The Messy Inbetween

Long time no dilemma episode… but we’re back🤩. And this one? It’s one of those episodes that stays with you🫂. We love doing dilemma episodes because one story is rarely just one story. What one person is going through is often something so many others are quietly dealing with too. So every time we talk through one, we’re holding space for more people than you think. Today’s episode is a heavy on...

Unlock your personalized roadmap to sexual fulfillment: https://beduc.at/bg2624-tmipodcast Happy Friday🤩🤩!Eeeey Inbetweeners😌...Who are you guys dating though? We asked you on Instagram to finish the sentence “My sexual partner once told me…” and wow… the submissions? Wild 😭. But also, small reminder: talk back. If he says “today you’re dry” … ask him, “so what are YOU going to do about that?”...

Happy Episode Day! 🤩 Last week’s episode had y’all triggered but we’re not getting into that today👀. Women, what don’t we get enough credit for? EVERYTHINGGGGGGG. The PMS, the period itself, the cramps, pregnancy and the pressure to “bounce back.” The list is never ending for sure. What did we miss? Feel free to drop it in the comments below 👇🏽 Dusit Princess Nairobi is becoming a regular at t...

Happy Easter Weekend, Inbetweeners🐰🤩🎉. Your weekend is already sorted because we have a brand new episode out today🥳. We filmed this one at the beautiful Dusit Princess Nairobi in Westlands. The hotel is stunning, the rooms are spacious, and they have a heated pool, a well-equipped gym, and restaurants with really great food. Now, onto today’s episode…You might be wondering: What don’t men get...

Unlock your personalized roadmap to sexual fulfillment: https://beducate.me/bg2612-tmipodcast Let's get out of the ordinary and into the unexplored path ways to pleasure... Staying naked more often! That does some magic on unlocking your relationship with your body and your self in general. Another one, incorporating sex toys that you can use with your partner, the gym...you all know what they...

Happy Friday, Eid Mubarak to all our Muslim Ibetweeners🥳🌙We hope you’re having a really soft, beautiful day. Let’s get into today’s conversation… There are still things we’re figuring out in our 30s. It might not always look like it, but trust us… there’s a lot we haven’t quite cracked yet. Even our moms, despite their age and experience, are still figuring some things out too, the journey doesn...

Happy Friday Inbetweeners🤩. Let’s talk about the toy drawer💦👀... Where do you actually draw the line? In this episode we share our sex toy stories, how we first discovered them, what the experience has been like for us, and the boundaries we have had to set so that pleasure does not turn into dependency. We had this conversation with the one and only Bev Munga, thee Vibrating Lawyer and founder...

Good afternoonnn, It’s lunchtimeee and TMIII just dropped a new oneeee🎶🎵 Flow with u💃💃 Anyway, Happy International Women’s Day, Queenbetweeners. Our true ride-or-dies, thank you for being such an integral part of our movement… The Messy Inbetween. We appreciate and love you so much❤️.In line with this year’s IWD theme, Give to Gain, it truly melts our hearts when you DM or comment about how yo...

It’s definitely… TMI Fridaysssss 🤩🤩 New episode. New montage. And yes...we finally delivered the new montage we’ve been promising 💃💃(For the audio gang, its on our YouTube) On today’s episode, we’re answering some of the questions you sent us on Instagram. Also… can we talk about Messy Mondays for a second? First of all, thank you to everyone who participates. Some of your submissions are wild...

Your daily dose of happiness is here! TMI FRIDAYSSS🤩🤩.Today’s agenda? Unhinged Feminine Beauty Hacks. And listen… some of them are wild. For example...Speaking affirmations to your water before you drink it, marrying the right person(apparently stress = wrinkles 😭), good sleep, eating your vegetables and adding a perfume oil to your Nivea Nourishing Cocoa - you skin will smell absolutely delici...

Unlock your personalized roadmap to sexual fulfillment. Take the quiz: https://beducate.me/bg2608-tmipodcast Happy Valentine’s❤️. How are you spending yours? Date night with your manz? Galentines? Or you and your popcorn catching feelings over strangers on the internet🤭? In case you missed it, Friday is the new Wednesday. We’ve officially moved our episode drops to Fridays. Today’s episode is abo...

Surpriseeeee🤩🎉 No, you're not dreaming , it’s actually a new episode, dropping on a Friday! Hey Inbetweeners! Happy New Year 🥂 How have you been? We missed you so much during our two-month break, so we decided to come back quietly with a likkle sumn’. This is our first episode of the year and we’re talking 2026 ins and outs — paced productivity, dating 👀, gatekeeping, delusion (girls, get...

The last episode of 2025! We did it, Inbetweeners! Happy Wednesday and welcome to our final episode of the year. What. A. Year. We’ve both had our fair share of lows including losing loved ones and some really beautiful highs. Jo launched her lip product business (The Lip Tribe!) and stepped into such a gorgeous era. Lyd ran a whole 10km, celebrated life, and held onto friendships that truly showe...

Get your annual Beducated subscription for just $69 this November! LINK TO THE DISCOUNT: https://beducate.me/bg2522-tmipodcast Coupon Code: tmipodcast69 Climaxing together in one minute, falling in love in two days… umm, absolutely not. Today we’re talking about the things movies sell to us as romantic but are actually red flags in real life or just don’t happen. The window-throwing declarations o...

Get your annual Beducated subscription for just $69 this November! LINK TO THE DISCOUNT: https://beducate.me/bg2542-tmipodcast Coupon Code: tmipodcast69 Happy Wednesday Inbetweeners! Less penetration, more everything else — spanking, choking, toys 👀 In the spirit of Black November, we’re getting real about the things we’re doing less of and what we’re doing more of in relationships, friendships,...

200 episodes in the bag💼🤩✨We did that!🥰
The giveaway post goes up on our Instagram this week, so keep an eye out and make sure you participate. This week, we’re continuing the conversation on canon events that shape you as a woman, from the boyfriend who was secretly your biggest hater, to the friendship that ended and took a chunk of you with it, to landing your first big girl job. We hope yo...

Your weekly source of joy is here! Happy Happy Wednesday! We’re talking about the canon events that shaped us as women — the moments that completely changed how we see the world. From realizing that what happened to you was actually sexual assault, to that sudden frontal lobe upgrade that, interestingly for us, came in our 30s, and even that situationship that almost finished you. Tell us in the c...

Get 50% OFF your annual subscription on Beducated! LINK TO THE DISCOUNT: https://beducate.me/bg2538-tmipodcast Coupon Code: tmipodcast We’ve always thought cheating was the biggest relationship destroyer but baby, there’s a lot more shaking things up nowadays. From addiction and neglect to lack of consideration and self-awareness, the list goes on. In this episode, we’re unpacking some of the real...

Happy Wednesday, Inbetweeners! You guys sent us so many questions after our “Stranger Removal” episode and we heard you❤ This week, we’re answering some of them and breaking down some of the biggest myths around abortion. To help us unpack your questions, we sat down with Dr. John Nyamu, a consultant obstetrician and gynaecologist with over 30 years of experience. From myths and misconceptions to...

Hey Inbetweeners💖 We missed you last week but guess what… we’re back with another banger 🎉 This time we’re talking about the things that can completely ruin a date. Like imagine pulling up cute and ready only for him to ask you to pay for your own meal 🍽️😩 or spend the whole date talking about his ex 🚩 Snacks in hand because this one is an episode you don’t want to miss 🍿✨ And tell us in the...

Let’s talk situationshipssss! The real pandemic among the youth 🤣. On this episode we’re getting into the tea: what actually makes a situationship different from a relationship or FWB, plus the unspoken rules (like knowing it’s time-limited, and safe sex is a must 👀). We are doing the work of saving y'all from..."I said I was not looking for something serious from the beginning" text from you si...

Get 50% OFF your annual subscription on Beducated! LINK TO THE DISCOUNT: https://beducate.me/bg2534-tmipodcast Coupon Code: tmipodcast ✨ Happy Wednesday, Inbetweeners! ✨ We recently asked you on our Instagram: “What’s one thing you’d change about your current sex life?” and whew🥲the answers told us one thing loud and clear… most of us aren’t exactly thrilled in the bedroom 👀. Truth is, it’s no...

“CTRL+Z” aka abortion...That’s the conversation on today's episode. Recent trends show just how alarming the rate of unsafe abortions in Kenya is, some even calling it “stranger removal.” In this episode, we’re shining a light on the realities behind this, from the education gap in our society, like using morning-after pills as contraception to trying dangerous DIY methods… it’s messy, it’s scary,...

It’s TMI Wednesday✨ Today we’re reacting to your comments from episode 190: Life is Messy. You guys shared what life is teaching you, from learning to slow down, to trusting that things will always work out and honestly, we had the best time reading through them🫶🏽 Enjoy the episode & we'll see you on Saturday in your beautiful pink outfits🩷 Link to buy tickets: https://sps.hustlesasa.shop/...

It’s been a minute since we did a dilemma episode, but the wait is over! First, thank you for being so open with us—sharing your dilemmas really helps us figure out what conversations we need to lean into more. Got a dilemma? Slide into our DMs! We might reply to you directly, share it (anonymously, of course) on our stories—with your go-ahead—or even bring it up in an episode. Link to Lyd's thera...