Relentless Thursdays

What does it really mean to create emotional safety for men? In this episode, Kennyetta reflects on vulnerability, grief, joy, and the ways men can be misunderstood in relationships and online. Two social media clips become mirrors for examining assumptions, snap judgments, and the stories we tell ourselves about people we barely know. Through personal memories, family dynamics, and reflections on...

This November, we're talking about the tables we build, the people we invite to sit with us, and what it really means to make room for one another. Because life is about more than finding a seat at someone else's table. It's about examining what we bring, how we show up, and whether the spaces we create allow others to be fully themselves. From emotional safety and vulnerability to gra...

How I've Become | Featuring Dr. Wanda J. Herndon What does it take to walk into rooms where no one looks like you, challenge expectations, and create a path that others can follow? In this episode of  Boldly Becoming , Kennyetta sits down with Dr. Wanda J. Herndon, author of  Working Class to Breaking Glass , for an inspiring conversation about courage, leadership, identity, and the experience...

What if caring for your body wasn't about trying to turn back the clock, but about preparing for all the life you still want to live? In this Season 5 bonus episode, Kennyetta widens the conversation from A Love Letter to My Breasts into a funny, tender, and deeply personal reflection on the relationship we build with the bodies carrying us through our lives. From body "invoices," di...

What happens when you realize your body has been becoming right alongside you? In A Love Letter to My Breasts , Kennyetta has a funny, grown, intimate conversation about breasts, bras, gravity, sexuality, mammograms, body changes, and learning to love the body that exists now instead of constantly comparing it to the body that used to be. From discovering the difference between being dry and bra d...

After surviving the zombies, Fred at the window, Keisha's questionable decisions, and Brandon learning the terms and conditions of our fictional apocalypse relationship, we're going somewhere deeper. In Daily Bread , Kennyetta explores what sustains us when life changes and the old world doesn't come back. Through the Samaritan woman at the well, Israel and manna in the wilderness, the widow of Za...

Kennyetta has watched enough zombie movies to believe she knows exactly how to survive the apocalypse. Don't open the door. Don't split up. And if somebody gets bitten, we are NOT having a family meeting about it. The problem? Surviving the zombies may be the easy part. In this hilarious and unexpectedly reflective episode, Kennyetta imagines what would actually happen if civilization coll...

For most of my life, I was certain about one part of my future: I was going to get married. It wasn't just a childhood daydream. It became a prayer, a desire, and eventually part of the story I assumed God was writing for me. But what happens when you reach a place where you are genuinely happy, deeply loved, fully living - and you realize the life God is building with you may not require the...

October has entered the chat, Boldarians... and apparently she brought questions, an apocalypse, daily bread, breasts, body changes, and one very important conversation about who we become along the way. In this October trailer for Season 5, Living in Our Becoming gets even more honest, funny, sacred, uncertain, and wonderfully ridiculous. This month, I'm asking what happens when the life you...

Boldarians, we have done some WORK this month. We have examined ourselves, talked about discernment, decided what deserves our time, wrestled with old versions of ourselves, and asked plenty of questions. So today? I do not want to fix anything. In Things I Like About My Life Right Now , we are ending September with something beautifully simple: noticing the actual experience of being ourselves. N...

What happens when you have changed, healed, gotten sober, found treatment, learned new tools, or simply grown into someone you barely recognize - but the people who have known you the longest still remember who you used to be? In When You're No Longer Who They Remember , we're having a layered conversation about family, history, mental health, recovery, accountability, trust, reconciliatio...

What happens when the question isn't Can I? but Should I? In Just Because I Can Doesn't Mean I Should , we're talking about the maturity and discernment required to say no to things that aren't necessarily bad. Sometimes the opportunity is good. The person is good. The money is good. The door is open. You are qualified. You absolutely could make it work - and it still may not belon...

Monday, we talked about the things I simply do not have time for anymore. But saying no was never the whole story. As Boldly Becoming expands into new spaces and the opportunities I once prayed for begin requiring more of me, I found myself thinking about sacrifice - what I'm willing to give, what I'm willing to rearrange, and what this next season will require. Then another question inter...

After opening Season 5 with some heavy conversations about the hidden cost of becoming, baby... today we're going OUTSIDE. [laughs] In Things 42-Year-Old Me Simply Does Not Have Time For , we're talking about what happens when you know yourself well enough to stop spending your time, energy, cute shoes, and parking money on things that simply are not worth the squeeze. From questionable 9:...

We're continuing our walk through the house in The Hidden Cost of Becoming - Part II. In Part I, we opened the doors to Grief, Rejection, and Healing. Now we're stepping into the final four rooms: Purpose, Success, Discipline, and Self-Acceptance. What happens when you understand your why, but the people around you don't? When the life you're grateful for still holds an unanswered...

Season 5 begins with The Hidden Cost of Becoming - Part I , a conversation about a kind of loneliness we don't always expect: the loneliness that can meet us after the healing, after the boundary, after the answered prayer, and after we've started becoming someone new. In Part I, we're walking through three rooms in the house of loneliness: Grief, Rejection, and Healing. We're talk...

There are moments when you think you understand what God is doing - and then there are moments when you look back and realize you had no idea. In "What God Was Building," the final Season 4 Reloaded recap, we're stepping back from individual episodes to look at the season as a whole: the lessons, the growth, the obedience, the unexpected turns, and the fingerprints of God that someti...

Boldarians, WE. ARE. HERE. Season FIVE of Boldly Becoming has officially arrived! This season, we’re not waiting for some future version of ourselves to finally show up before we start living. We’re standing in prayers we once prayed, growth we worked for, healing we fought for, and opportunities we couldn’t have completely planned—and we’re learning what it means to actually  live while we’re sti...

What does becoming sound like? After a season of conversations about boldly becoming, walking in purpose, and learning to love ourselves unconditionally along the way, this episode turns the microphone toward the journey itself—and toward the Boldarian community. Kennyetta explores four parts of the lifestyle of becoming:  trust, preparation, boundaries, and becoming . What does it mean to trust G...

Every new season asks us a question: What are you taking with you? We spend a lot of time talking about what we need to release—the habits, relationships, expectations, and old versions of ourselves that can no longer travel where we're going. But what about the things worth keeping? In this episode of  Boldly Becoming , Kennyetta reflects on what it means to intentionally “pack your heart” be...

What happens when you look back at who you used to be…and realize you barely recognize her? In this deeply reflective episode of  Boldly Becoming , Kennyetta opens journals spanning more than two decades and discovers something she wasn't expecting. She thought she was reading her story. Instead, she was reading the faithfulness of God. Through handwritten prayers, old dreams, heartbreak, unan...

Who helped build the person you are today? Some people become roots. Some become branches. Some are only with us for a season. And some relationships arrive like storms—changing us in ways we may not understand until years later. In this bonus episode of  Boldly Becoming , Kennyetta uses the image of a growing tree to reflect on the relationships that shape our lives: family, friendships, mentors,...

What if some of your greatest lessons about love came from the places you never expected to learn them? In this episode of  Boldly Becoming , Kennyetta reflects on what 42 years of life, faith, family, friendship, heartbreak, singleness, and becoming have taught her about love—and how her understanding of it has changed along the way. Through six deeply personal questions, she explores the classro...

What would you say if you had the chance to sit beside your younger self? In this special bonus episode, I read a letter to the little girl who had no idea who she would become. It's a conversation filled with grace, honesty, healing, and the reminder that God's faithfulness isn't measured by how quickly He answers our prayers—but by how faithfully He walks with us through every season...

Have you ever looked at your life and realized you've become someone you never imagined? As I reflected on my 42nd birthday, I found myself saying something that has echoed through several seasons of my life:  I barely recognize her.  Not because I've become someone different, but because God has faithfully revealed parts of me I had never fully met. In this deeply personal episode, I shar...