The Susan Winter Show

Have you had so many negative experiences that you no longer believe love can happen? Here's the cynic's guide to attracting a love that's healthy and beneficial. #cynic #datingadvice #love

The moment you see ‘THE LOOK,' you'll know you're being considered as relationship material. Your partner has just awakened to your value, and worth. #thelook #love #partnerselection

Is constant obsession not allowing you to move forward? How are you feeling stuck, and tried everything (yet nothing works)? If so, try this: #obsession #breakup #stuck

You thought everything was going well. Then, your partner began pulling away. Learn the 3 big reasons why this is happening (and how to counter this reaction):#datinggames #whimsical #attraction #pullingaway #fear #confusion #datingadvice

They wanted you (or so it seemed). What happened? The loop of obsession over this question can feel like a downward spiral. Here's why, and your way out: #rejection #hotandcold #obsession #breakup #attraction #datingadvice #desire

Your ex has been in contact. They say they miss you and want you. BUT… they can't be with you due to their circumstances. What's going on? #ex #breakup #TextsFromEx #overlappers #mixedmessages

Is your obsession based on love? Or a powerful desire fueled by ‘hope.' Knowing this distinction saves heartache and creates serenity. #love #hope #newrelationships #attraction #chemistry #obsession

Are you trying to be at peace with settling for a ‘friend with benefits' situation (when what you really want is a ‘relationship')? Here's your next move: #FWB #datingadvice #friendwithbenefits

They loved you, then left you. This extreme change of heart leaves you wondering… was it ALL an act? Here's what really happened: #breakups #dumped #hotandcold  #ghosted

Are you struggling with feelings of jealousy and insecurity due to your undefined relationship? Here's how to regain your composure and confidence: #situationship #insecure #jealous #undefinedrelationship

Your date is holding back despite intense mutual chemistry. What does this mean? Is it a game? A test? Or the foundation for a meaningful partnership? #Chemistry #HoldingBack #DatingAdvice #DatingGames

Attraction. Desire. Obsession. Ah yes… the lover like quicksand who pulls you in beyond your control. You know the pattern. But do you know how to escape the loop? #obsession #quicksand #attraction

Do you feel incomplete without a partner? Are you seeking love outside of yourself, to love yourself? Here's how to attain confidence and self-love, THEN a partner: #obsession #attraction #incomplete

Can't get over the person who love-bombed you? Tried ‘no contact,' but it's still not working? Here's how to break free from this type of obsession: #NoContact, #obsession, #lovebombing, #breakups

You took your partner for granted. Now they're gone and you're tormented with regret. How can you get them back? #breakups #guilt #blame #ex

Wondering what factors establish the perception of a ‘high value' ? Here's how the process of overvaluing or undervaluing a partner occurs: #highvalue #datingadvice #worth 

You've got a great partner. Everything's good…except you're not attracted. Can this (and should this) be fixed? Find out: #attraction #chemistry #datingadvice

One minute they love you. The next, they dump you. Why? They “don't want to hurt you.” What does that mean? #dumped #breakups #hotandcold #datingadvice

Do ultimatums work? And if so, when should you use them? Here's the best way to get the answers you need: #datingadvice #communication #couplesgoals #TheUltimatum #Netflix #NickLachey #marriage #commitmen

Frustrated (and exasperated) over not being able to shake off your ex? Still can't free yourself from obsession, craving your partner, and the ‘dream?' You can disconnect by doing this: #obsession #ex #dream

Are you tired of hearing people preach the need for self-love before you'll find love? While it's preferable to love yourself, the recalibration you need may be that of mindset and simple mechanics: #selflove #mindset #datingadvice

You've seen your partner regularly for months. They've met your friends and family and talk of your future. Then, you discover they're dating others. Here's what happened and here's your next move: #player #datinggames #commitment #DTR

‘Praisebombing' is my term for a side door seduction technique to gain your attention (and affection) through excessive praise. Done in a non-dating environment, it creates attraction and receptivity to the praise bomber: #praisebombing #datingterm

The ex that dumped you makes contact and shows interest. Is this a game, or do they have a genuine change of heart? Here's how to decode this unexpected flirtation: #breakups #contact #ex

      Who decided the breakup was a good idea “for you both?” Was it for your benefit, or theirs? Here's the distinction between a preemptive dump and benevolent choice. #breakup #preemptivedump