The Fly Black Widow

Some changes don’t happen all at once—they settle in quietly, until one day everything feels different. In this episode of  The Fly Black Widow , I reflect on our move to Atlanta and what it meant to step into a life that didn’t fully feel like mine. While he found community, recognition, and success, I found myself navigating isolation, frustration, and a growing sense of distance within our marr...

The word "yes" doesn't just answer a question. It can begin a new life. In this episode of The Fly Black Widow, I share the story of our Thanksgiving Day proposal, the excitement and anticipation of planning a wedding, and the leap of faith it took to move to Tampa to start building a life together. From saying yes to becoming a wife, this chapter reflects on love, commitment, accepting an unwante...

In this episode of  The Fly Black Widow , I share how connection turned into commitment. What began as a meeting in New Orleans became a decision to build something real — across cities, airports, and long conversations about the future. I walk through how I chose to begin the relationship, the rhythm of traveling between New Orleans and Tampa, and the moments that made long-distance love feel wor...

In this episode of  The Fly Black Widow , I return to the city where everything began — New Orleans during Essence Fest — full of music, movement, and possibility. I share who I was before we met, the energy of that weekend, and the welcome party where a simple introduction turned into something more. What followed was the start of a long-distance love story built on hope, intention, and belief. T...

Welcome to  The Fly Black Widow . This episode introduces the heart behind the podcast and the journey that led me here. I share why I’m telling my story, how becoming a widow at 33 reshaped everything I thought I knew about love and marriage, and why this space exists—for honesty, reflection, and healing. The Fly Black Widow  is a podcast about life, love, loss, and forgiveness. It’s about what h...