Alastair Duhs | Anger Management Expert
Anger Secrets: Anger Management for Healthier Relationships
Most people don't look for anger management until anger starts damaging the people they love. They try to stay calm. They promise themselves they'll do better next time. They work harder to control their reactions. But the outbursts keep happening. The arguments keep escalating. The tension keeps building at home. The problem isn't simply learning to suppress anger. Lasting anger management comes from understanding anger triggers, improving emotional regulation, addressing the root causes of anger and developing healthier ways to communicate during conflict. That's what Anger Secrets is here t...
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Alastair Duhs | Anger Management Expert
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Jul 5, 2026
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Episodes
167 - Five Steps to Rebuild a Relationship After Separation 11.01.2026 11:50
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . What do you do when the person you love no longer wants to be with you, and anger, fear or past behaviour has broken trust? In this episode of The Anger Secrets Podcast , anger expert Alastair Duhs speaks directly to those facing one of the hardest moments in a relationship: separation caused by anger issues. With honesty...
166 - How to Handle Anger in Your Relationship 04.01.2026 10:34
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . Have you ever gone to bed replaying an argument over and over in your mind, wishing you’d said things differently, wishing you’d stayed calmer or wishing the damage hadn’t been done? If so, you’re not alone. And more importantly, it doesn’t mean you’re a bad partner or a bad person. It means something inside you is trying...
165 - The 60-Second Window That Could Save Your Relationship 28.12.2025 8:27
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . You're in the middle of an argument and you know where it's headed. But what if you could change the outcome before things spiral out of control? In this essential episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs reveals how to recognise the signs of escalating conflict and use simple, proven repair techniques to stop fights before the...
164 - Why Small Things Make You So Angry 21.12.2025 10:41
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . It’s often not the big things that make you angry. It’s the small stuff that hijacks your day. In this thoughtful episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs explores why seemingly minor annoyances can trigger such big reactions, and how learning to let go of them can radically improve your relationships, your mood and your life....
163 - The Four Hidden Killers of Your Relationship 14.12.2025 12:41
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . Most relationships don’t fall apart in one explosive moment. They unravel quietly through patterns we barely notice. In this eye-opening episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs reveals the four hidden killers that silently destroy relationships from the inside out. If your connection with your partner feels colder, more distan...
162 - Why Active Listening Could Save Your Relationship 07.12.2025 11:23
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . Ever feel like you and your partner are speaking different languages, even when you're in the same room? In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs reveals why active listening is the missing link in most relationships, and how mastering it can bring you closer than ever before. If you’re tired of arguments that go nowher...
161 - The Real Reasons People Decide to Control Their Anger 30.11.2025 9:55
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . After an anger outburst, the silence can feel unbearable. In this heartfelt episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs reveals the one essential ingredient most people overlook when trying to change: a powerful personal “why.” Through real stories from men and women just like you, this episode will help you uncover the deeper rea...
160 - Why Defensiveness Is Silently Destroying Your Relationship 23.11.2025 9:42
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . Have you ever found yourself in an argument before you even realise what triggered it? In this powerful episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs explores how defensiveness quietly damages relationships, and how you can stop it. Learn why your instinct to defend yourself often masks deeper fears, and how choosing connection over...
159 - Stop Blaming Others: The Key to Controlling Your Anger 16.11.2025 14:19
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . Have you ever said, “You made me so mad”? In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs unpacks the hidden cost of blaming others for your anger—and the freedom that comes when you take full responsibility for your actions. If you’re ready to step out of blame, stop the cycle of conflict and take back control of your emotion...
158 - The Truth About Therapy and Anger — Katie’s Story 09.11.2025 13:26
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . When therapy didn’t work, Katie feared she’d never get control of her anger. Her relationship was falling apart, her parenting was suffering and she was terrified of repeating the cycle of anger she grew up with. In this inspiring episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs interviews Katie about her powerful journey—how she broke...
157 - Do You Want To Be Right — Or Be Happy? 02.11.2025 9:10
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . Have you ever felt the urge to prove you're right—especially in the heat of an argument? In this powerful episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs shares a personal story and a lesson from a truck-driving client that will change the way you think about conflict. Discover why letting go of the need to be right isn’t weakness—it’...
156 - How to Build a Stronger, Happier Relationship 26.10.2025 14:00
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . Arguments that start small often end in deep emotional disconnect. In this heartfelt episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs explores how seemingly minor issues can spiral into major conflicts—and how you can change that. He shares three simple but powerful tips that will help you manage conflict better, communicate more effec...
155 - Why Anger Hits You So Fast — And How to Stop It 19.10.2025 11:49
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . Have you ever felt like your anger comes out of nowhere—one moment you're fine, and the next you're exploding? In this insightful episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs breaks down the real reasons why you might think you get angry so quickly. By understanding what's truly happening beneath the surface, you can learn to spot...
154 - 6 Proven Tips To Control Your Anger Fast 12.10.2025 15:07
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . Have you ever said something in anger that you instantly regretted? In this episode of the Anger Secrets Podcast, anger expert Alastair Duhs shares six powerful, practical tips to help you stay calm and in control—even in the heat of the moment. Whether you're struggling with sudden outbursts or lingering tension, these st...
153 - Walking on Eggshells: Paul’s Story 05.10.2025 15:57
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . What if one moment of clarity could save your relationship? In this heartfelt episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs sits down with Paul, a single father whose anger was slowly pushing away the people he loved most. When his partner said life felt like “walking on eggshells,” Paul knew something had to change — and in just a...
152 - 5 Excuses That Keep You Stuck in Anger 28.09.2025 10:52
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . Are you telling yourself you'll deal with your anger someday ? In this compassionate yet eye-opening episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs breaks down the five most common reasons people avoid anger management — and why those reasons might be keeping you stuck. If you're ready to stop making excuses and start changing your l...
151 - The Hidden Link Between Alcohol and Anger 21.09.2025 9:41
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . Have you ever poured a drink to unwind, only to find yourself angrier than before? In this eye-opening episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs explores the often misunderstood connection between alcohol and anger. Whether you're a casual drinker or someone who struggles with outbursts after a night out, this episode offers cla...
150 - How Raymond Transformed 30 Years of Anger in Just 5 Weeks 14.09.2025 15:54
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . What if 30 years of anger could be transformed in just five weeks? In this powerful episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs shares the remarkable story of Raymond, a man whose volatile temper nearly ended his marriage — until one turning point helped him change everything. If you've ever felt like your anger is out of control,...
149 - Three Simple Steps To Control Your Anger 07.09.2025 11:12
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . Have you ever promised yourself you'd stay calm—only to find anger rising before you even realised it? In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs shares three powerful, easy-to-apply steps that will help you recognise, defuse and communicate through anger before it takes control. If you're tired of the regret that follows...
148 - Breaking the Cycle of Abuse and Violence 31.08.2025 15:31
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . This episode dives into one of the most difficult but essential topics: understanding how abuse and violence may show up in your life—and how to end the cycle. Anger expert Alastair Duhs speaks with clarity and compassion about behaviors that cause harm, whether through words, control, silence or physical actions. If you’v...
147 - How to End Arguments Before They Begin 24.08.2025 13:01
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . Arguments in relationships often start small but quickly spiral into deep disconnection. In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs reveals why conflict escalates with the people we love most—and how to stop it before it starts. With three powerful, practical techniques, Alastair guides you to shift from reaction to respo...
146 - The Hidden Cost of Anger (and How to Heal) 17.08.2025 10:14
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . In this heartfelt episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs explores the emotional toll of anger—not just on the people around you, but on your own sense of self. If you’ve ever whispered an apology and still felt the weight of guilt, this episode will help you understand why anger shows up and how you can begin to break free fr...
145 - Breaking the Cycle of Generational Anger — Cameron’s Story 10.08.2025 19:37
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. In this deeply moving episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs shares the powerful transformation of Cameron—a husband, father and successful businessman—who took brave steps to change the legacy of anger in his family. After a painful outburst left his daughter afraid, Cameron realised he was repeating patterns he swore he’d ne...
144 - The Surprising Truth About Where Anger Really Comes From 03.08.2025 11:00
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . In this powerful episode of The Anger Secrets Podcast, anger expert Alastair Duhs explores a transformative truth: anger doesn’t start in the world around you—it starts within. Through vivid storytelling and real client experiences, Alastair reveals how your thoughts shape your emotions and how shifting your perspective ca...
143 - The Key to Controlling Your Anger 27.07.2025 9:52
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . Have you ever snapped at someone you love — and immediately regretted it? In today’s powerful episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs reveals what he considers the missing key to managing anger. This simple yet essential shift has helped thousands of people break the cycle of outbursts, regret, and disconnection — and it could...
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