Unexpectedly Solo

Come with me as I go for a walk and reflect on how slowing down has improved my overall wellbeing, down to my health, parenting and relationships. I speak about the impact of urgency culture on me and my aim to resist it to maintain balance.

Just when I thought I’d wrapped up one journey, life threw me into another—this time, one that forced me to face my health head-on. With that came challenges at work, co-parenting struggles, and the realisation that not everything needs to be handled immediately. Some things can wait. In this episode, I open up about learning to slow down, listen to my body, and give myself the time I need to rest...

The email of finality arrived today, January 6, 2025. Join me as I share my thoughts and emotions on this pivotal moment and reflect on how I plan to turn the page and begin a bold new chapter. It’s not just an ending—it’s the start of something transformative.

As the new year begins, I find myself approaching a new chapter: nearing the finalisation of my divorce. In this episode, I reflect on what this means for me as a solo mum, navigating life while prioritising myself and my children. I explore the lessons I’ve learnt, the hopes I hold for the future, and the fears that come with trusting someone again. It’s a journey of self-discovery, healing, and...

This year has been a ride! As we’re closing it out, I’ve been thinking about the choices I made that really set me up to win this year. It had me realising the importance making critical choices and times when I did not always make the best choice which set me up to play the role of ‘Barbra the builder’. So, tune in for a candid chat about lessons learned, wins secured, and making better choices f...

In this episode, we're diving deep into the journey of finding real peace after a long and difficult struggle. I tell my own story of how I reclaimed my own peace and prioritising self-preservation—especially as a mother. For anyone who’s ready to choose their own peace and make life lighter, this episode is for you.

In this episode, I’m getting into my own journey through divorce and setting up child arrangements. I’ll be sharing the ups and downs about what it can be like to navigate custody, visitation, and co-parenting. If you’re facing this too, let’s go through it together, from the messy moments to the small victories that make it all worth it. Email me at unexpectedlysolo@gmail.com

In this episode, I’m taking you behind the curtain of my co-parenting journey through divorce. Just when I thought we had everything perfectly planned, life decided to throw in a surprise that turned my world upside down. Tune in as I share the unexpected changed that reshaped my approach to co-parenting, and how I’ve been navigating this new chapter with a bit of grace.

Embark on a captivating storytelling journey with me as I reveal the poignant and empowering tale of navigating divorce and triumphing over life's barriers. For inquiries, reach out at unexpectedlysolo@outlook.com.

Welcome to "Unexpectedly Solo." In this podcast, I share my personal journey of feeling abandoned in my marriage and the unexpected reality of navigating life alone. Join me as I delve into the raw emotions, personal stories, and the struggle of coping with abandonment. Whether you're seeking understanding, solace, or practical tips for moving forward, "Unexpectedly Solo" offers a compassionate sp...

In this episode, I take you through more of the breakdown that happened in my marriage and how I began to focus on my own needs. For any questions, feel free to email me at unexpectedlysolo@outlook.com.

In this episode, I delve into the profound themes of reconciliation, forgiveness, and compassion. I apologise for the technical issues with the sound and appreciate your understanding as I explore these concepts. Thank you for joining me on this journey.

In this episode I dive deep into the pivotal moments of my marriage. I open up about the challenges that shaped my journey, sharing how these experiences taught me the importance of investing in myself and in relationships that truly reciprocate. Join me for an intimate conversation filled with personal insights and practical tips on embracing vulnerability and prioritising mutual respect and self...

In this episode I share the story of my traumatic child delivery, the multiple issues that happened with ex-in-laws during this time and event that triggered a swift decline in my marriage.

This episode covers the journey of navigating anger, church hurt, self forgiveness and learning to trust your inner self.

This is a light touch introduction of story telling my story. A big theme for me is rest and you’ll definitely be able to tell that as you listen to the episode. Sit back and relax as you’re taken on a journey of story telling discussing motherhood and divorce 🫶🏾