Swipe Fat

When we started Swipe Fat four years ago we couldn't have dreamed of what it would turn into. When we met we didn't have other plus size women in our life that we could talk to about dating so we wanted to create a space for conversation that other plus size women could relate to and hopefully feel like they were sitting on the couch with us as we chronicled our dating journey. Thank you f...

One of us met flittered in the wild and got cancelled on by another date and the other one had an awkward encounter Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Nicci and Alex explore the complexities of modern dating, touching on themes such as communication challenges in dating apps, the impact of financial insecurities, and the dynamics of attraction. They discuss the importance of timing in relationships, the role of self-perception, and how past experiences shape current dating choices. The conversation also delves into the influence of family on dat...

Nicci is finally back on the apps and she has some new icks which leads to discuss the challenges of navigating dating apps, the impact of societal issues on dating, and the complexities of attraction and body image. We also touch on the influence of social media, the weirdness of online interactions, and the importance of community engagement. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands P...

If you need a break from doom scrolling - this episode is for you. This was recorded early last week before election results and is full of laughs. Enjoy. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode we discuss various aspects of dating, communication challenges, and the evolution of how people meet their partners over time and generational differences in dating behaviors. The conversation also touches on perceptions of flirting between genders and the importance of effort in relationships. We explore discuss different flirting styles, the challenges of recognizing romantic int...

In this episode we're joined my Matchmaker, Simone Grossman (@theinternetyenta) to learn all about matchmaking. She shares her journey into the world of matchmaking, discussing the evolution of dating in modern times, the impact of dating apps, and the importance of understanding client needs. The discussion delves into the challenges faced by plus-size individuals in dating, the significance...

In this episode we share life updates, including Nicci's broken fibula and Alex's exciting news about meeting someone new in real life. We discuss gaps and the implications for future relationships. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

You asked us questions and we answered. We discuss coping with heartbreak, the complexities of dating and matchmaking, and the impact of body image on self-esteem. We explore the dynamics of dating apps, friends with benefits situations, and the importance of confidence in meeting new people. The conversation also touches on societal pressures regarding body image, the journey of self-acceptance,...

Alex went to a bar and talked to men in the wild and matched with a chef! Is Nicci a top? Girls on dating apps seem to think so. "I'm a plus size so of course" trend. Body image issues. Do plus size women date less than straight-sized women? Olympics is bringing us back together. Notes from Nicci: I said omakase wrong TWICE and Ilona Mahar's last name wrong. I know. I'm mad at...

In this episode we're joined by Amanda McCracken (@amandajmccracken) to explore the topics of longing and limerence. We delve into the connection between limerence and anxious attachment, the influence of purity culture and romanticized ideals on limerence, the role of self-love in overcoming limerence and the importance of closure in moving on from past relationships. We delve into the longin...

We're backkkkkkkkk! Alex shares her dating update and reflects on her recent experience with a tour manager she was seeing. Despite promises of a future together, the communication quickly dwindled while he was away on tour. Alex confronted him about it, but his efforts to improve were short-lived. She felt disappointed and hurt by his lack of effort and unfollowed her on Instagram. Alex expre...

It's not like the radio bit - we both went on second dates and it went well??? One of us spiraled and the other is realizing that she had some pretty sh*ty expectations from past relationships and is now expecting a new bare minimum moving forward. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Nicci is breaking her 2 year dating break & Alex said ta ta Captain and started talking to a new guy. How did they go? What happened? Will there be a second date? Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This week we're joined by Erin Renzas to talk about the radical mind shift she had after a breakdown that led her to completely change her life. We discuss a lot about sense of self and the lie society pushes that losing weight will make everything better. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

It's like a carousel that never stops...we're back on the apps and Alex is going on dates! It's been awhile since it's been the two of us so we catch up and dive into passive relationships, the hill theory and all of the other advice we've seen on tiktok. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Last time we had intersectional-feminist dating coach, Lilly Womble (@datebrazen) on Nicci had a full on panic attack about deleting her dating apps. Now she's back and releasing her first book!! You can pre-order "Thank You, More Please: A Feminist Guide to Breaking Dumb Dating Rules and Finding Love" now! We learn more about her step-by-step guide to owning what you want and attracti...

This week we're joined by Hannah (@mimosasandlipstick_) to learn all about her most recent breakup with Mr. Man's. We've gotten some juicy little tidbits online and now we're finally getting the whole story. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Alex is back from Thailand so we catch up with her about her trip and her latest dating meetups and we're joined by Kayla Stansberry (@fatpositivetherapist) who is a licensed therapist that specializes in fat trauma Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This week we're joined by Datura Jonez (@daturajonez) to discuss her dating break and dating as a black, autistic woman. We also talk about passport bros and how Nicci was too busy "gardening" to go on a date. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Dating apps claim that there isn't a pretty filter but a tech investigator debunked that and Nicci got and email that should be how everyone shoots their shot online. Tiktok we're referencing: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLJcmGMT/ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This week we're joined by singer-song writer, Elle Baez to talk about her body positive anthem "I Love My Body" Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Nicci went to her first Meet IRL event and we're both can't escape pookie or the orange peel & bird theories! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In 2024 we're going back to the basics and trying to meet people in person and using our dating apps intentionally! Give yourself the gift of self pleasure with SVAKOM: https://www.svakom.com/ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We're starting the year off with Brand Director of BodCon & Shapermint and Body Positivity Coach, Gabrielle Richards to talk all things confidence. New Year, New Me bullshit, steps to gain confidence in yourself and is there even a place for body confidence in 2024? Give yourself the gift of self pleasure with SVAKOM: https://www.svakom.com/ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/bra...