We're Doing It! with Sofia & Albert

Send us Fan Mail Welcome back to We're Doing It! with Sofia & Albert . In this spooky, Halloween-themed episode, we’re diving into the fine line between real-life terror and the supernatural—starting with our recap of a terrifying haunted trail in the South Texas Monte with our daughters. Albert takes us back to his Pentecostal upbringing to share chilling, unexplainable eyewitness accoun...

Send us Fan Mail Is healthy love boring? And why do we keep romanticizing the very relationships that leave us emotionally wrecked? We thought Season 1 was over, but apparently we had a few more things to say! This week on We're Doing It! , Sofia and Albert ask why Hollywood keeps giving us strong, independent female characters who make terrible romantic decisions. From Netflix's Mal de...

Send us Fan Mail For our season finale, we’re sitting down with our guest Geovanna for part two of our deep dive into following your dreams! We talk about what it really takes to break away from the burnout of building everyone else's kingdom, learning how to set tough boundaries, and navigating complicated family dynamics. Plus, Geovanna shares her wild adventures as a cargo van owner-operat...

Send us Fan Mail Content note: This episode contains discussion of addiction, domestic violence, human trafficking, sexual exploitation, and trauma. What happens when following your dreams isn't about taking a leap of faith from a comfortable life...but about rebuilding a life you nearly lost? In the first episode of our Importance of Following Your Dreams series, Sofia sits down with someone...

Send us Fan Mail What is it really like to walk away from a high-control marriage and face the heavy machinery of church divorce culture? In Part 3 of our series inspired by the Netflix documentary The Death of a Pastor's Wife , Sofia is joined by a very special guest, Stephanie (name changed for anonymity), who shares her own powerful, firsthand story of surviving spiritual control, purity c...

Send us Fan Mail Why do high-control religious environments treat divorce as an unforgivable sin while quietly sweeping abuse under the rug? In Part 2 of our deep dive inspired by the Netflix documentary The Death of a Pastor's Wife , Sofia and Albert unpack the heavy emotional and spiritual toll of church divorce culture, institutional betrayal, and the painful reality of surviving high-cont...

Send us Fan Mail Why do high-control religious environments and demands for absolute obedience lead to such devastating consequences? In this deeply personal episode of We're Doing It! , Sofia and Albert dive into the real-world dynamics behind the documentary The Death of a Pastor's Wife . Moving beyond the headlines, we explore how patriarchal church leadership, weaponized submission,...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of We’re Doing It , Sofia and Albert dive into the cathartic (and sometimes chaotic) process of decluttering...not just physical items, but mental and emotional baggage too. Sofia shares the thrill of making sales online after losing her job, along with the hilarious realities of Facebook Marketplace: lowball offers, strange 10 PM meetup locations, and accidental h...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of We’re Doing It , Sofia and Albert dive into the reality of turning 40, shifting mindsets, and why "midlife clarity" feels so much better than a midlife crisis. Sofia shares the hilarious and intimidating experience of buying makeup for the very first time, while Albert reflects on financial maturity, emotional growth, and what getting older really look...

Send us Fan Mail I almost didn’t post this episode. For our 10th milestone episode, Albert and I decided to tackle a topic we’ve been avoiding: parenting. To keep things light, we brought our daughters on the show to play a quick game of "Who's Most Likely To" and roast us as parents. Well, they didn't hold back, and I’m not going to lie…hearing their honest perspectives hit my...

Send us Fan Mail What happens when "for better or for worse" means dealing with public scenes, bad posture, and cultural clashes? This week on We're Doing It! , Sofia and Albert return for part two of their summer series on all the things married couples do that make each other cringe. From Albert calling out Sofia's open-mouthed chewing to Sofia calling out Albert for slumping...

Send us Fan Mail Do you ever look at your spouse in public and think, "I love you, but please pretend you don't know me right now" ? This week on We're Doing It! , Sofia and Albert dive into the deeply relatable, slightly gross, and hilarious boundaries that collapse once you’ve been married long enough. From accidentally spending 30 entire minutes dissecting the mechanics of p...

Send us Fan Mail Are we completely losing our minds, or are everyday irritations just hitting harder late at night? We are back with a brand-new episode of We’re Doing It , and this week, Sofia and Albert are coming to you live from the nostalgic depths of a bedroom closet!  We are officially diving into the mildly infuriating annoyances, part 2. First, Sofia breaks down the sheer anxiety of moder...

Send us Fan Mail We’re back this week on We’re Doing It , and we are breaking down the mildly infuriating everyday pet peeves that drive us completely insane. Since Sofia has to make her own coffee at home now because we are broke, we are tackling the universal frustrations of public behavior and household logistics while running on pure brain fog.  First up, we give a massive shout-out to our iso...

Send us Fan Mail Is your AI chatbot secretly a better friend than the real people in your life? This week, Sofia and Albert are back with a brand-new episode of We’re Doing It , and they brought along a very special guest: their long-time friend, 6th-grade classroom alum, and veteran, Victoria! Following up on last week's massive wave of listener DMs confirming that absolutely nobody has adul...

Send us Fan Mail Are we the dream besties we think we are, or are we actually the problem? 🫣 In Part 2 of our adult friendship episodes, we are turning the mirror on ourselves! We dive into our own "sus" friendship habits, from Albert’s ADHD brain replies that never actually get sent to whether Sofia is secretly hogging the conversation in group settings. Plus, we read an absolutely wil...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome back to We're Doing It ! Today we are tackling a topic we all thought we’d be done with by high school graduation: friendship breakups, adult drama, and the absolute minefield of making new connections as grown-ups. From getting inexplicably ghosted by long-time couple friends to navigating boundary-crossing coworkers who wait in your room before the work day starts,...

Send us Fan Mail Every morning starts the exact same way: "Good morning, Sofia. Today you are poor, and that's okay." This week, we are stripping away the filters and talking about the absolute reality of going through a financial crisis of poverty together. After Sofia's second corporate-bankruptcy layoff in a year (looking at you, Dr. Phil for the first time around) and Alber...

Send us Fan Mail What happens when an intense, calendar-obsessed household manager is married to a chaotic, defensive ADHD creative? Welcome to the relaunch of We’re Doing It , where we air out 12 years of dirty laundry, bicker on mic, and blind-react to each other’s deepest marital grievances. In this pilot episode, Sofia roasts Albert for "ADHD Confabulation" (vividly making up memorie...