The D.I.L.F. Show

As parents, we are so critical of ourselves, our actions, and the outcomes of our children.  In the moment, however, we forget one crucial defining piece of information - parenting is not only one job but MANY, constantly evolving jobs. Taking the time to reset our brains is essential to be present and at our best in the moment with our little ones. I also share a story about "Paw Patrol&quot...

Oh man...dad brain on full display in this episode. Here, we cover a myriad of topics in no particular order, ranging from: - How your seemingly "good" intentions can backfire - When you get enough sleep, but your toddler comes in HOT and on a mission of destruction - Sleep cycles, and how trying to control them are a lost cause - And a number of random stories of the fuzzy father brain...

On this episode, we remember 9/11 - however, we take a different perspective on how we can use these types of tragedies to learn and become better down the road. Not to make the same mistakes. I open with a funny story about a YouTuber commenting on my hair, and we touch on lots of hard-hitting topics surrounding the aftermath of 9/11, school shootings, and being a parent in the modern day. Lots t...

On this episode, I dive back into the world of being a parent to a newborn child - except this time, I recall everything I forgot about the first time around! Listen in as we chat about endless poopy diapers, the signature moments found in the seemingly tiniest events, and we might get interrupted by family dinner time. I also tell an amazing story about my son finding a "grotesque" defo...

We are fresh and back at it after a week off! On this week's episode, we dive into one of the most fun parts of having an active toddler - playing games!  We discuss 5 essential games that all parents should know (and take seriously for the development of their kiddos). Some games are either too much fun to pass up, or provide amazing opportunities for your child to develop life skills proact...

On this episode, we dive into the discussion of redirections - getting your child to do something else when they begin an activity that is "bad" or "wrong."  There are two sides to this debate, and we cover both sides to determine whether or not you should be using redirections in your daily lives with your kids. I touch upon the MOST ANNOYING habit our toddler has at this poin...

On this episode, we talk about something all parents look forward to as soon as they have figured out the routine with their children - VACATION TIME! We dive into some tips on how to build a successful trip with your kiddos and friends/family, including how to avoid the "wild cards" who could blow up the trip with one drunken rant. We also talk about how to extend a little effort in ord...

On this episode, we dive into the mind of a 10-year old. A time in our lives many of us forgotten, Aiden Fallier joins us to chat about kids from his perspective, what the "hype" of the times entails, what it means to "flex," and breaks down what parents these days just don't understand. Finally, he schools us on what the best energy drink is out there. Always nice to have...

On this episode, we dive into the topic of what it's like to now be a "girl dad." I talk about some small wins over the past month, how are family is constantly evolving (for the better), what we are looking forward to down the road, and how I am getting beat up daily by my rough and tumble little dude. Food for thought to close this one out: As a parent, how are you evolving and ge...

On this episode, we dive into the annoying world of parenting clichés. We touch on conversations you need to be preapred to have with other parents, mind-numbing comments from family, friends and the peanut gallery, and close out with some sayings that hold merit regarding the growth of your children. Most people are trying to help, but end up throwing gas on the fire with clichéd and burned-out s...

On this episode, we discuss three helpful tactics on how we prepared our oldest child for the arrival of our newest child. Making sure you communicate to them openly and honestly is critical, and it also can't hurt to have some visual aids and funny stories ready to go. We also talk about the evolving nature of your family dynamic, and I close with just how impactful baby girl has already bee...

On this episode, we welcome a brand new member into the Christopher Family - Alina Kathleen! Born On June 13 at 10:55am, Alina is already stealing our hearts. We discuss the changes in the day-to-day routine, how Arlo has reacted to becoming a big brother, that having grandparents in-house is key (and they WANT to help!), and how to prepare yourself for the wonderful arrival of your second child....

On this episode, we are graced by the presence of the wonderful, gorgeous, and supremely successful Dr. Julia Christopher! Just HOURS before we go in for her scheduled C-Section, Julia and I talk about how to best prepare for baby coming in, what needs to be inside your own "GO bag," and we share a few laughs on the gowns and items to be worn inside the hospital. A fresh take in perspect...

On this episode, we tackle the daunting task of mastering a consistent and reliable bedtime routine. It isn't easy, but with dedicated effort, paying attention to your child's cues and repeating the cycle over-and-over again, it doesn't have to be as bad as we make it out to be in our heads. We talk about tips for success, our personal routine, as well as obstacles you will encounte...

On this episode, we dive into the wonderful world of Disney - the massively profound (and often times pervasive) impact it has had on all our lives, and how it creates a generational bridge within families. We dive deep into various films, I recount my run in with Jonathan Taylor-Thomas (aka "Baby Simba"), discuss how cool it is to have this unifying element in our lives, and I share wit...

On this episode, we look at the unyielding and often hilarious irrationality of our children. Up is down. Left is right. I want cake, but I'm going to cry when you give it to me. We discuss tips on how to handle these irrational behaviors, and rely on our routines to "Keep It Simple, Stupid." Most logical explanation wins out. Music: Carefree Claps Musician: REDproductions Contact M...

Happy Mother's Day! On this episode, we talk about the real heroes out there - mothers. I share some stories about my mom and other motherly figures who have played a massive role in the person I am today. I share a story about a low moment in my early adulthood, and share gratitude for all you moms out there crushing it. Music: Carefree Claps Musician: REDproductions Contact Me Follow me on...

On this episode, we talk about the heart of any healthy relationship - succeeding at fantasy sports. We dive deep into how having a baby helped me (and Julia) win our fantasy football leagues. The dark underbelly of early morning waiver wire pickups, extensive research, and s***-talking each other are covered. We also talk about Arlo's quest for a hot dog. Music: Carefree Claps Musician: REDp...

On this episode, we address the desire to "just be left alone." Overwhelm and constantly being tugged in different directions can lead to stress and anxiety, but part of the learning curve involves acknowledging that your routine has to change. You don't need to sacrifice your "non-negotiables," however you need to build that time somewhere else into your day rather than s...

On this episode, we settle the debate once and for all - what is the BEST cheeseburger out there? In-n-Out, Five Guys, or Shake Shack?!? We also dive in to fitness hacks for new parents/parents on the go, as well as the sacrifices you need to make in order to best serve your fitness goals. Jam-packed episode here - let's dive in. Music: Carefree Claps Musician: REDproductions Contact Me Follo...

Snackisode for you all - "Wipe the Butt" as sung to the harmony of Michael Jackson's "Heal the World." You're welcome. "Wipe the butt Make it a cleaner place For poo and for pee and the entire baby race There are...babies crying If we care enough for their poopies Make a cleaner place for poo and for pee Poo and for pee (outro x2)" Music: Carefree Claps Musi...

On this episode, we address an allen wrench-sized topic - the volume of baby furniture and toys we have to put together can drive us absolutely bonkers. I provide a frustration-saving tip to help avoid future woe, plus some other nuggets for what to do when shopping for these "big ticket" items. Link to Allen Wrench Hex Set on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3UIy8RT Music: Carefree Claps Musicia...

On this episode, we chat about the positives and pitfalls presented by social media for new parents. Constantly feeling inadequate and behind is what can be created by only consuming these "highlight" parenting moments, so we talk about how to identify what works for you and what you should disregard. I also talk about our favorite pizza place and one big feature where iPhone got it righ...

On this episode, we talk about surviving family holidays (by going in with the right mindset), as well as the challenges living far away from our immediate family presented in the early months of having little man. We chat Covid cons (and pros), why people dread the holidays, and I tell the infamous "plate throwing" story from deep in my family's lore. Music: Carefree Claps Musician...

Want to know the one question to ask to help you avoid all (or most) arguments with your significant other? On this episode, we discuss this alongside how to be there for your spouse/partner when they aren't being heard elsewhere. Music: Carefree Claps Musician: REDproductions Contact Me Follow me on all socials @thedilfshow Website is https://thedilfshow.com Checkout new episodes every Tuesd...