UnScripted & Naked Honesty with Jeff & Andi

Welcome back to Unscripted and Naked Honesty, where we bare our souls and share our truths. After a year-long hiatus, we're back with an episode that's raw, real, and close to our hearts. In this deeply personal episode, we open up about our journey into parenthood — the exhilarating joy of discovering our pregnancy, and the heart-wrenching pain that followed. This episode wasn't pl...

People usually aren't this vulnerable. 🥺 But I had the privilege to capture someone's vulnerability and hold it sacred and hold space for them when they truly want to be happy in their marriage. This question came through my DM's and for you, dear one... here is my answer.  Get ready to take some notes! Explore this question with me... the answer(s) is not what you expect.  Shoot u...

Sure, you said your vows and never-ever thought things would get bad... But they did. Your spouse wants out. They've pulled away from you in more ways than one. What's left... divorce right? Not in my neck of the woods. 😏 Despite BOTH of us stepping outside the marriage, debt, kids, and horrible communication skills, we made a VOW to really commit and keep true to those "for better...

"Once a cheater, always a cheater." "I don't understand how someone could do this!" "I'll never stay with a cheater." This and more... y'all, my IG is  blowing  up with comments like these. So, whether or not you are in this predicament or not, it's just about jumping someone's bones other than your spouse.  Sure, sometimes it is... but for  t...

Talk about an open door to the marriage bedroom 😳 It's WIDE open in this episode! Hear the husband's point of view and unknowingly, his answers to a topic he had ZERO clue I was going to talk about!🤭 So, do you think his genuine heart was deceptive?  Shoot us a message! *********** 👇🏾 Don't forget to rate, comment or leave a review 😃 Email Me! 😘 Direct Message Me 😏 Did you kn...

I did it. 😓 Then he did it. 🤬 We totally messed up by cheating on each other in our marriage, but we didn't end up divorcing. We didn't end up resenting or staying unhappy with one another. 😌 🏽 It was these 3 critical actions that made our marriage bliss (even when we were soo emotionally disconnected). Join me AND Jeff as you hear his  authentic side of the story of how we re-establ...

Are you ready to learn why boundary-less relationships will always fail?  In this podcast, I dive into the reasons why relationships with no boundaries are doomed to fail - from struggles with trust and communication to an inability to practice self-care. 🥺 Get ready to explore how boundaries create a foundation of respect and understanding that is essential for any healthy relationship.  Don&apo...

Are you struggling to rebuild trust after a partner’s infidelity?  Well, duh! Join me as we explore {unconventional} strategies for recovering and healing after a betrayal like this.  This is a  candid conversation where you’ll learn actionable advice while gaining new perspectives on rebuilding trust in your relationship.  So if you’re ready to start the journey toward renewal and hope - just lis...

When he cheated on me, it sucked. But since I cheated first... And we're baacck!  Let's start off Season 2 with some concrete strategies to rebuild your self-confidence and feelings of worthiness after experiencing the trauma of infidelity. It's one thing to understand the complex psychological and emotional impact that being cheated on has on your psyche, but let's not forget...

Hear the powerful story of how one woman (me) faced her fears, accepted her truth and found the strength to forgive and heal after being betrayed by someone she loved as a last attempt before suicidal thoughts took over her spirit as a last resort. 🥺 In this final episode of the season, like nothing you've probably heard before, I walk you through the exact, intimate steps I took that finall...

Uncover the power of purposeful action and discover why understanding your true intentions matters. Let's take an exploration into the world of intentions and their importance in achieving our goals, shall we?  We'll uncover why it is important to understand the underlying motivations behind our actions, and how those (un)true intentions can often lead to unexpected outcomes. It's t...

Learning how to feel more secure in who you are. 💯 You probably haven't heard about these strategies for setting healthy boundaries, building confidence in yourself, and learning to live a life of certainty, no matter the circumstances before. This episode helps you to delve deep into your core and discover who you are in order to live with greater confidence. Get ready for some profound que...

... If you want to be a happy person that is. 😏 "It is NOT about neglecting yourself - it’s 100% about YOU in order to fulfill your needs to love more, give more, and suffer less for the sake of others." The ultimate parent trap - thinking you "need" to put your kids first (even before your spouse) in order to be a good parent, have your children "like" you, or to av...

 A lot of women struggle with low self esteem, which can manifest itself in a lot of different ways - especially when it comes to trusting and never second-guessing your choices & decisions with friends and family. 😟 Low self esteem can be really tough to deal with, and it can hold you back from achieving your goals and living your best life.🥺 #IGotYou 😘 Don't worry, you're not al...

Yup, I cheated on my husband.  Story time! If you are new here,  every fifth episode, you will get a peek and see for yourself what goes on behind closed bedroom doors in an imperfect marriage. In this episode... find out if love plays a factor when a spouse cheats - you may not like the answer, but this is the reality... of a cheating wife.  ⚠️ 1 F-bomb in this episode *********** 👇🏾 Don't...

Why is that still bothering you? Aren't you 'over it by now? No, well, suck it up, Buttercup. 👆🏾 Probably NOT what you want to hear when you've had either a traumatic experience or an incident that made you so uncomfortable, that you keep overthinking the issue.  I get it. I've been in situations where I've succumbed to the whims of others in order to avoid feeling uncom...

You're doing this "self-love" thang all wrong.  #ISaidIt You see, what most people don't realize is self-love isn't about accepting your body (not yet anyway). Self-love isn't about daily affirmations (not as a foundation). Self-love isn't about feeling  good about who you are (feelings are fleeting). I did that thang that takes self-love to a new level... like S...

Disappointment sucks. 😫 What's even worst... experiencing it nearly every day from the one you love most... your spouse. It sucks when it's your closest friends, too. 🥺 So, how do you convey your disappointment when you feel like people aren't meeting your expectations? I've got 3 Secrets to share with you about unmet expectations and why they keep occurring and some naked tr...

If you think Jeff is the "typical" guy when it comes to boundaries... 🤭 Think again. Get ready to hear  his perspective on my assertive yet necessary stance on boundaries, not only with people outside my family but within my marriage! There's something that happened within both of us that led to the end of the mind-games and assumptions and led us to communication bliss with unimag...

What happens when a couple blatantly hurt each other, suffer together, and stays absolutely silent about it because of shame, guilt, and judgment? Listen now and find out for yourself because we're goin' behind the closed doors of a marriage that almost took a turn for the worst in one of the most horrible ways a couple could hurt each other. 🥺😢 *WARNING* - Yeah, I drop some F-💣s.  🤫...

Since you or anyone else close to you isn't a mind-reader... 🤷🏽‍♀️ Why is it that expressing the way we need to be loved is so damn hard?! If it's not for you... then this episode you don't need. However, if you continually feel empty, unheard, misunderstood, and feel like you are just losing touch with someone on an emotional level... Then yes, this is the episode for you. Lust o...

You asked and you shall receive!! 🙌 You see, there's no point creating all these episodes if I don't cover something YOU tuly need and want. So, I asked... and this Queen said ... yo, I'm feeling misunderstood and unheard. 😮‍💨 I got you, Sis. This isn't for the faint at heart and we're hitting some deeper issues than someone who just doesn't "get" you. Be...

How  exactly  do you see yourself or introduce yourself? Actually, I don't care how you introduce yourself because if it's not how you SEE yourself, it doesn't f*k'n matter. Are you a... Stepmom? 2nd Wife? Bonus parent? X-wife? Mom of 3? If you wanna stick to those labels... DON'T listen to this episode because I'll really  upset you with some lovin-truth bombs that w...

Can you  really "find" yourself?  Well, lemme ask you this... what do you do on a  daily basis - yup, it's that freakin' consistent, that brings you or makes you (and only you) feel like you can enjoy and LIVE out your desires, dreams, and/or happiness?  🤔 🤷🏽‍♀️ Don't worry... I got you! Download this episode because you're going to get  another amazing homework as...

Who the "f*k" are you??? Got healthy boundaries? Wondering if some boundaries are actually  bad  for you? Let's dispel some myths about boundaries so that you can truly feel like a badass when it comes to setting yourself up for success AND truly know what a boundary is so you'll know 💯 if you want them in your life.  But first... let's congratulate Coach Andi for  finall...