Alastair Duhs | Anger Management Expert

Anger Secrets: Anger Management for Healthier Relationships

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Most people don't look for anger management until anger starts damaging the people they love. They try to stay calm. They promise themselves they'll do better next time. They work harder to control their reactions. But the outbursts keep happening. The arguments keep escalating. The tension keeps building at home. The problem isn't simply learning to suppress anger. Lasting anger management comes from understanding anger triggers, improving emotional regulation, addressing the root causes of anger and developing healthier ways to communicate during conflict. That's what Anger Secrets is here t...

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Alastair Duhs | Anger Management Expert

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Health

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angersecrets.captivate.fm

Latest episode

Jul 5, 2026

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Episodes

92 - 3 Ways To Let Go Of Your Anger 04.08.2024

Are you tired of feeling angry all the time? Do you find it hard to let go of your anger , even when it hurts you and those around you? If so, you're not alone. In this episode of the Anger Secrets Podcast, host Alastair Duhs reveals three powerful mindset shifts to help you let go of your anger and find more peace. Alastair dives deep into the psychological strategies that can transform your resp...

91 - 4 Steps To Becoming A Better Listener In Your Relationship 28.07.2024

Are you tired of constant arguments in your relationship? Do you feel like you and your partner are never on the same page? Do you wish you could communicate more effectively and improve your relationship? If so, you're not alone. In this episode of the Anger Secrets Podcast, host Alastair Duhs delves into practical strategies for becoming a better listener in your relationships. Alastair outlines...

90 - How To Control Anger In 30 Days Or Less 21.07.2024

In this episode of the Anger Secrets Podcast, host Alastair Duhs discusses how to control your anger in 30 days or less. Alastairs shares three critical steps to manage anger, including short and long-term strategies for controlling anger and how to build a healthier relationship. Additionally, Alastair highlights success stories from individuals who have transformed their lives through his online...

89 - How to Improve Your Relationship In 3 Simple Steps 14.07.2024

Do you and your partner argue with each other frequently? Is your relationship lacking in communication and understanding? Are you and your partner drifting apart and you don't know how to stop it? If you answered "Yes" to any of these questions, in this episode of the Anger Secrets Podcast, host Alastair Duhs dives into three powerful steps to enhance your relationship: addressing anger issues, i...

88 - 3 Mindfulness Exercises For Anger Management 07.07.2024

 Do you struggle to control your anger? Have you tried to control your anger but still feel overwhelmed and out of control? Do you want to learn practical exercises based on the principles of mindfulness to help you control your temper ? If you answered "Yes to any of these questions, in today's episode of the Anger Secrets Podcast, host Alastair Duhs describes into three powerful mindfulness exe...

87 - Should I Do a Face-to-Face or Online Anger Management Program? 30.06.2024

Do you lose your temper at those closest to you? Are your angry outbursts leaving you feeling lonely, isolated and ashamed? Have you Googled "how to control my anger" too many times to admit and are still confused about your best anger management option? If you answered "Yes" to any of these questions, in this episode of the Anger Secrets podcast host Alastair Duhs dives into the debate: "Should I...

86 - 7 Common Anger Management Mistakes People Make 23.06.2024

Do you struggle to control your anger? Have you gone to anger management counseling or therapy sessions but still lose your temper in stressful situations? Do you want to learn how to effectively control your anger and improve your relationships with others? If you answered "Yes" to any of these questions, this episode is for you. In this episode of the Anger Secrets podcast, host Alastair Duhs di...

85 - How to Tell If You Have Anger Issue 16.06.2024

Do you find it difficult to stay calm in stressful situations? Do you lash out at others, even over minor inconveniences or disagreements? Has someone close to you, perhaps your partner or a family member, told you that your anger scares them? If you answered "Yes" to any of these questions, this episode of the Anger Secrets podcast is for you! In it, host Alastair Duhs delves into a crucial topic...

84 - I Can Control What I Change (Fiona's Story) 09.06.2024

Have you ever found yourself in a cycle of anger and abuse, unsure of how to break free? Or perhaps you've been raised in a family where you have been exposed to anger, abuse or violence and you are struggling to break this cycle. Are you looking for a life-changing way to transform your thoughts and feelings, so that you do not get angry in situations that would have previously made you mad? If y...

83 - How To Handle Anger From Others 02.06.2024

Have you ever found yourself on the receiving end of someone's anger and felt helpless and unsure of how to handle the situation? Perhaps there are times when your partner loses their temper and you have no idea what to do. Or perhaps there are times when your partner loses their temper and it triggers you to do the same. Whatever situation you are in, dealing with other peoples anger can be a dif...

82 - 3 Simple Steps To Control Your Anger 26.05.2024

We've all been there. You're feeling overwhelmed by frustration or anger, and suddenly it overcomes you. Your heart races, your blood boils and before you know it, you've lost control and said or done something you regret. In the moment, it can feel impossible to control your anger and respond calmly to whatever situation you are in. But with practice and dedication, it is possible to gain control...

81 - How To Discipline Children Without Anger 19.05.2024

Do yourself struggle to manage your children's behaviour without getting angry? Do you want to learn effective and gentle ways of disciplining your children without resorting to anger, aggression, intimidation or threats? If you have answered " Yes " to any of these questions, then this episode is for you! In this episode of the Anger Secrets podcast, we dive into the challenging world of parentin...

80 - My Wife Is Not My Enemy (Matthew's Story) 12.05.2024

Have you ever wondered why the smallest issues can turn into the biggest battles in your relationship? Do you find yourself constantly arguing with your partner over trivial matters? Do you struggle with issues such as how to be more vulnerable in your relationship, or how to be a better parent to your children than your parents were to you? In this episode of the Anger Secrets podcast, I share Ma...

79 - How To STOP Anger 05.05.2024

Have you ever found yourself regretting something you said in a moment of anger? Do you feel like your temper sometimes takes control of you, instead of you being in control of your temper? Are you been looking for ways to better control your anger and prevent it from negatively impacting your relationships and daily life? If you answered " Yes! " to any of these questions, then this episode of th...

78 - 3 Steps To Communicate Effectively With Your Partner 28.04.2024

Do arguments with your partner often spiral out of control? Do you feel like you're constantly trying to get your point across but your partner never seems to understand what you are saying? Are anger, arguments or poor communication ruling your relationship? If so, then today's episode of the Anger Secrets is packed with actionable advice and insightful strategies for improving communication with...

77 - What Are Your Anger Triggers? 21.04.2024

In this power-packed episode of the Anger Secrets podcast, host Alastair Duhs dives deep into how to identify and handle your anger triggers. If you've ever found yourself reacting impulsively in a heat of anger or struggling to keep your cool in stressful situations, this episode is for you! What You'll Learn: How to identify your personal anger triggers How to use an anger diary in recognising p...

76 - What Is Healthy Anger? 14.04.2024

Can anger be expressed in a healthy way? In this episode of the Anger Secrets podcast, host Alastair Duhs explores this question and shares the distinction between healthy and unhealthy expressions of anger. Drawing from over 30 years of experience teaching more than 15,000 men and women how to control their anger, Alastair acknowledges argues that while anger often leads to negative outcomes, it...

75 - The No. 1 Thing That Makes A Relationship Successful 07.04.2024

Do you want to create a happy, healthy and passionate long-term relationship? In this episode of the Anger Secrets podcast, host Alastair Duhs explores the significance of primary loving relationships for happiness and success in life. Alastair introduces his upcoming relationship coaching program, "Reignite My Relationship", which aims to help couples foster happier, more loving, and passionate r...

74 - How To Rebuild Your Relationship After Separation 31.03.2024

Have you and your partner separated due to anger issues? If so, this episode of the Anger Secrets podcast is for you. In this episode, host Alastair Duhs explores the challenge of rebuilding a relationship after separation caused by anger issues. While this is difficult, it can be done! In this episode, Alastair outlines a five-step process for individuals looking to reconcile and rebuild their re...

73 - Mastering Anger In Relationships 24.03.2024

Do you struggle to control your anger with your partner? If so, you are not alone. But it is vital that you learn to control your anger as soon as possible. In this episode of the Anger Secrets podcast, host Alastair Duhs revisits strategies to master your anger in relationships. Anger is a natural human emotion and it's normal to feel angry from time to time. However, if your anger becomes too in...

72 - The Art of Relationship Repair 17.03.2024

In this episode, host Alastair Duhs provides advice on how to avoid escalating conflicts in relationships. Drawing on the work of relationship expert Dr. John Gottman, Alastair discusses the concept of relationship repair, or the ability to deescalate conflicts and resolve them harmlessly. You will learn how to recognise signs of escalating conflict, the importance of valuing the relationship over...

71 - Don't Sweat The Small Stuff! 10.03.2024

In this episode of the Anger Secrets podcast, host Alastair Duhs discusses the importance of not sweating the small stuff in life. Alastair describes how small issues often escalate into larger conflicts, and why this is. This episode will teach you to take a step back before responding to situations, question the long-term significance of any issue you are facing and practice gratitude. Alastair...

70 - Beware! Hidden Killers Of Your Relationship Revealed! 03.03.2024

In this episode, host Alastair Duhs discusses four behaviors that quietly kill any relationship. You will learn what these behaviors are, real-life examples of these behaviors and the "antidotes" (or opposites) to these behaviors. If you want to create a calmer, happier and more loving relationship, this episode is for you. Alastair discusses the importance of managing anger in maintaining a happy...

69 - Transforming Relationships Through Active Listening 25.02.2024

In episode 69 of the Anger Secrets podcast, host Alastair Duhs discusses the power of active listening to transform relationships. This episode will teach you: what active listening is why it is so important, and what the four key skills of active listening are. You will also discover how active listening can help you create calmer, healthier and more loving relationships. For further resources (a...

68 - Why Do You Want To Control Your Anger? 18.02.2024

In this episode of the Anger Secrets Podcast, host Alastair Duhs addresses an important question to ask while seeking to control your anger: ' Why do you want to control your anger? Alastair describes why knowing your motivation for change is crucial to successfully controlling your anger. Various responses to this question from clients, often complex and deeply personal, are shared, demonstrating...

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