Sex With Everyone

Recorded in Macon, GA. Coby [she/her] has lived several lives in one. Growing up queer in the South meant cross-dressing on the regular just to feel like herself — and that was just the beginning. She opens up about her transition journey, what she's contemplating next, the devastating loss of her mother, and the surprisingly fascinating world of life as a truck driver. Fair warning: you never...

Chatting in Decatur, GA. Lilith [she/her] was 18 when she was sex trafficked. What followed was a decade of working as a prostitute — a world most of us only hear about secondhand. She walks us through how that world actually operated, the terrifying moments she had to survive, and what a decade of that life did to her sense of self, safety, and relationships. This one isn't easy listening — b...

Chatting in Richmond, VA. Goddess B [she/her] discovered that her husband slut boi [he/him] had been secretly seeing professional Dominatrixes behind her back. What happened next is not what you'd expect. Instead of the relationship ending, Goddess B made the extraordinary choice to try to understand his world — and that decision cracked open a whole new universe for both of them. A story abou...

Recorded at Burning Man, Black Rock Desert, NV. This episode is unlike any other. Riley DJed a live set on KAEZ — a solar-powered radio station — and pulled strangers off the playa to talk about sex on the spot. Kim, Tiger, Cheyenne, and Reptile Dysfunction (yes, really) came through to share Burning Man sex stories, candid takes on erectile dysfunction, and the kind of raw honesty that only seems...

Recorded in Tempe, AZ. Lynn [she/her] and Gabriel [he/him] have been together for over three decades. They raised three kids, made it through the hard years, and when the nest finally emptied — they opened their relationship. They talk about how they've made non-monogamy work after a lifetime of traditional partnership, what it was like to share a girlfriend together, and how they've kept...

Recorded in Gilbert, AZ. Buddy [he/him] has been living the non-monogamous lifestyle for years — and he has the stories to prove it. But beneath the entertaining group sex anecdotes is something more complex: a man who witnessed serious childhood trauma and has spent years understanding how that shaped the way he loves and connects with people. This conversation moves between funny and heavy, expl...

Recorded in Glendale, AZ. CC [they/she] is 23 years old and has already done more identity excavation than most people do in a lifetime. Growing up in a Mormon family while being queer meant learning very early how to hide. The military became their unlikely escape route — trading one kind of structure for another, but gaining a freedom they'd never had before. They also get into what it's...

Recorded in Mesa, AZ. Ethan [he/him] grew up bisexual in Missouri — which is its own kind of adventure — and somewhere along the way also became an atheist and Satanist, which has a real impact on who he dates and how he approaches relationships. And then there's the chapter where he genuinely believed he was a trans woman. He talks through all of it with openness and self-awareness that makes...

Recorded in Phoenix, AZ. Chaos Keeper [he/him] is a chaos magician — and yes, that absolutely comes up. Fresh off a flash-pan marriage that burned bright and fast, he opens up about loving that intensely and coming out the other side. He goes deep into his experiences with sex magic, drug-induced intimacy, and his deliberately sexless polyamorous relationship — and the very intentional reasons beh...

Recorded in Chico, CA. Stormy [she/her] is at a turning point. She's finally walking away from a decade-long relationship with a woman — one with no sex in it — and she's ready to start actually living. But to understand where she's going, you need to hear where she's been: losing a baby young, getting emancipated at 16 to marry a man twice her age, and building coping mechanisms j...

Recorded in Reno, NV. Curious [they/he] has been doing van life for the past six months and made it to Burning Man with Riley — which is where this friendship started. Now they sit down to talk about what it's actually like to come out as queer in your late 30s, the freedom and terror that comes with it, and why kink is the next frontier they want to explore. A shorter, intimate episode full o...

Recorded in Salt Lake City, UT. Mel [they/them] has lived in a Mormon-dominated city for over a decade and watched it slowly transform — tracking what that shift has meant for their comfort as a queer person. They open up about coming out as nonbinary, how that changed their marriage, the small rituals they practice for gender affirmation, and — trigger warning — their experiences with sexual assa...

Recorded out in the wild of Vedauwoo National Park, WY — and the setting matches the candor. Mikey [he/him] talks openly about his experiences with glory holes, what it's been like navigating a marriage where he and his wife aren't sexually compatible, and the ways he's learned to deal with that reality over the years. A short, honest conversation from an unexpected corner of America....

Recorded in New Haven, CT. West [they/them] takes us on a generous, detailed journey through their gender identity — what it means to be trans masculine and nonbinary, what starting testosterone actually felt like, ongoing work around body dysmorphia, and the mental and emotional states that have moved through them along the way. They also grew up in a strict religious household, and they don'...

Recorded in Providence, RI. Feluria [she/they] sits somewhere on the asexual spectrum — and she's also a professional sex worker. Far from a contradiction, she explains how her asexuality actually enhances the work she does and shapes the relationships she has in ways that might surprise you. A short but genuinely mind-expanding conversation about how desire — or the absence of it — intersects...

Recorded in Albany, NY. Fox [he/they/she] gets kinky — in glorious detail. They walk through their biggest kinks, what they actually get out of attending kink events, and how all of it led them to realize they're queer. But this episode has a surprisingly relatable second act: Riley and Fox spend a long stretch on the art of giving and receiving compliments, and how to connect with someone new...

Recorded in Hudson Valley, NY. Phil [he/him] is a community leader in the kink scene in his area — and he's thought deeply about what that actually means and what it costs. He gets into the responsibilities of holding space for a community built around vulnerability and power, how his own sexuality continues to evolve, and the very particular challenge of being a father while navigating a non-...

Recorded in Toronto, Canada. Malcolm Lovejoy [he/she/they] is a Canadian pornstar and one of the most joyful, warm, and clear-eyed people to sit down with on this show. He talks about what it's actually like to be in the porn industry — how emotionally exposed it can feel, what it means to navigate a space that doesn't always make room for people like him, and his experience dealing with f...

Recorded in Indianapolis, IN. Joshua [they/them] works in the food industry, identifies as pansexual and nonbinary, and has an absolutely chaotic energy that makes for one of the more freewheeling episodes on the show. Wild stories, a sharp sense of humor, and refreshingly open about their coming out journey and everything their identity has meant for how they move through the world. Easy, fun, an...

Recorded in Bloomington, IN. Miranda [she/her] has tried many kinds of sex work throughout her life and has clear opinions about which she's loved and which she hasn't. She goes into detailed kink territory, then pivots to jaw-dropping medical horror stories from her time working in an ER — trigger warning for blood, guns, and graphic genital medical situations. Through all of it she is, a...

Recorded in Indianapolis, IN. Riley sits down with Jenny [she/her], a friend of 20 years — and the familiarity makes this one feel different. When you've known someone that long, the conversation goes places it simply can't with a stranger. Jenny opens up about her experience with sexuality during and after pregnancy, and they really get into it together in a way that's both funny and...

Recorded in Lexington, KY. Luke [he/him] is a demisexual man — and this conversation is as much philosophical as it is personal. He shares his outlook on life, various sexual experiences over the years, and what he's genuinely looking for in his future. But the most remarkable moment comes when he arrives at a real-time realization mid-conversation about where his demisexuality likely originat...

Recorded in Chattanooga, TN. Nora [she/her] takes us on a full journey through her sexual and romantic life — starting from her first time at seventeen, through her feelings about oral sex, the emotional terrain of long-distance relationships, what it's been like to date married men, and — trigger warning — an abortion. She doesn't flinch from any of it, and neither does Riley. A candid, w...

Recorded in Cleveland, GA. Alex [he/him] and Doug [he/him] were born and raised in north Georgia and have been together for over 15 years. They talk about what it was like to come out as gay in high school — and how empowering rather than devastating that turned out to be — the fantasies they act on and the ones they keep just between themselves, and what it looks like to still be genuinely curiou...

Recorded in Atlanta, GA. Pinky [he/him] has been seeing professional Dominatrixes since his twenties — and he is very specific about what he gets out of it and what they make him do. But this conversation takes a deeper turn when he opens up about his experience with prostate cancer, how it permanently changed his orgasms, and the unexpected way it completely reframed how he thinks about his body,...