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This week we're joined by Alex Frankel (@alexfrankelthelionhaird) AKA the CEO of the Hot Fat Guy Club to learn more about what it's like to date as a fat man and why he thinks they're less willing to date plus size women. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We're joined by AshleyMarie Marie (@ayemarie.marie) to learn about her journey with Slow Dating! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Nicci is back on Bumble and decided to put less effort in her profile because guys are doing the bare minimum on there and Alex found a list of what men think is wrong with women in the dating world. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

During our online dating detox we've been making an effort to step out of our comfort zones to put ourself out there. It's hasn't been all success but we're learning a lot as we go! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This week we're joined by Daniela Gutierrez (@lifewithdaniela1) a plus size influencer and model to talk about dating, intimacy with yourself and her first healthy relationship. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This week we're joined by Victoria (@flyforaginger), a plus size fashion blogger that has lots of open & honest conversations with her followers about dating & sex. During our conversation we discuss online dating, bidets, advocating for yourself in the bedroom, sex toys & so much more. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/pri...

As plus size women we over compensate - in our daily life and relationships. We shouldn't have to! A Tiktok Alex found really got as thinking about why and how we can reframe our thoughts about people who are attractive to fat bodies. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We're back from summer break!! This week we're joined by plus size model & content creator, Ashley Braxton (@itsashleybraxton) to talk about what it's been like for her dating as a queer woman. We discuss everything from lesbian tiktok, not being over sexualized unlike when you're not dating a straight man and body insecurities. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/bran...

We decided to jump on the NGL trend that all over instagram stories and answered your anonymous questions! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We reflect on our first week of our dating app detox and then discuss how being rejected has been making us feel. What's worse: being rejected for your weight or your personality?  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This week we're joined by dating coach, Lily Womble (@DateBrazen) and it was a rollercoaster emotions! We discuss how to make dating an act of self care with self compassion, bragging and I am for the few not the many. Why the number game and dating apps are a scam and how to have a more joyus dating life with "thank you, more please." Lily also has all of her clients do a dating app d...

This week we're joined by Mary Fran (@itsmaryfran) to discuss fat phobia, how being comfortable in your body effects your wardrobe, the 2000's trends & diet culter and how we should normalize that it's okay if you've never been in an adult relationship. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We're joined by Jerrin Nicole (@awkwardfatgirl on tiktok) to learn about her confidence journey, talk about her dating life and gross messages from men on the internet. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Every month on our Patreon we do a Fat Chat - where we talk to you!! Since they're some of our favorite conversations we've had since starting the podcast, we thought we'd give you a taste.  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

What's the best opener on dating apps? We found a list of some real losers and then try to come up with our new go-to line! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We both had a life-changing experience when we watched the same porn video. We dig into that, our experience with porn and learn more about why people in the industry use bbw. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This is about all of the things. Alex is mad about people suggesting toxic responses to Nicci's rejection text, opening up when dating new people and a little refresher on Alex's bumble profile. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We both have dating updates that lead to a discussion about ghosting AND we give you our tips to have the best fat hot girl summer! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We're joined by Whitney Bischoff Angel, our nurse at Ova Egg Freezing!! We get a lot of questions about the egg freezing process and if our weight is a factor, so we're going straight to the source!   Use code SWIPEFAT for $100 off Ova View Testing through July. Use code SWIPEFAT for 30% off your order at dia.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https:...

We all know the "nice guys" that turned out to f*ck boys in disguise and we finally figured out how to spot them and we get dating updates for Alex. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Does the sex-positive movement alienate people who aren't sexually active? Is the next phase of sex-positivity waiting to have sex? We discuss a vogue article and how waiting to have sex can feel isolating. https://www.vogue.com/article/sex-positivity-late-in-life-virginity Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This week we're joined by Sonalee Rashatwar (@thefatsextherapist,) an award-winning clinical social worker and sex therapist. They are a superfat queer bisexual non-binary therapist and co-owner of   Radical Therapy Center , specialized in treating sexual trauma, diet trauma, racial or immigrant trauma, and South Asian family abuse, while offering fat positive sexual healthcare.  Advertising I...

A listener got us thinking about why a guy not being able to perform in the bedroom makes us so insecure and how more communication can help with that. Alex had a scratched her itch before her three upcoming dates this week & Nicci is feeling very discouraged on the apps. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We both went on first dates last week! Those dates got us thinking about eating on dates and the feelings we have about that as plus size women.  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This week we're joined by Jamie Varon (@jamievaron), who is an author and novelist, and her new book Radically Content is out on April 12th! We find out what it means to be radically content, how to find self-trust and live with intention. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy