The Sage_be_me Podcast

The Paradox of Being a Good Person | Dostoevsky’s Warning to the WorldIn this video, we explore one of life’s most uncomfortable dilemmas: what happens when someone tries to be genuinely good in a world that often rewards strategy, appearances, and self-interest. Inspired by Dostoevsky’s ideas, we reflect on the paradox of goodness and why truly decent people sometimes feel out of place, misunders...

The Father Figure Effect Few relationships shape us as deeply as the relationship we have—or don't have—with a father figure. In this episode, we dive into the critical role fathers play in society and how their presence, absence, or influence can impact the development of both boys and girls. We explore how childhood experiences with fathers often shape expectations of love, trust, commitment...

What if purpose isn't something you discover, but something that can only be understood in hindsight? In this thought-provoking conversation, we explore the possibility that most people never fully know their purpose while they're living it. We chase goals, make choices, impact lives, and navigate uncertainty without a clear map. But perhaps purpose isn't measured by what we think we&#...

In this episode, we talk about the importance of thinking for yourself and staying aware of your own actions, emotions, and motivations. In a world full of online influence, trends, and pressure to fit in, it’s easy to follow people blindly without questioning why. We discuss being true to yourself even in situations where you may not be fully honest with others because self-awareness matters more...

Your life runs on an invisible engine: your self-image. In this deep dive into Maxwell Maltz’s New Psycho-Cybernetics, we uncover how your brain can’t tell the difference between real and imagined, why failure is just feedback, and how visualization hijacks your nervous system to create success—or sabotage it. From childhood coding to perfectionism, scars that reshape identity, and the hidden hypn...

Your mind is not random: it runs on hidden codes, scripts, and mechanisms that shape everything you think, feel, and do. Most of these programs were written long before you had a choice, and they continue to run in the background, influencing your identity, your success, and even your idea of happiness. In this talk, we uncover the invisible engine behind your reality: why your brain can’t tell th...

This in-depth guide helps you identify the psychological manipulation techniques that can undermine your self-trust and emotional well-being. 00:00 - What Is Future Faking? 03:42 - The Trap of Hope and Empty Promises 03:54 - What Is Stonewalling? 07:06 - The Psychological Toll of Stonewalling 08:26 - Understanding Gaslighting 11:01 - How Gaslighting Destroys Self-Trust 12:24 - Escaping the Gasligh...

Expand your mind while you sleep—subscribe!🌟 0:00 – Name Your Inner Critic 1:50 – Use the “Because” Trick 3:40 – Do Tasks Poorly on Purpose 5:31 – Reverse Psychology on Yourself 7:23 – The 90-Second Emotion Rule 9:17 – Change Location to Change Thought 11:17 – Decision Fatigue Fix 13:03 – Echo Technique for Conflict 15:01 – Visualize the Worst, Then Solve It 16:50 – Say “I’m Excited” Instead of N...

0:00 — Ben Franklin Effect 2:40 — Triangulation 5:02 — Negative Reinforcement Loop 5:39 — Intermittent Reinforcement 8:10 — Covert Contracts 10:50 — Foot-in-the-Mouth Technique 13:27 — Reverse Psychology (Inversion) 16:08 — Gaslighting by Omission 18:42 — Semantic Infiltration 21:17 — Boundary Erosion 24:06 — Love Bombing 26:40 — Information Withholding 29:14 — Guilt Tripping 31:56 — Push-Pull (Di...

In this episode, we dig into the unspoken stress men carry — especially when they’re in relationships. It’s not about blaming women. It’s about owning up. We explore how vulnerability shows up when you're broke, unsure, or feeling unseen… and why, even in love, a man has to lead himself first. Because at the end of the day: You want peace? You build it. You want love? You hold it down. No one’...

In today’s episode, we dive into a rarely discussed truth: even in healthy, peaceful relationships, many men feel a silent pressure. Not because the relationship is bad. But because it’s good . When things are calm, loving, and wholesome, the discomfort doesn’t always disappear—instead, it gets louder. Why? Because peace requires presence. Stability demands emotional leadership. A wholesome relati...

Welcome to the deep end—where adulting hits hard and the ocean isn't full of fish… it's full of sharks and freaks. In this raw episode, I unpack the brutal truth about financial survival when you're broke, jobless, and out of clients. We dive into the rising pressure of bills, the mental weight of expectations, and the real fear of staying stuck. But it’s not all gloom—I also show you...

After nearly a year off the mic, we're back—and what a year it’s been. From CBEX, the crypto scam that left thousands burned, to Shenseea’s no-show concert that had fans fuming, to mass protests that turned into mayhem, 2024 was anything but quiet in Kenya. We talk: The rise and fall of CBEX—was it ever legit? The Shenseea saga—why she never hit the stage in Nairobi The death of the Pope and g...

The ultimate podcast where no topic is off-limits and the conversations are as real as they get. Hosted by the dynamic Sagebeme, this show features an incredible lineup of 10 guys who aren't afraid to speak their minds. In each episode, Sagebeme and his diverse crew dive deep into the hottest topics in modern relationships. From the intricate debates over sexual body count to the nerve-wrackin...

Well I don't know how we got to talking about going out to drink but well that's what we have on the table enjoy

Well this week we've been talking bout men's grooming but yet again we went a little bit in depth and we just couldn't stop till I told them we don't have the time. People got really angry because they had so much to say we didn't talk much but we did enough.

Delve into the complexities of navigating a female-empowered community as a man in this thought-provoking podcast episode. Join us as we explore the shifting dynamics, challenges, and opportunities faced by men in today's society. From understanding gender roles to fostering inclusivity and mutual respect, we tackle tough questions and share practical insights for men striving to thrive in an...

In this crucial episode of Sagebeme Podcast, we address a pressing concern that has been haunting our society — the alarming rise in cases of femicide. The safety of women is not just a women's issue; it's a societal concern that demands urgent attention. We understand that not every woman may be fully aware or engaged in the gravity of this situation, and that's why this episode is de...

Embark on a unique and unexpected journey with our latest podcast episode, "From Grapevines to the Soul's Vineyard." What began as a casual conversation about the intricacies of grape cultivation and the art of winemaking took an intriguing turn into the realm of spirituality. Join us as we uncork the secrets hidden within the grapevines and explore the parallels between the growth o...

Unlock the secrets of manhood in our enlightening podcast series as we explore the intriguing question, 'Who is a man?' Delve into conversations that dissect the complexities of masculinity, featuring diverse perspectives and thought-provoking insights. Join us on a journey of self-discovery, societal reflections, and personal growth. Whether you're navigating the challenges of modern...

Embark on a transformative journey to unravel the intricacies of money and discover the secrets to achieving genuine wealth, transcending the mere pursuit of riches. In this insightful podcast, we delve into the fundamental principles of wealth creation, exploring the nuances of key financial terms and uncovering strategies that defy traditional notions of getting rich. Uncover the Secrets to True...

Brace yourself for an unfiltered ride through the wild world of first dates in this explosive podcast. In one unforgettable episode, tensions escalate as two women's paths cross, nearly resulting in an unexpected showdown. Dive into the drama, laughter, and unexpected twists that make every first date an unpredictable adventure. Subscribe now to witness the real, unscripted chaos that happens...

In this special episode of the "Normal Disease Podcast," we dive deep into the transformative power of financial self-care and the invaluable virtue of patience. Join us as we explore how nurturing your own financial health is not only a path to prosperity for yourself but also a means to better support those around you. Learn practical strategies for cultivating patience in your financi...

Embark on a financial journey with us in our inaugural episode, "Demystifying Money: An Introduction to Finance for Beginners". We kickstart this enlightening series by breaking down the fundamental concepts of money and finance, ensuring that everyone, from novices to seasoned investors, has a solid foundation to build upon. In this episode, our hosts unravel the multifaceted nature of...

The first year after finishing highschool was really weird : We ended up having the most memorable and amazing time of our lives so in this episode we get you to discover how the experience was for the 2 of us