The Things We Know

In this episode of The Things We Know , Lisa and Kari discuss the challenge of living more in our bodies instead of staying stuck in our heads. They explore how modern life—filled with distractions like phones and constant news—disconnects us from what we truly need. Drawing on personal experiences and insights from mindfulness practices, they share practical tips for cultivating awareness, ground...

In this episode, Kari and Lisa explore the essential yet often tricky art of asking for what we want—and the equally challenging act of receiving it when it comes. They share personal insights and examples, including a client story that reveals how hesitation and self-doubt can lead us to downplay our own potential. Kari and Lisa discuss why we tend to soften our requests with apologies or qualifi...

In this episode, Kari and Lisa dive into a deeply personal and universally relevant topic: the birthright "to need." They explore how this fundamental right to have our needs met is essential for building trust, safety, and connection, yet is often ignored or discouraged as we grow up. Together, they examine how many of us, particularly Gen Xers, received the message that needing something or aski...

Join Lisa and Kari as they reflect on the unforgettable moments from their recent "Best Chapter Yet" retreat in Chicago. They share highlights from the opening gathering's candle-lit meditation to the powerful ritual of letting go, where participants embraced their authentic selves. From shared stories and spontaneous laughter to heartfelt realizations, Lisa and Kari discuss how the weekend create...

In this raw, impromptu episode recorded just two days after the election, we're not holding back. From sadness and fear to anger and utter bewilderment, we're sharing our honest reactions to the results and what they mean to each of us personally. You'll hear us wrestle with our disappointment and frustration – emotions we know many of you are feeling, too. But even in the intensity of this conver...

Kari and Lisa are joined by the inspiring Rachel Madorsky—bestselling author, psychotherapist, and executive coach—whose work in helping women experience more love, ease, and wealth has touched countless lives. Rachel shares her journey and the power of self-love as a practice that can transform both inner and outer experiences. The conversation delves into her acclaimed book How to Love Yourself:...

In this episode of The Things We Know , Lisa and Kari dive into the crucial role of voting and why it's feeling more important than ever. They discuss the power of individual votes in shaping policies and the impact of this upcoming election, including its historic potential and the pressing issues at stake, from reproductive rights to the climate crisis. Reflecting on personal motivations, they e...

In this episode of The Things We Know , Lisa and Kari reflect on the concept of choices and the metaphorical "road not taken," inspired by Robert Frost's famous poem. They discuss how their own lives—career shifts, raising grown kids, and personal growth—shape their understanding of life's crossroads. Emphasizing acceptance and finding peace with the present, they highlight that it's never too lat...

In this episode, Kari and Lisa tackle the complexities of being part of the Sandwich Generation—those who find themselves caring for both their children and aging parents simultaneously. They dive deep into the emotional, physical, and financial strains that come with this dual caregiving role, offering insights on how to manage the stress, maintain balance, and seek support. With personal reflect...

In this episode of The Things We Know, Kari and Lisa explore the profound impact of rituals in their daily lives and coaching practices. They discuss how rituals, whether ancient or modern, provide structure, meaning, and emotional support during life's transitions. The hosts delve into the historical and cultural significance of rituals, highlighting their role in spiritual practices and communit...

In this episode of The Things We Know, Kari and Lisa delve into the joys and challenges of learning something new. They explore how the process of acquiring new skills, whether it's playing the guitar, learning a language, or cooking a new cuisine, can be both rewarding and humbling. The hosts discuss the science behind learning, emphasizing the role of neuroplasticity and the importance of lifelo...

In this episode of The Things We Know, Kari and Lisa explore the transformative power of reframing—shifting your perspective to navigate challenges and foster personal growth. They delve into what reframing is, the science behind it, and how it's used in therapy and coaching to help people see their situations in a new light. With real-life examples, practical tips, and personal stories, Kari and...

In this episode of The Things We Know, hosts Lisa and Kari explore the pros and cons of social media for women and their teen and young adult children. They discuss the positive aspects, such as global connectivity, support groups, and educational resources, while also addressing the negative sides, including cyberbullying, unrealistic standards, and their impacts on mental health. The episode off...

In this episode of The Things We Know, Lisa and Kari dive into the complex relationship we have with our smartphones, exploring the highs and lows of modern connectivity. They discuss personal experiences and observations, noting how phone habits can impact daily life, relationships, and even physical well-being. With anecdotes and statistics, they highlight the allure of smartphones and the psych...

In this episode of "The Things We Know,"  Kari and Lisa are fired up about misogyny in modern society, examining its presence in politics, media, and the dynamics among women themselves. Inspired by the upcoming presidential election, they discuss the unique challenges faced by female politicians and how media portrayal often reinforces harmful stereotypes. The hosts also delve into the concept of...

In this episode of The Things We Know, Kari and Lisa are thrilled to welcome Monica Lynne, a certified Sex and Relationship Therapist and owner of Balancing Life PLLC. With a rich background in sexuality education and wellness coaching, Monica shares her insights on holistic health, addressing everything from mental and emotional well-being to sexual health through a feminist lens. The conversatio...

In this episode of The Things We Know, Kari and Lisa welcome the inspirational Liane Lopes, an Intuitive Healer, Energy Alchemist, and Personal Coach. The conversation explores deep and transformative topics, including the illusion of setbacks, redefining beliefs about aging, and the art of manifesting one's desires. With her radiant energy, Liane shares insights on overcoming personal challenges,...

Lisa and Kari are joined by financial well-being coach JD Rose, who shares her expertise on empowering women to thrive financially and beyond. JD discusses the profound impact our relationship with money has on all aspects of life and offers insights into overcoming financial anxiety and confusion. The conversation covers the cultural influences on our perception of abundance, the link between tra...

In this episode of The Things We Know Podcast, hosts Kari and Lisa welcome Susan Liddy, a Board-Certified Holistic Health Practitioner and founder of Vibrant Menopause Solutions. Susan shares her personal journey through menopause and her mission to transform it into a rite of passage. The conversation delves into the unique challenges faced by Gen X women, the impact of stress on menopause, and p...

If you've listened to even just one of their previous episodes, you KNOW Kari and Lisa share a love for music and lyrics!   In this episode, you'll hear them chat about why they love music, what influenced that love, and what concert experiences stand out for each of them.  Kari has mentioned in previous episodes that music is her time machine, and both enjoy where this discussion takes them both...

Continuing their series on their own "favorites" to read and watch, this episode Lisa and Kari discuss documentaries: those they highly recommend, those that taught them something they never knew, and those they simply cannot get out of their minds, unsure if they recommend them or not.  Because they are both Gen X babies, they kick off the discussion by sharing their reactions to the recently air...

Last week Lisa and Kari started a conversation about what they are watching and focused on the small screen, so this week it's all about the BIG screen: movies!  Films they consider all-time favorites, the ones they can watch again and again, movies they loved from the past year and more recently, and what they each recommend.  Tune it if you're looking for a good idea for your next pizza movie ni...

Are you looking for new shows to watch?  If you're like Lisa and Kari, you may go through periods where you aren't watching anything and you find you have time for it but not sure what's worth your time!  Join these two as they discuss what they are watching, what series they loved so much they'd watch again, and what show's next season they are looking forward to the most!    Don't forget to like...

In this episode of Kari and Lisa's go-to and fave reads, Kari and Lisa dive into some of their most beloved books and the ones they frequently revisit for inspiration. Kari shares how Brene Brown's "The Gifts of Imperfection"  offers beautiful reminders to embrace authenticity, while Lisa highlights the empowering lessons from "The Confidence Code" by Claire Shipman and Katty Kay. They also explor...

In this episode of The Things We Know Podcast, co-hosts Lisa and Kari delve into the pervasive issue of a crisis of confidence. Starting with personal anecdotes, they explore how this phenomenon affects not only themselves but also spouses, friends, clients, and children. They discuss various triggers including fear of failure, criticism, comparisons, major life changes, imposter syndrome, and mor...