thatblackboyjoy

Tired of people-pleasing? Lordevery and Derwin King break down boundaries, self-worth, and saying “no” without guilt. Learn how Black and queer men can protect their peace, manage energy, and build relationships that actually lift them up.

In this episode, Obio Jones opens up about his recently revealed marriage and the profound impact it has had on his identity and outlook on life. Joined by hosts Lordevery and Derwin King, Obio discusses the journey of finding what he truly needs through prayer and reflection. The conversation explores themes of presence, kindness, and the transformative power of love. Obio shares insights into ba...

This week, Lord Devery and Derwin King dive into the chaos and comedy of nightlife etiquette (including the mystery and mess of “bottle wars”). Derwin opens up about navigating sobriety in spaces that do not always make it easy, and what that journey looks like for them. They also unpack the latest drama from  The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City  (because of course they do). It is a little shade...

In this episode of t hatblackboyjoy. , Derwin and Lord Devery sit down with filmmaker  Tasheem Ingram  to discuss his powerful new short film,  Just Us Two . Shot entirely on an iPhone and presented in striking black-and-white, the film follows a newly married Black gay couple as they navigate the intersections of love, mental health, and family expectations. Tune in for an episode filled with ins...

In this episode, your hosts Derwin King and Lord Devery sit down with partners in life and business,  Orlando Whigham and Troy Barnes , the co-owners of  Mirror Image Photo Booths . Together, they reflect on what it means to build a brand and a relationship rooted in trust, creativity, and authenticity.

In this episode, lordevery and derwin king sit down with rapper and songwriter LYRICALMAR to talk about artistry, authenticity, and standing in your truth. from growing up in DC to redefining what black joy and luxury sound like, LYRICALMAR opens up about creativity, confidence, and living fully in “I Am Here Now.”

In this episode, Lord Devery and Derwin King lean into the realities of transition, change, and the radical act of rest. The hosts share personal reflections on how they’ve experienced seasons of uncertainty and what it looks like to shift the narrative — from fear and loss to preparation and transformation. This conversation explores how Black men, especially in queer community, can reclaim rest...

In this episode, Derwin and Lord Devery have a candid conversation about Derwin’s recent breakup and what it taught him about presence, heartbreak, and growth. Through vulnerability and critical reflection, they unpack how breakups can become powerful teachers when we resist the urge to suppress emotions and instead stay grounded in  “I Am Here Now.”

In this season opener, your hosts Lord Devery and Derwin King catch up as they recount this summer's challenges and successes. They also introduce the theme of the season, "I Am Here Now," a reminder to stay present as we become our truest selves through the growth process.

Your hosts Lord Devery and Derwin King talk Karen Huger's shocking verdict, the art of Black queer/trans/non-binary storytelling, and so much more with guest, Darius Caffey of The Closet Unlocked!

your hosts Lord Devery and Derwin King kiki with special guest, Kyle Price, and chat about a journey into one's fullest self on the path of purpose and divine placement.

in this special collaborative episode, your hosts Lord Devery and Derwin King kiki with Lamont Baldwin to dish on dating woes, wonders, and wishes. it's hella funny, hella cute, and hella Black!

Tis the season for some of ThatBlackBoyJoy! Your cohosts Lord Devery and Derwin King hold space for Black queer creatives with special guest Rian-Louis of RainOutLoud.

Your hosts Lord Devery and Derwin King discuss the final results of the general election and explore ways to make it to the other side of a declining democracy.

Your hosts Lord Devery and Derwin King explore the possibility of friendship after a failed romance and if the friend zone is a safe zone. There's also plenty of talk about putting things inside of orifices, so you know... be prepared for that.

Your cohosts Lord Devery and Derwin King take a look at influential depictions of Black men throughout history, ponder on the effects of Black queer representation in film and television, and choose their ideal tv dads.

Lord Devery and Derwin King discuss the DNC, Beywhiskey, and good booty!

Yours hosts Lord Devery and Derwin King take an honest and deep dive into the issue of trust in relationships and also men in red dresses? check out this entertaining opening to 9th season of ThatBlackBoyJoy

Lord Devery & Derwin King their fears, hopes, and experiences around family planning as queer Black men, as well as the college encampments sweeping the nation!

Co-hosts Lord Devery and Derwin King pull back the curtain on last week's conversation about safe sex spaces and discuss their personal sex preferences like the ladies from the cast of Real Housewives of Potomac. Also, is this the end of TikTok???

your hosts Lord Devery and Derwin King discuss their first thoughts on Cowboy Carter, the excitement of nudity, and the state of sexual safe places.

As Lord Devery approaches his 30th birthday, Derwin King helps him explore his thoughts and feelings around this new and exciting milestone. Also, reviews on Ariana Grande's newest album, and Cowboy Carter????

your hosts Lord Devery and Derwin King discuss the process of developing a personal relationship to truth and strengthening your intuition!

your hosts Lord Devery and Derwin King gush over Beyonce's new musical releases and explore the benefits of curiosity in childhood and how we can use it to enrich our lives in adulthood.

your hosts Lord Devery and Derwin King discuss the possibilities of community and the likelihood of going on a 72hour social media binge without it. no shade!