The Sensible Split

Are you delaying scheduling that first consultation with a divorce lawyer because reaching out for help would mean the marriage is definitely over? This is a common experience. However, even at the early stages of your divorce, even if it feels like you haven't fully made up your mind, you need a professional perspective as soon as possible.   Tune in this week to discover why seeking professional...

During your divorce, you will probably find yourself acting in a way that doesn't feel like who you really are, and certainly not who you want to be. So, what do you do when you're showing up in ways you're not 100% happy with or proud of? You don't have to shame or blame yourself.   This week, discover how divorce-related anxiety is showing up in your behavior, and how to stop judging yourself fo...

If you want to reach a successful conclusion to your divorce, knowing your values is essential. Divorce is both mentally and emotionally challenging, and anchoring yourself to your values stops you from getting swept up in all of it.   Discover the emotions and biases that can drive poor decisions, increasing conflict, and legal fees during the divorce process. You'll learn why your values should...

When going through a divorce, you're faced with decisions at every turn along the way. Some are small decisions, some are huge and have a wide-reaching impact. If not knowing whether you're making the right decision has you stuck in decision-making limbo, today's episode is for you.   Worrying about making the wrong decision is keeping you stuck, asking for everyone's opinions, and never really ge...

It's possible to get an outcome from mediation that suits everybody in the family's needs without having a lawyer present. However, there are four common mistakes I see people making when they take on their own divorce mediation, so today I'm showing you how to avoid these mistakes in your own divorce, so you don't have to deal with the cost and hassle of correcting them later.   Discover four div...

Did you know that you have several options when it comes to handling the divorce legal process? Choosing the right path for the legal process can have huge consequences on the impact of the divorce on your well-being, your wallet, your kids, and your future, so you want to make sure to get it right. But how exactly do you do that?   Learn more about each of the different process options available...

Divorce brings with it big and unexpected challenges, but making positive, intentional changes as you move through your divorce allows you to create a life that truly feels better. Today, I'm sharing a process you can use yourself to live a more fulfilling life in 2024.   Tune in this week to discover 3 steps to living a more fulfilling life in 2024. I'm diving into how to get curious and intentio...

In the early stages of the divorce process, you might have thoughts like, "I don't know where to start." "What should I tell the kids?" "Can I keep the house?" "Can I even afford a lawyer?" These are the kinds of thoughts that create the emotions of fear, stress, and overwhelm, none of which any of us want to feel. So, what can you do to reduce your overwhelm and start focusing on reaching the bes...

Divorce doesn't work like it does in the movies, it's hard work and you'll have tough decisions to make every step of the way. That's where a divorce coach comes in. In today's episode, I'm sharing some of the options you may never have realized were on the table for getting the ball rolling with your divorce.   Find out how a divorce coach can save you money, time, and energy as you navigate the...

Anxiety around moving forward with your divorce is normal. You're making a big change, and that brings on feelings of uncertainty. You're unsure of the exact legal process, you don't know what your life could look like post-divorce, and you might have doubts about whether you're making the right decision.    Tune in today to discover how to start reducing your divorce anxiety. I'm discussing how t...

Deciding to divorce is a big step. It's a decision that doesn't come lightly and one that you have probably thought about for quite some time. But what about when you think you've finally decided to move forward? What's next? With all that is at stake, you want to make sure you get it right. But you're flooded with intense emotions, facing a daunting and unfamiliar legal process, and have the comp...