The Art of Love With Lucia

Should you break "no contact" to wish your ex a happy birthday or to give them a holiday greeting?  Will contacting them make them want to get back with you again?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why breaking "no contact" is rarely a good idea.

This week's podcast is the story of a woman who met a very eligible bachelor who was very into her but proceeded to ruin the relationship with her insecurity and anger.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia provides commentary throughout the reading of the email to point out where she went wrong and how to fix it.

Will giving flowers and gifts to your ex girlfriend make her want you back?  If not, why not?  In this podcast, dating/relationship Lucia explains what you HAVE to do in order to get your ex girlfrfiend back (hint:  It doesn't involve flowers!)

If you're jealous, does it mean you're in love?  What does it say to your partner when you're jealous of someone in their life or someone they're talking to?  In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you should never show jealousy and what to do instead.

Why do lovers often act crazy and make decisions that make no sense?  Are they under some kind of spell?  In this week's podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what's happening and what you can do to stop the crazy behavior.

Should you be friends with your ex if you want to get back with them?  Absolutely not!  In this week's podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why staying friends with your ex actually helps them move on and find someone else.

Is there something you can do that will make someone you meet or date realize that you could be "the one"?  Most people aren't doing "this" but it's extremely powerful.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the one thing you MUST do to make someone fall in love with you.

Will your ex forget about you if you don't contact them?  Will "no contact " work? In this week's podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia answers these and 3 more questions most people have about "no contact".

When it comes to dating & relationships, most people fall into 1 of 2 categories.  They either hold on too tightly or too loosely.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why the lyrics "Hold on loosely, but don't let go" is great advice when it comes to your love life.

What should you do if you find out your partner is flirtexting with members of the opposite sex?  What does it mean if they get defensive and only focus on the fact that you invaded their privacy?  In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses how to deal with this situation when they won't tell you the truth.

What should you say when the person you've recently started dating tells you they're going back with their ex?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why, if you'd like to have the possibility of dating them in the future, you should handle this situation with class.

What should you do when your partner unexpectedly moves out, says you're still a couple yet barely sees you or talks to you?  In this podcast, dating/relationship Lucia answers an email from a woman who wonders what she should do in this situation.

Not contacting an ex after a breakup is difficult at best and impossible at worst.  In this inspirational podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia reads several comments from her YouTube channel of people who maintained "no contact" and ended up hearing back from their ex.

How is your relationship with your car similar to a romantic relationship?  What makes you start to think about changing cars, or partners?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains, with tongue in cheek, why losing trust in your car is similar to losing trust in your partner.

What should you do if your partner wants to check your phone, is jealous and thinks your clothing is too revealing?  Should you be understanding or is it time to end the relationship?  Dating/relationship Lucia expert discusses what these red flags are all symptoms of and why you need to run!

Is there ever a good reason to break no contact with an ex (unless you have children or business together)?  Will contacting them make them rethink the breakup and want to get back with you?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what really happens when you break no contact.

What should you do when someone breaks up with you but wants to remain friends?  Should you continue to see them or stop all contact?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals if and when you should let go of an ex.

Why does online dating seem to be so difficult these days?  Why do people you're chatting with disappear, seemingly without reason?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how Tinder drastically changed the dating scene and how the "swiping" culture can be fixed.

Did you know that not every breakup is real?  Sometimes, when someone breaks up with you, it's because they want to shake you up and see if you'll step up to the plate.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia describes the difference between a real and fake breakup.

Women are usually ready to be exclusive and to make a commitment a lot sooner than men are.  This usually leads to fights, misunderstandings and breakups.  In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the easy way to get what you want with a man.

When you first start to date someone, the only thing you should be focused on is raising their "interest level" in you, and everything else will take care of itself. Dating/relationship expert Lucia gives examples of what to say in order to keep things light and upbeat and in doing so, raise the interest level.

When someone breaks up with you, is it better to unfollow/unfriend them on social media or should you keep them on your pages?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses the benefits of both choices and what you should do if your goal is to get back with your ex.

What is the definition of confrontation?  Is it possible to confront someone without having them get defensive?  In this week's podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals how to express your feelings about what's going on in a way that doesn't lower interest level.

There's ever only one reason why anyone breaks up with anyone!  They may say it's something else, but any other reasons are all symptoms of this main reason.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what it is and what you can do about it in this groundbreaking podcast.

How can you tell if someone isn't that interested in you or if they're not available because they're already seeing someone?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the main difference between someone who's just not into you and someone who's just not available.