Toni Told Me with Toni Tone

Friendship breakups can hurt just as much, if not more, than romantic ones. In this episode of Toni Told Me, Toni gets real about the grief of losing a friend and why sometimes the people who know us best can hurt us the most. Toni and Producer Annisha dive into tricky friendship dynamics, from workplace friendships that feel a little too controlling, to the childhood friend who kept crossing...

Mother’s Day is around the corner here in the UK, so to celebrate Toni's mum is back on the podcast! They're talking all about the wedding, family dynamics, in-laws and how she really feels about me moving to Houston, plus what it’s like becoming a grandmother of two. Before that, in Teatime with Toni, they help listeners through some tough dilemmas, from navigating a parent who disapproves o...

Choosing a partner can be a tricky process but what happens when you keep picking the same kind of person? Same person different font kind of vibe!! Is it a you problem, or is it a them problem? Toni weighs in and lets her listeners know it is in fact a YOU problem! Dilemmas are solved and truths are told in this week’s episode. Join our Patreon: Patreon.com/ToniToldMe — new episodes drop every Fr...

Is yearning dead… or are we just too cool to admit we want someone? This week on Toni Told Me, we’re talking all things longing, modern dating, “nonchalant” culture, and whether romance is slowly disappearing. Plus in Teatime with Toni, we’re getting into a couple of dilemmas...including a really shocking one about a dad and OnlyFans advice, and what it means when your partner admires other women...

In this episode, we’re getting real about that little voice in your head we all try to ignore, especially when it comes to relationships. You know, the red flags that somehow look beige, the “he has potential,” the almosts, the “but he’s a good guy,” the money stress, the overlap, the shaky boundaries, and that comfy but risky feeling that makes confrontation feel impossible. Join our Patreon: Pat...

Valentine’s Day is coming… but is  “I treat you well every day”  really enough? In this episode of Toni Told Me, Toni dives into real conversations about love, commitment, and expectations. In Teatime With Toni, listener dilemmas unpack cultural pressure around marriage, waiting on commitment, and dating someone with emotional baggage. Then in Sisterhood Spotlight, Toni br...

Toni is joined by her sister-in-law, 2x Grammy Award-winning singer-songwriter and producer Kamille, for an honest chat about her journey in music, winning Grammys, navigating the industry, and balancing career, motherhood and marriage. Plus, it’s Teatime with Toni as Toni, Producer Annisha and Kamille get into your dilemmas, from wanting more in a relationship that ticks all the bo...

In this episode, we’re diving into life across the pond and what it’s really like living in the US compared to the UK. From culture and food to accents, social life, and even healthcare, I’m sharing all the reality checks, surprises, and subtle differences you won’t hear anywhere else. Plus, if you’re a Brit thinking about making the move, or just curious about life in America, this is y...

It’s the second episode of Season 2, and this week Toni is giving us the full wedding debrief. From how the day went to what went wrong and what went right, no detail is spared and all the tea is well and truly spilled. As always, Toni is also solving your dilemmas in Teatime with Toni. This week’s listener questions cover everything from equal partnership vs. soft life, to the ultimate debat...

There’s been a wedding, a honeymoon, a move across the pond, and so much more, and Toni is ready to chat about it all with you in Season 2 of Toni Told Me! It may be a new season, but Toni and Producer Annisha are back doing what they do best: solving your dilemmas. From cheating partners to long-distance relationships, Toni serves up her best advice in this week’s Tea Time with Toni. And that’s n...

Welcome to Toni Told Me, the cozy corner of the internet where real talk meets real tea with the internet's big sis, Toni Tone! Each episode Toni will dive into the everyday dilemmas you face - relationships, family, career choices and everything in between. Toni’s got your back and is serving up heartfelt advice. Whether you're feeling stuck, seeking guidance, or just want to share a laugh, take...

It’s the season finale of  Toni Told Me  — and your internet big sis is signing off in the most special way! In this final episode of Season 1, Toni spills all the tea on her wedding: from the first dance to the dresses, the food, and even the honeymoon plans. Of course, Producer Annisha is right there with her, and together they tackle your latest dilemmas in one last  Teatime with...

Toni’s back with something extra special this week! She’s giving her listeners an exclusive sneak peek of her brand-new book  No F* cks Given — and yes, she even reads a little bit out loud so you can be the very first to hear it. Of course, it wouldn’t be an episode without Tea Time with Toni, where she and Producer Annisha dive head-first into your dilemmas!  Got a dilemma of your own...

September is Sickle Cell Awareness Month in the UK, and the internet’s big sis is joined by writer, poet, presenter, creative, and award-winning journalist Simply Sayo. As an NHS Blood & Transplant Ambassador and passionate advocate for the Black community, Sayo is leading a powerful year-long campaign,  It Takes A Village , which aims to recruit 16,000 Black blood donors. In this episode...

We've touched on Eldest Daughter Syndrome (EDS)... but what about the youngest sibling? They don't always have it easy either and on this week's episode Toni is joined by her youngest sibling, her sister Tara. Tara touches on her experiences growing up and how she and Toni have worked on their relationship! Plus as Tara is Toni's maid of honour, together they solve your maid of honour dilemmas in...

This week on Toni is spilling the advice she'd give to her younger self — from taking risks and chasing big dreams to staying true, eating great food, and rocking whatever outfit feels right. Plus, in Tea Time with Toni, a listener shares what it’s like to feel overlooked in dating even after putting in the effort — and we get real about self-worth, confidence, and finding connection. Go...

After news of a cheating couple broke the internet in recent weeks, Toni Tone explores the realities of whether cheating is ever really worth it. There's a cheating themed dilemma in Tea Time with Toni and a deep dive into the topic in the Sisterhood Spotlight, so if you or anyone you know has experienced cheating, this is the episode for you. Got a dilemma of your own and need some big-sis wisdom...

Babies, bachelorettes, and best friends—Toni is diving into it all this week with her ride-or-die Carina by her side. In this special Tea Time with Toni, the dilemmas are all bachelorette themed (because Toni’s own celebration is just around the corner). From whether it’s ever okay to bring babies along, to what really makes a bachelorette unforgettable, nothing is off-limits. Plus, in the Sisterh...

With the countdown officially on until Toni says “I do,” she opens up about how she’s really feeling in the final stretch before the big day — from the excitement and anticipation to what’s still on the to-do list, and the moments she’s looking forward to most. As always, Toni and Producer Annisha are here to spill the tea and tackle your dilemmas in  Tea Time with Toni  — and this week,...

Toni dives into the latest  Love Island UK  drama — and it's giving serious identity theft vibes. But is it imitation or admiration? Where's the line, and how do you  really  know when someone’s crossing it? Plus, as always, Toni and Producer Annisha are back for  Tea Time with Toni , dishing out advice on your dilemmas. This week’s hot question: Should you keep holding st...

How do you  really  know he's the one? It’s a question many of us ask while dating. Is it the butterflies in your stomach—or is it something deeper that doesn’t show up right away? In this episode, your internet big sis shares the moment she knew her fiancé was the one, opening up about love, timing, and gut feelings. As always, Toni and Producer Annisha dive into your juiciest dilemmas...

Thinking about becoming a content creator but not sure where to start? It’s not always as easy as it looks. In this episode, Toni shares her best tips on how to get into the content game and start putting your work out there. Whether you're just curious or ready to dive in, this one's for you. Plus, in Tea Time with Toni, things get real when one listener asks:  “Why do I only...

Your internet big sis is getting real about  potential  — because let’s be honest, it can be a blessing or a trap. So how do you tell the difference and avoid falling for the wrong thing? Toni’s breaking it all down and dropping the gems. Plus, Producer Annisha and Toni solve some of your wildest dilemmas yet in Tea Time with Toni. Got a dilemma of your own and need some big-sis wisdom?...

Toni is joined by Celebs Go Dating’s very own Dr Tara for a no-filter chat on all things love, lust, and leveling up your dating life. From spicing up long-distance relationships to spotting red flags like a pro, Dr Tara is spilling all the tea. Plus, it's Tea Time With Toni — where your wildest, weirdest, and most heart-wrenching dilemmas get the big-sis wisdom they deserve. Got a dilemma of your...

Loneliness — it’s something we all experience, and it’s a completely normal part of being human. With Loneliness Awareness Week starting here in the UK, Toni opens up about the feeling, shares a bit of her own story, and reminds us that we’re never as alone as we think. In  Tea Time with Toni , she and Producer Annisha tackle your dilemmas with their usual heart and humour. Plus, Toni’s setti...