hear from her again after participating in the study.  Learn about her thoughts on the project after having complet...

Join Ezra as he talks again with Raj of the Fart Fetish Podcast.  We talk about living with misconceptions from porn, cross over to all bathroom fetishes, humor to fetish pipeline, farts to reconnect with juvenility " farting with friends", humor from insecurity, helping people feel not alone, infrared goggles, cartoon facesitting, degradation and its connection to the fetish, woman farting and co...

     The 46th episode has been removed at the request of the guest for personal reasons.  It is my policy to honor the wishes of the guest when they feel uncomfortable with an episode even after it airs.  Instead of leaving a blank space or replacing it with another episode, I have decided to replace it with a brief explanation and a sneak peek at some upcoming projects. Pre-order the poetry and p...

Listen as we meet Lily Danger, an audio porn actress, currently single and loving life.  Lily has adopted a "Yes and" attitude and is working through her views on monogamy and what a partnership could really look like.  We look as monogamy verses polyamory through a few analogies and also consider what role jealousy plays in her love life.     reddit.com/u/Lily-Danger soundgasm.net/u/lily-danger p...

     Join Ezra as he chats with Mark and Lynetta, the Soulmate Coaches.  In this episode we learn about what Mark and Lynetta are dealing with in their relationship AND what they offer as coaches.  We learn what soulmate coaches are and what is this soulmate? We learn about the  four steps to love.  Then Ezra asks: What's getting in the way?  Turns out there are some challenges around menopause fo...

Join Ezra as they talk with Sox, a sadomasochistic Goth who works as a dungeon monitor and plays with blood.  Learn about Sox's relationships, sensual versus sadistic, Sox as a sub not bottom, blood play, hook suspension, needle play experience and cutting, what her relationships look like, how Sox meet her blood play partner, Sox's bottom, Vanilla Partner, goth girl and golden retriever boy, how...

This episode follows an interview format with Dr. Patti Britton. Dr. Patti Britton has led 55 SAR programs over the past ten years in seven countries to over 1,500 people. She is the author of the only SAR training manual (Routledge Press, 2017). Britton is a nationally board-certified Clinical Sexologist and world renown as the Pioneer of the profession of Sex Coaching. She's the author of hundre...

Join Ezra as he chats with David Chambers of The Authentic Man Podcast about what it is like to go from polyamorous to monogamous and then open back up in the same relationship.  We also talk about the expectation of flawlessness, David's favorite client, what is David's journey, challenges around podcasts, how David supported his partner and the way she is supporting him now, planning for time to...

Join Ezra as they speak with Dr. Bathurst, a therapist, sexologist, coach, and holistic healer on episode #40 of the Ask Ezra Intimacy Coaching Podcast.  Learn about Dr. Bathurst's approach, what motivates them and other topics including: Ezra's activation energy analogy, how Dr. Bathurst navigates the conflicting boundaries and expectations of the various roles, what it looks like if it goes side...

Join Ezra as he speaks with Professor and researcher Dr. Eli Sheff about topics including: polyamory family study, 70s research into non-monogamy, internet lead to an evolution in poly, kids of polyamorous families were born on third base with special advantages, this includes parents romantic freedom, expansion of childhood and lifespan leads to different partnering dynamics, old folks being sexu...

Join Ezra for the 38th episode of the Ask Ezra Intimacy Coaching Podcast as he talks with Curtis.  Learn about power exchange, Daddy Dom / little girl dynamics, polyamory, and having multiple concurrent partners.  We also hear from Curtis and his experience with jealousy and possessiveness in relationships.  Listen as we talk through what good boundaries look like and what is healthy and what migh...

Join Ezra for episode 37 where he talks with Jesse James Sweed and how he came to be  teaching English in South Korea and Spain.  We learn about his experience as a language coach, his separation and divorce and his romantic ambitions.  We hear about his experience with a transition in libido and the paradigm shift that comes as we get older.  We hear about how to gamified dating, get rejected wit...

Join Ezra as he speaks with Tim of the Sex Ed With Tim Podcast.  They chat about emotional self regulation, observing your emotions like a bird watcher and not push them away or hold them close.  They also talk about setting boundaries like saying no and establishing reasonable expectations of our partners.  Lastly, they talk about practicing self compassion, listening to our intuition, and distra...