SPILL THE TEA with Benjamin

This is the season finale for the season 2 of the podcast. Benjamin, the host, invited Priscilla, the scrabble champion, to spill tea about The Transition From Teenage Years To The Twenties. They talked about, the challenges of the transition, the self discovery journey, lessons learnt so far from the transition, and their interactions with the word. It a was fun and interesting conversation, lett...

On this episode, ella joined Benjamin as they discussed the aspects of self care that could help counter shege. Listen and enjoy Follow the podcast https://instagram.com/spilltheteawithbenjaminpodcast?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

On this episode, Benjamin invited Dera on the podcast, and they gisted about Dera’s comfortable single lifestyle, situationship and relationship sagas, and breakups. As Benjamin tried to discover the reasons Dera was so comfortable with being single, they had much to say, touching other aspects of the dating scene among young adults. Enjoy and subscribe/Follow the podcast Don’t forget to participa...

On this episode, the host explored the way of reasoning of a Yoruba Demon,Leke. It was a calm episode, in which leke explained to the podcast who a Yoruba demon is, and their characteristics. It was shocking to know that Yoruba demons are calm and quiet, but also demonic in nature. Leke is a proud Yoruba demon, and he shared his perception on certain things asked by the host with you. Enjoy the ep...

There’s absolutely no need to be pressurised to be in a relationship. If you haven’t found someone you can enjoy every moment with, calm down if your age permits it. You’re less than 25 and you’re bothered about relationships, really? If you’ve found a good person, good for you. If you’ve not, it’s fine. Benjamin and 3 of his friends talked about the rush into relationships, which, in most cases l...

After a very long unexpected break, the podcast is back with an amazing episode. Jumping “ship” is an activity whereby a a male or a female move from one committed “relationship” or “situationship” to another swiftly without any regard to their significant other. Kitan and Benjamin talked on this topic reflecting from their past experience and vocalising their opinions on the about topic. 🚨Listen...

On this episode, Benjamin introduced a familiar face, Kitan, as the Co-host of the podcast. They gave a course on bro code titled “Bro code 101”. The lecture went on as the boys spilled a couple of bro codes with some experiences they had. Listen and enjoy. 🚨Link to October 1st by Gambo Lee https://heylink.me/Gambolee 🚨Link to October 1st video https://www.youtube.com/@GamboLee?fbclid=PAAaZXgk73...

On this episode, Benjamin interviewed Seun Adesanya (aka The Pr Guy) on the above topic. Seun shares his story on how he achieve what he has, where he began, the struggles he faced, and how he was able to focus on his career path. We also talked about the power of focusing on a skill. 🚨If you need a social media manager, Seun is the right person! Message him on Instagram https://instagram.com/she...

Arguments, banters, laughters, scenarios and life experiences. This episode was filled with all of these characteristics. Benjamin and his guests shared their opinion on what they know Reciprocity to be. 🚨Don’t forget to subscribe/follow, rate and share while listening or after listening using the #sttwb. 🚨Follow the podcast on social media On Instagram: https://instagram.com/spilltheteawithbenj...

Have you even felt too inferior for your own good, and your confidence is no where to be found?. And you wonder if self love is being selfish. I interviewed Esther and she shared her opinion on the topic said. Be sure to follow the podcast on; Instagram https://instagram.com/spilltheteawithbenjaminpodcast?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= Twitter https://twitter.com/spillwithben?s=21&t=dzQoqrQmlz_m4Lh6OORwVQ Al...

Hey guys! Welcome to the season 1 finale of this podcast. On this episode I have Suga and Oyin as my guests. And we talked on the topic ‘Boundaries In Relationships’ - What do you understand by boundaries? - What is your perspective on boundaries? - Who are you keeping boundaries with ? - How do you set boundaries ? - Do boundaries change? All these questions and many more were carefully examined...

Hey guys, welcome to another episode of the podcast. On this episode I had two guests, Samson and Nifemi. On this episode we talked about “ prioritising your priorities”. A lot of people do not know their priorities or what is more important to them and why. As youths, we often ignore our priorities and follow other unimportant things. We need to prioritise our priorities according to orders of im...

Hey guys welcome to another episode... On this episode we talked about “Dealing with your ex’s.” Korex and Tolu joined me on this episode. First of all, this is not an advisory episode so we didn’t really do any advising. A wise person will take advices from our stories. The point of this episode is to share with you all that we all can make mistakes while dealing with our ex’s and we aren’t perfe...

On this episode, I had David aka banky to join us. And we both had a conversation about worthy and important friends. We talked about a lot of things and linked the topic to different scenarios and previous experiences. We also talked about the features of an important friend, classifying our friends to the area of importance in our life’s. We also talked about letting go of toxic and unimportant...

On this episode of the podcast, we talked about whore phase. Whore phase is mostly related with teenagers and sometimes youths. I had Kitan as my guest and we said some real truth and nothing bias. We talked about our whore phase experience, what we felt during the phase and what we felt after. We also gave some disadvantages and little bit convincing advantage. You’ll enjoy the episode, trust me....

On this episode I was joined by Ella and we talked about commitment issues and temptations. We talked about causes of commitment issues. And fear being one of the major factor. We also answered questions in our own opinion on ; commitment being a choice, if you have to be committed in a unofficial relationship and many other questions relating to the episode topic. And then we talked about temptat...

We’ve been hearing the saying “The pressure is getting worser”. The pressure is actually getting worser, especially with the youth. On this episode, I invited Deborah and David aka Banky to come and talk with us. And they said a lot of meaningful things and also their opinion. David shared a story of his trials to be in relationships and how it affected him. He also shared the way the pressure of...

On this episode, the host Benjamin was joined by Allen and Ore. The topic we talked on was “ it’s not always about love” We had a very good discussion and some arguments. We talked about people who cheat. And the question “ when someone cheats , does the person still love his partner?” Came up. We talked and argued on this question speaking from our own point of view. We also talked about ended re...

Shut up, you’re a man. Man up, stop crying men don’t cry , you can’t be sad , you can’t be scared you are a man. These are the things all men were told while growing up. On this episode, I have Joba and Fome with me and we talk about ‘Men And Sharing Emotions’. We talked about why it is difficult for men to share their emotions. Joba said the society is the No1 factor why men do not show emotions....

What are you dating for ? A lot of teenagers, youths and even some adults just jump ships , from one relationship to another without any aim whatsoever. If you’re well developed personally, you are supposed to know what you’re dating for. On this episode, Victoria, Ella and of course the host Benjamin had a round table discussion where there was arguments, vibe , disagreements, table shaking and m...

Love at first sight is an overwhelming sensation that feels like love but is a fairytale that is almost impossible, yet some people believe in it and some do not. On this episode I had Fisola and Fome as my guests. Fisola believes there’s love at first sight while Fome doesn’t. They both argued on the topic and took the show away from the host , which is a good thing. Fisola tried to twist the hea...

Vibes, disagreements, agreements, laughter and ultimate fun. This episode is called the Exclusive Talking stage, I had kitan and Victoria as my guests on this episode. An exclusive talking stage is a well developed talking stage where by some certain and obvious things happening in a titled relationship happen in the talking stage. We vibed and looked into some some really good questions and also...

This special episode is a Blind date. This blind date is a social experiment examining the possibility of forming and creating a bound or connection between two different people ( different gender), who do not know each other from Adam!. On this episode, I had confidence and korede set up for a blind date. They didn’t even know each other’s name until the date. They had 15 minutes to get to connec...

On this episode, I interviewed musty. He shared his experience in an open relationship. An open relationship has been accepted as normal in the society but yet still uncommon or rather people have not been really comfortable sharing the definition of their relationship. Musty story is a very interesting one and he left a warning “ you’ll think you can handle it until you get into it”. Listen to hi...

On this episode, Benjamin the host went solo. I talked about lack of contentment in my relationship and how it affected me when I realised. It went in an anticlimax kind of story telling, from how my first breakfast (breakup) lead to series and couple of situationships and fall out to the relationship where I wasn’t contented. Then later realising my lack of contentment after months of self growth...