Unsolicited Views Podcast

In this bonus episode, the crew gets real about  parenting—then vs. now.  We reflect on how we were raised, the lessons (and trauma) we inherited, and what we plan to  keep or leave behind  as we raise the next generation. From old-school discipline to gentle parenting, we break down the shifts in parenting styles and ask:  Are we doing better, or just different? Whether you're a parent, think...

This week, we’re joined by  MAX from Fax From The Lab Podcast  to talk all things  blerd culture  and how it’s always been a part of Black identity. From  Parliament Funkadelic  to  Erykah Badu , we break down how Black people have always embraced futuristic, imaginative worlds—long before anime and sci-fi went mainstream. Whether it’s  Dragon Ball Z , comics, or deep space beats, we’ve been leadi...

Truckin’ Through Love, Sex Playlists & Valentine’s Day Fails | Unsolicited Views Podcast Ep. 249 This week on the pod, Jon, Mal, Syd, and special guest Franklin are bringing the laughs and real talk! Franklin gives us the lowdown on his life as a trucker and opens up about his love life on the road. He’s got one big question: Why doesn’t his lady ever say “I love you”? Is she just not that int...

The gang is back with another unfiltered episode of  Unsolicited Views ! Mel returns from FMLA, and we catch up on everything—from her love for Sprinkles to Jon’s latest  peculiar  story. We dive into whether we truly stand up for Blackness, why so many of us are fighting for work-from-home life ( work plan antics ) and Jamal’s name if he went to jail. The conversation gets deep as we debate spiri...

Episode 247 is packed with laughs, truths, and a little bit of soul-searching. Jon gets candid about his allyship to the LGBTQIA+ community—because supporting  all  the letters matters 🌈. Mel is back… well, kind of. He’s on FMLA (again), and we’re still trying to figure out how he makes it work. 😂 Meanwhile, Mal keeps his emotions locked up like Fort Knox, so we spend some time hilariously (and...

We’re back, and so is Mel! 🎉 After catching up and hitting you with a top-tier dad joke (don’t worry, we’re cringing too), we dive into some real talk. Are deal breakers and pet peeves the same thing, or are we just being dramatic? 🤔 Can you maintain relationships with people who keep testing your patience? And when your inner child feels unsafe, is that a deal breaker? But that’s not all—parent...

This week, the crew is here to tackle the big questions in life…sort of. First, we dive into the “Sin Spectrum” and decide which sins are worse—spoiler alert: marriage might just be the cheat code to knock fornication and adultery off your list. Next up, we settle the age-old debate: is 2-ply toilet paper the only acceptable option? (The answer is obvious, but we had to say it.) Finally, we get in...

With Mel still on LOA and Mal out here galavanting, Jon and Syd are left to roast every generation. First, they dig into the age-old question: why did Millennials sneak around while Gen Z just throws it all out there like they’ve got nothing to lose? Then they dive into life trajectories—turns out, how we turn out really isn’t that shocking. They also introduce the “Ain't Sh*t Spectrum” (yes, it’s...

In this laugh-out-loud episode, Jon, Mal, and Syd are diving headfirst into the big questions no one asked but everyone wants answered. First up, we’re getting real about oral sex—what's easier, for men or for women? Things get heated fast! Then, they debate the  real  top 5 Disney slaps of all time—will your childhood favorite make the cut? We also tackle the serious topic of raising kids: is co-...

In this hilarious and thought-provoking episode, the Unsolicited Views crew—Jon, Mal, and Syd (Mel's still on LOA)—dive into a range of topics that'll have you questioning everything from your happiness to your attachment style. Mal opens up about what really makes him happy and whether he’s the type to jump for joy. The team then tackles the ever-controversial topic of the “hoe phase”—wha...

Join Jon, Mal, and Syd as they dive into a mix of deep thoughts and hilarious takes (Mel’s still on LOA, and we miss him!). We’re unpacking our favorite five-year stretches of life—were they wild, and what do we regret? Plus, we’re breaking down why Black women slow down on the twerking in their 30s. We’re voting on the top 4 words to retire in 2024: Monolith, Diabolical, Narcissist, Toxic and the...

“Audience, pardon the audio—this one needed some serious fixing after the distortion monster attacked. But we’re back and better with Jon, Mal, and Syd (Mel’s on LOA), diving into some hot topics. We’re talking about men letting women pick up the tab and who you call first when masculine duties pop up—whether you’ve got a man or not. Plus, getting into a fight as an adult? Yeah, that’s wild. We al...

In this hilariously candid episode of Unsolicited Views, Mal, Mel, Syd, and Jon catch up on the latest shenanigans and drop a dad joke that’ll make you groan. They dive into the art of knowing when an argument is almost over and debate whether it’s okay to pass up on a kiss if the fight isn’t finished. Tune in as they tackle creating open communication while still getting your needs met, all inspi...

This pre-pod we discuss what we were taught about sex as adolescents and teens.

Join Jon, Syd, and Mal as they navigate the tricky waters of friendships with different financial situations. They discuss what it means to be "well traveled" and whether a passport is a must for certain social circles. The trio also explores the pressures of maintaining status among friends, the art of accepting criticism, and Mal's ongoing battle with procrastination. Tune in for h...

Join Jon, Mal, and Syd for a hilarious and thought-provoking episode where they tackle everything from picking cotton for $350 an hour to the age-old debate: is a hotdog a sausage? Relive high school lunch meal classics and explore the difference between twerking and grinding. They also dive into the quirks of bad built skinny people, discuss if support in relationships should be conditional, and...

In this engaging episode of Unsolicited Views, hosts Jon, Mal, and Syd dive deep into a range of topics that resonate with adults navigating the complexities of modern adult life. Here's what you can expect: 1. **Great Parent vs. Great Partner**: We explore why the qualities that make someone an exceptional parent might not align with those that make a great partner. Join us as we unpack the d...

This episode we sit down with the owners of Blackstone Brothers Distillery. We discuss their journey into the alcohol business and the life experience that led them to business. Sorry for the audio we got a little turnt. Enjoy!

This episode Jon and Mel sit down and discuss mans inability to hold them selves accountable. I’m addition to how masculinity can show in a healthy way.

This week the crew sits down to discuss body positivity and not settling.

This episode we back at it. We discuss the topic if therapy has made our generation victims. Have we taken something that should help and made it a hindrance. Jon, Mel, Syd, Mal and Quentin

This week the whole crew is together. We discuss generalization and does changed behavior mean more than words. Jon, Syd, Mel, Mal

This episode Mal, Mel and Jon discuss several topics. At what point do people peak in there lives? Did some of us peak too early? Lastly, What are some goals set in 2024 and will they hit them.

This episode we talk life, celebrities and why they might not matter anymore.

In this thought-provoking episode, we delve into a range of topics that often remain unaddressed in everyday conversations. From the complexities of creating trauma-aware environments for children to the lingering questions we've never dared to ask our parents, our discussion is as raw as it is enlightening. Finally, we address the common misconception that patience is solely a virtue for wome...