Sidebar Social

What happens after the custody battle is over and the challenges keep coming? In this episode of Sidebar Social®, Jennifer L. Grinke and Dana J. Stewart welcome back stepparent Tori Bradbury for an honest conversation about life after a contested custody case. Four years after the ruling, Tori shares how her family moved from constant tension to a more peaceful home through parallel parenting, fir...

In this episode of Sidebar Social®, Jennifer L. Grinke and Dana J. Stewart sit down with Texas personal injury attorney Scott Snellings, founder of Snellings Law. to talk about what really happens after an accident, and what injured people should know before dealing with an insurance company.  Scott takes us behind the scenes of a personal injury case, from what to do immediately after an accident...

What should you do if you're pulled over for suspected DWI in Texas? Should you agree to roadside field sobriety tests? What happens if you refuse? And what exactly are officers looking for when they ask you to walk the line or stand on one leg?  In this episode of Sidebar Social®, Jennifer L. Grinke and Dana J. Stewart sit down with veteran criminal defense attorney Bo Kalabus, senior partne...

What role does forensic psychology play in child custody cases, and how are psychological evaluations used to help courts make important decisions about children? In this episode of Sidebar Social, hosts Jennifer L. Grinke and Dana J. Stewart welcome forensic psychologist Dr. Kevin Goldberg (Psy. D.) to explain the differences between clinical psychological evaluations, forensic evaluations, and c...

Terms like "narcissist," "gaslighting," and "parental alienation" are everywhere—but are they being used correctly? In this episode of Sidebar Social, hosts Jennifer L. Grinke and Dana J. Stewart welcome back licensed professional counselor Kathleen Schofield to separate fact from fiction and explain what these commonly used psychology terms really mean. Together, the...

How is child support really calculated? Does 50/50 custody automatically eliminate child support? And what happens if a parent is self-employed or intentionally underreporting income? In this episode of Sidebar Social, family law attorneys Dana Stewart and Jennifer Grinke take a deep dive into one of the most misunderstood areas of family law: child support. They explain the difference between inc...

How much of the way we parent is shaped by our own childhood? In this episode of Sidebar Social, Jennifer and Dana sit down with therapist, parenting facilitator, and co-parenting expert Dr. Linda Rollins-Threats to explore the psychology behind successful co-parenting and why high-conflict relationships often follow predictable patterns. Dr. Rollins-Threats shares her powerful "45 record&quo...

Most people think divorce is about court dates, paperwork, and legal battles — but the biggest changes are often the ones nobody talks about. In this episode of Sidebar Social, Dana and Jennifer discuss the emotional and practical realities of divorce beyond the courtroom: identity shifts, changing friendships, parenting alone, financial anxiety, holidays that feel different, dating after long mar...

In this episode of Sidebar Social, we’re joined by estate planning attorney Matt Sanderson to discuss the things families often overlook when planning for the future. We break down who actually needs a will, who may (or may not) need a trust, common estate planning mistakes, and the real-life problems that can arise when families fail to plan ahead. From guardianship issues and beneficiary designa...

Can you legally record your spouse? When is it okay to introduce a new partner to your kids? And what happens if your ex is talking about you behind your back? In this episode of Sidebar Social, we dive into Round Two of your FAQs, covering co-parenting conflicts, introducing new partners, financial control, and grandparents’ rights. If you’ve ever asked, “Can they actually do that?”—this episode...

Talking about a prenup might not sound romantic, but it could be one of the most important conversations you have before marriage.  In this episode of Sidebar Social , Jennifer and Dana break down prenups (and postnups) in a practical, no-nonsense way: what they cover, how they’re created, what they can’t do, and how to avoid common pitfalls.  Whether you’re getting married, are married, or just c...

In this episode of Sidebar Social, we sit down with Jennifer Richardson, a Texas family law attorney who is frequently appointed as an Amicus Attorney, as she breaks down one of the most misunderstood roles in family law cases. Jennifer explains what an amicus attorney is (and isn’t), who they represent, and how they assist the court in high-conflict custody cases. We also discuss how the amicus r...

Not everything you hear about divorce and custody is true! In this week’s Sidebar Social episode, we are debunking some of the common myths about divorce, custody, and child support in Texas, AND answering your questions. Join us as we break down what’s true, what’s false, and that place in between.

Jennifer L. Grinke and Dana J. Stewart sit down with criminal defense attorney Ryne Sandel, a partner at Whalen Law Office, to unpack the world of protective orders — what they are, how they work, and why they’re so often misunderstood. From emergency orders to long-term protections, we explore how these legal tools are issued, enforced, and challenged, and what happens when criminal and family la...

Divorce isn’t just a legal process—it’s an emotional upheaval. In this powerful and eye-opening episode of Sidebar Social, licensed therapist Kathleen Schofield returns to help us unpack the hidden grief that often goes unrecognized during and after a family law case. From mourning the loss of identity and routine to navigating “the year of firsts” post-divorce, Kathleen shares valuable insights i...

Is there a way to divorce that doesn't involve court battles, scorched earth tactics, or drained bank accounts? On this episode of Sidebar Social, hosts Jennifer L. Grinke and Dana J. Stewart sit down with Katie Zuverink—licensed counselor and seasoned neutral mental health professional in the collaborative divorce process—to break it all down. Katie shares what collaborative divorce really i...

In this eye-opening episode, we’re joined by Steven Bradley, Cybersecurity & Technology Expert at Our Family Wizard and former FBI agent, to unpack the darker side of tech in family law. From hidden trackers and spoofed messages to spyware and social media manipulation, Steven shares real-world insights into how technology is weaponized in high-conflict cases—and what parents and family law pr...

In this powerful episode, we’re joined by seasoned martial arts instructor and safety expert, Erik Hicks, to talk about a topic that’s all too common in family law—domestic violence. We unpack the warning signs, explore how abuse patterns tend to escalate over time, and offer practical safety tips for those navigating co-parenting in high-conflict situations. Whether you're a legal profession...

In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode, Tori Bradburry opens up about what it’s like being a stepmother in the middle of high-conflict family law litigation. As her husband’s case played out in court, Tori became more than a bystander—she became a source of strength, support, and stability for her blended family. Her story is one of love, frustration, and fierce resilience—perfect for any stepp...

In this heartwarming episode, I chat with Amy Tyson, the founder of Happiness In The Heartache, a company dedicated to supporting children and parents through the challenges of divorce. She shares her expert insights on helping kids process their feelings with creative tools like her children’s books and workbooks, and discusses her journey as a certified divorce and co-parenting coach. Tune in fo...

Ever wondered what goes on behind the bench, or what makes mediation tick? In this episode, we’re joined by Suzanne Wooten, a former District Court Judge turned full-time mediator who’s spilling the tea on everything from courtroom drama to the secrets of successful family law mediation. With insights from both sides of the gavel, she shares pro tips for trial attorneys and folks about to head int...

In this episode, we’re joined by Daryl Parker with Blackfish Intelligence, a U.S. Marine Corps veteran and board-certified criminal defense investigator with over 25 years of experience. Daryl shares how his investigative services can be a game-changer in family law cases, from surveillance and trash analysis to DNA testing and forensics. Daryl explains how private investigators play a vital role...

In this episode, we sit down with Noel Cookman of The Mortgage Institute, a divorce lending specialist with over two decades of experience at the intersection of divorce and mortgage finance. Noel shares his expert insights on how to navigate mortgage financing during a divorce, offering practical advice for both divorce attorneys and clients. By getting involved early in the process, Noel helps c...

In this episode, we sit down with Rick Willey, owner of Keeping the Peace, LLC, a service dedicated to providing supervised visitations for families in North Texas. As a bailiff for the 417th Judicial District Court of Collin County, Texas, Rick shares his expertise on how supervised visitations can be a vital tool in family law cases. He discusses best practices for ensuring smooth and successful...

In this episode, Jennifer and Dana were joined by licensed professional counselor Christy Bradshaw Schmidt, a trusted expert in child custody evaluations. With nearly 600 evaluations under her belt, Christy shares her deep insights into the evaluation process, offering expert advice on navigating high-conflict custody disputes. She discusses common issues like relocation, resist/refuse dynamics, a...