Seeing Other People

We're getting deep for our annual EOY episode. Camila Vola (my fabulous editor and associate producer) interviews me as I reflect on one hell of a year. I open up about what I've struggled with, the challenges I face with my job, and what I wish I could do differently. We talk about the highs and lows of wedding planning, how I've grown and what I've added to my life in 2024 that I'm bringing into...

Jenn and Robbie are here to inspire you with their incredible journey of long-distance love. They share how they met through an app across state lines, navigated the complexities of a relationship between New York and Austin, and overcame the odds to build a life together. They also offer practical dating advice, emphasizing the importance of following your gut and the right timing in relationship...

In this episode, relationship therapist Mackinzie Rummell returns to discuss crucial topics in dating and relationships. Mackenzie shares insights on dating intentionally for marriage, managing vulnerability and anxiety in relationships, and handling conflicts both early and in long-term dating. We also answered listener questions, including dealing with snooping on a partner's internet history, b...

I welcome Mackinzie Rummell , a relationship therapist based in California, to the podcast. Mackinzie shares her journey into therapy, spurred by personal relationship crises during college. She delves into her background, her passion for helping couples, and her transition from chaos to clarity. Mackinzie discusses her previous engagement and the difficult decision to break it off before meeting...

Today I'm joined by Max Davidson , an award-winning magician. Max shares his captivating journey into magic, inspired by a childhood experience, and discusses the unique human connections and surprises that magic facilitates. We dive into Max's hit New York-based show 'Stand Up Magic,' which merges comedy and magic for an affordable, high-quality experience (perfect for date night). Max also revea...

I'm joined by Paige Crutcher , host of Adultish Wines , to discuss modern relationships, dating apps, and personal growth. We kick the episode off with one of Paige's hilariously wild dating stories, and then dive deeper into a discussion about people-pleasing, relationship statuses, coping mechanisms, handling rejection, and maintaining a positive mindset in the dating scene. Haven’t been in a re...

Today I'm joined by Wren Woodson and Mabel Kabani , hosts of NEWSGIRLS . We discuss their journey from meeting at 60 Minutes to creating their own news podcast aimed at young audiences. We explore the decline of dating apps, the rise of in-person events, friends in different life stages, the art of being a wingwoman, and more, Want more dating advice? Check out this playlist filled with episodes a...

I'm joined by Lizzie, a 28 year old who opens up about falling for a narcissistic sociopath and finding out he married someone else while they were dating. She shares how he isolated her from her family, how they planned to move in together, and the warning signs she missed along the way. We hear what led her to think he might be hiding something and how she went about finding proof before confron...

Dara Pollak , content creator, writer and former food blogger, returns to discuss her journey through a devastating breakup and her path to healing. Dara shares her emotional and transformative story of being blindsided in a serious relationship and how she managed to reclaim her life. She offers practical advice on dealing with breakups, including the importance of therapy, the benefits of no con...

In this episode, a 30-year-old single veterinarian resident shares her challenges of dating while pursuing a demanding career in veterinary medicine. She discusses the complexities of maintaining relationships, setting boundaries, and the regional differences she observed in dating cultures as she's lived in three parts of the country throughout her medical journey. She also offers advice on movin...

Today we're joined by Noam Raiter , a content creator, doctor, and host of You Are Not Too Busy podcast to discuss how she balances her demanding medical career with her relationship, friendships, and daily life. She shares her journey into medicine, the struggles of maintaining a social life, and how her relationship with her boyfriend Sam has thrived despite her busy schedule. Additionally, Noam...

So you're probably wondering why I'm in your feed today. I wanted to share my new favorite podcast, FML Talk. If you’ve been royally f%cked over in life, this is the place for you. Host Gabrielle Stone had the rug ripped out from underneath her not once, but twice, by the paws of shitty men. But instead of landing flat on her ass, she built a career out of it. Penning her best-selling tell-all, Ea...

In this week's solo episode, I’m catching you up on my life and answering listener questions about navigating societal and family pressures. I share an exciting and intimidating update, reflect on embracing stillness after a busy season, and talk about the pressure to “keep up” with milestones like marriage, babies, and houses. Later, I offer advice to a listener feeling stuck in her late twenties...

Ken Reid returns to 'Seeing Other People' to discuss various pieces of dating advice. Together with we delve into the pros and cons of popular dating tips and phrases, offering different perspectives on what might work, what doesn't, and why context is crucial. Topics include the validity of statements like 'if they wanted to, they would,' 'the best way to get over someone is by getting under some...

In this episode, Avi from California opens up about his experience with cheating and the profound self-reflection journey that followed. He delves into the initial stages of his relationship, the lead-up to his infidelity, and the addiction-like behaviors that ensued. Avi candidly discusses the aftermath, the steps he took to understand and change his behavior, and how therapy and vulnerability pl...

Jackie Shames , friend and co-host of Fill Your Cup is back to chat all things confidence, learning from past relationships, and staying true to who you are. Jackie shares her experiences dating between Miami and New York, how the seasons have been impacting her dating life, and the challenges of balancing personal and professional life. We discuss the the New York influencer scene, friendship dyn...

Bethany and Walter share their heartwarming real-life journey of meeting on an app and building a relationship over the past 1.5 years. They delve into their initial dating struggles, including catfishing and ghosting, and their eventual connection that sparked over a phone call and FaceTime. The couple discusses the importance of open communication, handling financial changes, how they support ea...

Felix Levine , entrepreneur and host of Unlike Me , joins the show to discuss his journey in podcasting, the dynamics of his relationship with Serena Kerrigan, and his personal growth. Felix and Ilana delve into why he started his podcast during a challenging time in college and the lessons learned from interviewing successful individuals. Felix shares insights on the importance of genuine connect...

Harry returns to the show after two years to discuss his life journey, highlighting the lessons learned from navigating singlehood, personal growth, and embracing new passions like photography. Throughout the conversation, they explore Harry's experiences with dating, the societal pressures of relationships, and his journey to understand and accept his neurodiversity. The episode emphasizes making...

In this episode, Rebekah Lipsky , a therapist specializing in major life transitions, joins us to share her personal experience of calling off her engagement and wedding after a five-and-a-half-year relationship. She delves into the emotional challenges of such decisions, the importance of aligning one's values, and her journey of self-discovery post-breakup. The discussion includes insights on ha...

Adrian, a self-identified 27-year-old male nerd from Canberra, Australia, shares his experiences and insights on dating, offering a male perspective. He discusses his dating history, including early high school relationships and the impact of a serious breakup at age 18. Adrian explains his cautious approach to dating apps and reflects on the challenges of dating as an introvert. He emphasizes the...

The incredible Suzy Welch joins us today to discuss how uncovering your values can help you find and build lasting relationships. Suzy is a public speaker, author, and professor of NYU's infamous "Becoming You" course. Suzy shares her journey of self-discovery through her 'Becoming You' methodology along with her life-changing decision making method 10-10-10 (yes, you can apply it to making decisi...

Brandon shares his story of how his marriage to the love of his life ended in divorce. He opens up about his growth and healing journey post-divorce, and what it was like to reenter the dating world as a man in his early 30s who hadn’t dated someone new since 2010. Brandon shares how he has since moved halfway across the country and started a new job while navigating the complexities of modern dat...

In this episode Ilana chats with Gab Saper , a personal stylist who focuses on building confidence and body acceptance through fashion. They discuss the challenges millennials face due to past diet cultures and explore dressing for body types without aiming to look skinnier or taller. Gab shares her unique love story, beginning with a childhood camp romance that rekindled years later in New York,...

In this warm and engaging episode, Ilana welcomes her parents, Barbara and Chuck, to share their charming courtship story, personal insights on love and marriage, and how they met on a hot summer night at an Israeli bond fundraiser. Reflecting on their journey together, they discuss relationship dynamics, parenting, and the evolving landscape of dating from their pre-internet days to the present....