Single and Probably Asexual

This week's episode, hear about some other badass Asexual's out there in the world doing good things, using their platform and proudly being Ace in a very sex centered world! Chidera Eggerue - Author, public speaker, certified BADDIE and podcast host of The Slum Flower Hour IG @ theslumflower Yasmin Benoit - Writer, Activist, Model and creator of the hashtag, #thisiswhatasexuallookslike IG...

Hindsight is 20/20, and there was certainly 20/20 clarity on how I have always been Ace, I just didn't see all the signs until later in life! If you relate, even just a little bit, reach out! Find me on Instagram, comment on the show's episode post, inquire to be on the podcast even! I am always looking for like minded people to have a discussion with. This world can feel lonely sometimes,...

👋 I'm back. On the last day of Mental Health Awareness month (yes, I see the irony in posting on the last day, but if you deal with mental health issues, that fact that it's getting in during the right month- is a win) I am back on my podcast! We naturally have yet again, another very vulnerable episode. There are tears, but we love our tears. I also want to mention, everything I share on...

This week, I chat about a whole bunch of different branches of Asexuality and some personal viewpoints of what it's like living as an Ace person in a world full of hyper sexuality. For the one percenters in this entire world, Ace people have so many different sub-categories, if you will, of how you can identify as Asexual. For those who think being Asexual is linear, think again! Slumflower Ho...

Yuki is back! During pride month we decided to just go for it and record an episode, my first video episode with another guest! There is no real theme, or topic for this episode, aside from padam, if you know you know. However, we both could not stop laughing during this whole episode, and I think you will too! We chat about everything LGBTQIA, including some icons we love, some past important dat...

I first want to mention on this episode that I am slowly but surely getting used to video... When the photographer isn't behind the lens, how does she know she's blurry the whole entire video?? We're learning, but still posting and showing up blurry because it's where I was at this day. A back to back solo episode and one where I quite literally free-balled the whole thing. I decid...

In the land of the free... Don't you think everyone deserves to be? Pride Month 2023 This month is a special month. It's Pride month and for me, it's my first Pride month being out as queer and asexual! What a time to celebrate right? I hoped so, but this month is coming with a very heavy sadness to it. For the first time on over 40 years, the LGBTQIA + community is under a national st...

One heron, two heron's, three! Ever since Lindsay and I met, there has always been a magical force that surrounds us. It feels like a little protection barrier that allows us to shine, express and share our truth every time we collaborate. From the magical three herons we saw when we met for Lindsay's photoshoot, to this podcast, where she came over to my home in Bellingham to record this...

Bb's first time traveling internationally, SOLO!  As I recover from sickness from said solo travel, come listen to me chat about what I loved the most about this trip! As someone who is on their own 24/7 and also traveled in a van solo for 2 years, I knew that I was ready for this trip! At 30 mind you. It has still taken me quite some time to muster up the courage to travel internationally on...

WOW- one of my favorite episodes so far. It's always treat to bear witness to the incredible human that is Nica/Nico Selvaggio (they/them) Nico is someone that exudes vulnerability, compassion, talent, knowledge and who is overall, someone who creates their own space in this world and is just someone that I admire deeply. In this episode Nico and I discuss an ever going topic this podcast seems to...

For over half of my life, I have subjected myself to watching these terrible reality love shows. And for what?! To walk away every season disappointed and quite frankly pissed off at the people they choose to be contestants on these shows. Knowing that every season is the same damn thing happening over and over again. I quite literally feel like I am in the Twilight Zone. It's the same stuff, the...

This weeks interview episode is with two best friends, and photography clients of mine, Adair and Tori! I met these two a couple years ago when they both hired me to do a best friend photoshoot! They had an amazing little week of friendship celebration that also included tattoos, matching piercings and a boudoir photoshoot! When we had our session I remember vividly how they both spoke about being...

This weeks solo episode, I will be adding onto my last solo episode, Compulsory Sexuality Pt. 1. Compulsory Sexuality is the idea that everyone thinks and feels the same about sex. We all want it, we all need it, we all have to have it in order to be functioning members of society and productive humans. And one of the bigger ideas and displays of normative heterosexuality, is that women are subser...

Tantra. Don't lie, you know the first thing you think about when you hear this word is sex. But- Lona is here today to reassure you that Tantra, first and foremost, starts from within and bigger than the correlation to sex and partnership, tantra can be expressed and practiced on your own! MIND BLOWN. But in all reality, as Lona so eloquently states on this Podcast Interview, "It always starts wit...

This weeks solo episode, I will be chatting about compulsory sexuality. This topic will definitely be a two parter, as there is a lot to discuss. Compulsory Sexuality is the idea that everyone thinks and feels the same about sex. We all want it, we all need it, we all have to have it in order to be functioning members of society and productive humans. Compulsory sexuality also upholds western norm...

New interview episode out now, with my good friend Zach! Celibacy, it's cool, trust us.⁠ TW: Domestic abuse, generational trauma, substance abuse Before I even made real moves with this podcast, I always knew that I wanted my friend Zach to be a guest! As burner friends, former roommates and current board game night buddy, Zach and I have gotten to be quite close and is a dear friend of mine.⁠ Kno...

"Did you ever hear someone ask someone else, mostly women, why are you not in a relationship? And the responses often is, because I am having fun. I think there is something pretty profound and big there."⁠ ⁠ Listen to me chat on this episode about the perspective of being a single, 30 year old woman in the day and age of 2022. I always used to feel ashamed for never having real relationships and...

Join me on my second interview with my new amazing friend, Dr. Katy Cook! Katy and I met not too long ago at a van life meetup in California, became fast friends and now have winter holiday plans in Mexico at the end of this year. That's a pretty great start to a friendship, eh? I think so! Katy and I dive into the psychology behind sex and what it means for both of us. Her, identifying as being h...

This episode was not easy to record. Lately I have been grieving a lot of friendships that are no longer the same. This point in my life has shown great difficulties and strife in my day to day. My relationships have not been the same since starting Van Life, since 2020, since life has forced us to change drastically, and maybe that's a good thing... Through all the had times, there is a big, brig...

Come listen to my first interview of the podcast with my dear friend, Yuki Kashiwaya, where we discuss in great candidness, are we asexual and pansexual enough?! As babies into this very large spectrum of being LGBTQIA+, me more so, we chat about our fears we have around our own labels, where we feel we fit into the community and our determination for continued growth and love through and within o...

This is my story. I am the way I am today because of my past. I don't regret a single thing that has happened to me because it has placed me where I am today, it's also landed me here to this podcast. Come listen as I rehash my past, where I find myself today and my hopes and desires for my future. TW: Cancer, grief  www.kendrakphoto.com IG @kendrakphoto TikTok @kendrakphoto

Welcome to the podcast!  I'm Kendra K, boudoir, branding and wedding photographer and now, podcast host! Listen to my beginnings of this podcast, how it came to be, how long I have quite literally waited to do this and how excited I am for the future of this podcast and the growth, learning and love that will come from this. Follow me on social media and book a photo session if you'd like! ww...