The DATEABILITY Smart Lovers Podcast

What happens if you meet "the love of your life" after you're already married? It's one of the most romanticised ideas in modern culture. Movies celebrate it. Novels glorify it. Love songs idolise it. But what happens when children, covenant, family and responsibility enter the equation? In this episode, Jess explores the life of Roald Dahl and his marriage to actress Patricia Ne...

You’ve been following the Lord for over a decade. You’re mature in your faith, and when you meet someone new, you’re excited . Maybe even thinking, Why wait? I’ve already been waiting 10+ years! But here’s the thing—jumping in too fast can lead to heartbreak or missed red flags. In this episode, I’m sharing excerpts from my e-book, The Vulnerability Modulation Handbook . This is your guide to navi...

MATCHMAKING INTEREST FORMS: MEN click here . WOMEN click here . Available to Australians only, but if you are from outside Aus you are still welcome to fill out the form. It may just take a while to find you a match :) Follow me (Jess) on IG: @_dateability Send me a DM with "READY" to ask about coaching ------------------------------------------- What are men thinking as they look for their dream...

If you are in your late 20s to early 30s, and wanting a come-to-Jesus moment about your dating journey, this episode is for you.  My guest for this podcast episode is Sarah Sibi Thomas, a Christian Counsellor from QLD, Australia who met her husband at age 31.    She is the founder of Pure Heart Therapies counselling and family therapy practice and has 2 beautiful little toddlers.    We discuss the...

Is the attachment style we inherit from childhood a life sentence?  Can we go from an Anxious or Avoidant attachment style to earning the holy grail of close connection in human relationships as an adult – earned (and learned) SECURE attachment?    Here to explore the answer to this massive question is Clinical Psychotherapist and Attachment Expert - Jennifer Nurick.   She is the founder of the  P...

When it comes to first dates... are we unintentionally being dishonest about what our CORE VALUES are?      Most people say they value the usual things – honesty, integrity, family.... but my guest today would argue that a person's TRUE values are exposed in the seemingly mundane content of their lives.       Now, how do we quantify said mundane content?      Here to show us and tell us is KEV...

Nathalie Biviano is the founder of Spine Tingling Marriage. She is a trauma-informed life coach, specialising in navigating marriage after babies. She’s also a Mama Rising Facilitator, a Certified NLP Practitioner, Matrescence activist, and a published author.   She holds a bachelor’s degree in communication.   She helps married mothers feel held, seen and supported by their husbands by releasing...

If you've had sex in the past but are re-evaluating this decision, this episode is for you. Or if you're wondering.... How do I manage my high sex drive while I'm single and wanting to save myself for marriage? How do I set boundaries with a new boyfriend and communicate respectfully that I want to wait? I go into loads of detail about this in my group coaching program ROMANTIC INTELLI...

Why do some women treat men like the enemy? Why has it become ubiquitous and almost fashionable for millennial and Gen Z women to say,   "I didn't even  want  to get married," a quote I have personally heard from various women, especially those who have already secured committed men in their lives...   Additionally, saying:  "I want to be a wife and mother to at least 3 children"  publicly as a si...

Unpopular Opinion: If you're a marriage minded single woman listening to this podcast, do NOT go for that promotion at work. At least, not just yet. "Whom you marry, and how that marriage fares, will have  the single greatest effect on your happiness and well-being  than anything else you do. It will be the axis upon which all other decisions are made." - Suzanne Venker. If you need...

Perhaps you are here because you believe that great love exists. Not just for other people, but for  you .   Why else would you be listening to this podcast? In the sacred space between you and your audio device; this here, is many years of real-life, on the ground tested research about how to date successfully, and to really  enjoy  it - as a real-deal Christian single who wants to hold on to you...