The Art of Love With Lucia

 Is your ex thinking about you after the break up? Is there any way to know if they're thinking about you or not? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 10 signs your ex is thinking about you. Get coaching!

When someone breaks up with you, it's not always a real breakup. They may be doing it as a manipulation. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what a fake breakup is and how to know if your breakup is real or fake. Get coaching.

Can you get your ex back after years apart?  Does no contact work on women? Dating/relationship expert Lucia answers these questions from emails and comments of people who used the no contact rule successfully. Get coaching here.

Will no contact work after multiple break ups, if you weren't even in a relationship? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads an email from a woman who was finally able to get a commitment after using the no contact rule. Get coaching!

If you're in no contact long enough, at some point you'll be tempted to break it.  How you handle that moment may mean the difference between getting your ex back or living in regret.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what will make you want to break no contact and when you'll most likely be tempted. Get coaching!

If you're trying to get an ex back, you probably already know that you shouldn't ask your family and friends for advice, because they will always tell you to break no contact. There's also someone else you shouldn't take advice from after a breakup. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the one person you should not go to for help in getting your ex back, and who to listen to instead. Get coach...

Is your ex really over you if you don't hear from them, or are they just putting on an act, in the hopes you'll contact them? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 12 signs your ex is only pretending to be over you. The more signs you see, the higher the chances that they are just "the great pretender", but actually miss you and maybe even want you back. Sign up for coaching.

Will no contact work on someone you were fwb with or it only works if you were exclusive? Dating/relationship expert Lucia responds to an email from a coaching client who was in a fwb relationship and wonders if he can get her back with no contact. Sign up for coaching here.

You probably already know you shouldn't answer if you're in no contact and your ex calls. However, if they don't leave a message, should you call them back? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you should never call your ex back if they don't leave a significant message. Get coaching at The Art of Love

Do you dream of your ex begging you to take them back? It's totally possible, if their interest level is high enough and you do everything correctly. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals all the steps you need to take to get your ex to come crawling back.

Is it possible to get your ex to chase you, even if they broke up with you? Yes it is! Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 4 best ways to make your ex chase you and be on the road to getting them back. Find out about coaching at:  www.theartoflove.net/coaching

There's many variables that affect whether or not you'll get your ex back. However, there's one factor that trumps everything else. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the #1 thing that determines whether your ex will come back or stay away forever. Sign up for coaching at:  http://www.theartoflove.net/coaching

Even though no contact is the best way to get your ex back, at times it's necessary to break it and contact your ex. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 10 situations where you should break no contact and reach out to your ex.

Many people have a problem with the idea of ignoring an ex they're trying to get back until they hear something significant, instead of responding to breadcrumbs. Dating/relationship expert Lucia has another success story from a woman who ignored her ex and eventually got him back. Phone/Skype coaching: http://bit.ly/TalktoLucia​​​​​

When you're going through a break up and doing no contact, you need faith to believe that in the end it will be worth it and you'll hear from your ex and possibly get back together. Dating/relationship expert Lucia is back with more no contact success stories to help you stay in no contact until you hear from your ex. Sign up for private coaching at:  http://bit.ly/TalktoLucia​​​

If you want to get your ex back, there are many reasons why following the no contact rule is your best bet.  However, it's not easy and you'll be tempted to break it many times. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the #1 reason why you must absolutely stay in no contact, no matter what. Phone/Skype Coaching  

Everyone knows that if you're dumped and your ex changes their mind and wants to get back together, it's up to them to reach out to you. However, fear of rejection and/or pride may stop them from doing that. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 10 signs your ex wants you to contact them, even though they broke up with you. Sign up for coaching at:  http://bit.ly/TalktoLucia​​

The reason your ex broke up with you is usually because their interest level in you went down. However, what causes someone to lose attraction and dump their partner? Using points from LMFT Tory Eletto (@nytherapist on IG), dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 9 reasons why your ex left you.

Just because you haven't heard from your ex, it doesn't mean they're over you. There are always signs that they still have feelings for you and may want to get back together. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 20 signs that your ex is not over you.

Many people don't get their exes back because their actions after the breakup push their ex even further away, instead of bringing them back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what the two factors are which determine whether or not you'll get your ex back.

If you have an anxious attachment style and pleaded with your ex, along with sending millions of texts after the breakup, is it still possible to get them back? Dating/relationship expert Lucia analyzes a break up with a woman who did all those things, yet still managed to get her ex back, along with a marriage proposal.

What is your ex thinking and feeling right after the break up? Do they feel the same after 30, 45 and 60 days of no contact? What will it take for them to reach out? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the stages a dumper goes through after the break up and how long each stage lasts.

The no contact rule isn't a cure all for every dating or relationship issue you have. It's only to be used for very specific situations, otherwise, it will backfire. Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses the situations where you should definitely not be using no contact.

Should you move on from your ex, should you write your ex a letter, how can you find out if your ex wants to get back together, is it a bad sign if your ex is mad at you? Dating/relationship expert Lucia answers all these questions and more in part 3 of No Contact Q & A.

If you're in no contact after a breakup, the chances of hearing from your ex are very high. However, in order to have the best chance at getting your ex back, you have to wait for the right time to respond. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the two things to look for, that will let you know it's the right to time to answer your ex's text or return their call